During sex, sometime I just want to get it over with. I'm not ready to cum or lose the erection. I just want to relax or do something else like workout, have a drink, catch up on some shows. Lol. I know a lot of guys experienced it.
What do you do??? Do you try to finish? Or fake it ?
Just curious what other men do in this type of situation.
Hah.
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Here are my ideas
Roll play
tease in a public place
sex in public place
start to finish oral
Anal sex
sex in the morning coupon
wild card. anything goes (Maybe add few of these if you want him to be more open)
skip foreplay
no work sex (girl does all the work)
A coupon to let him buy anything he wants.
Roll play
tease in a public place
sex in public place
start to finish oral
Anal sex
sex in the morning coupon
wild card. anything goes (Maybe add few of these if you want him to be more open)
skip foreplay
no work sex (girl does all the work)
A coupon to let him buy anything he wants.
Advanced Wordsmith
Had a similar situation before back when I had a roommate. A girl I was dating had a habit of walking out of my room pretty skimpy. For example just a shirt or tank top and panties. I didn't think much of it until I notice my roommate was checking her out. I didn't get all upset or anything but he did express it bothered him.
Hope your talk with them goes well.
Hope your talk with them goes well.
Advanced Wordsmith
Yes, for a gf and maybe for marriage.
I have had past gfs, cheated on me and i was fine with it and my current gf cheated on me couple of months ago. She told me but I was fine with it and explained that she should have the right to explore. It also gives me the opportunity to hook up with fwbs occasionally without feeling guilty(gf not aware of fwbs).
If I had a wife, I think if I was involved I would be okay with it. I was involved with a swinger couple long time ago for about 2 years where the husband had to travel a lot for work. I was there first (as it was my first experiece with a couple) but during when he was gone, I was free to stay with the wife. It was good and they had a healthy marriage. After about 6 month, they started to get other people involved and host parties and when he was gone she would host with 2 to 4 people. towards the end of my involvement, it got too crazy so I left there little club.
I would be open to it in marriage but with some ground rule. I don't like the idea of vd.
I have had past gfs, cheated on me and i was fine with it and my current gf cheated on me couple of months ago. She told me but I was fine with it and explained that she should have the right to explore. It also gives me the opportunity to hook up with fwbs occasionally without feeling guilty(gf not aware of fwbs).
If I had a wife, I think if I was involved I would be okay with it. I was involved with a swinger couple long time ago for about 2 years where the husband had to travel a lot for work. I was there first (as it was my first experiece with a couple) but during when he was gone, I was free to stay with the wife. It was good and they had a healthy marriage. After about 6 month, they started to get other people involved and host parties and when he was gone she would host with 2 to 4 people. towards the end of my involvement, it got too crazy so I left there little club.
I would be open to it in marriage but with some ground rule. I don't like the idea of vd.
Advanced Wordsmith
We watch porn once in awhile just for fun. We would check on new ones that came out. She would send me links once in awhile and I have used it to get her to try new things with me. Like anal sex, she already had tried anal sex before but I used porn to express I like anal sex.
Advanced Wordsmith
How often do you get checked for STDs?
When do you get tested? After casual encounters? New partner? sex without protection?
I do it often, and a friend have told me I am being over obsessive about STDs.
This year I got tested 3 times already and I don't mind it because it's paid for by insurance.
When do you get tested? After casual encounters? New partner? sex without protection?
I do it often, and a friend have told me I am being over obsessive about STDs.
This year I got tested 3 times already and I don't mind it because it's paid for by insurance.
Advanced Wordsmith
The quickest I came, literally the second push. It was a girl I unexpectedly hooked up with (later she was my gf). It was so embarrassing.
Normally I would last about 15 to 25 minutes.
Long sessions can be up to 3+ hours but that's with edging and taking short breaks.
short ones, about 5 minute, from penetration to ejaculating.
Normally I would last about 15 to 25 minutes.
Long sessions can be up to 3+ hours but that's with edging and taking short breaks.
short ones, about 5 minute, from penetration to ejaculating.
Advanced Wordsmith
I agree with Magical Felix. Your partner does not need to know everything. But if you are trying to keep the relationship honest, tell your partner and ensure him it's not a replacement but an enhancer.
Maybe buy a toy that is smaller than his or a vibe that does not imitate a penis. Telling during sessions, that his is much bigger and better than the toy.
And like how many have suggested, go shopping for the toy together and try to be playful while you guys are shopping. I love going to the adult toy shop and always end up buying more things for the bedroom than intended, Additionally. it opens up communication to express wants, fantasize, and unexplored desires.
I love shopping around the clothing area. They have all sorts of sexy lingerie, panties (love the crotchless panties) costomes and role playing kits like nurse or maid, they are pretty cheap and fun.
Maybe buy a toy that is smaller than his or a vibe that does not imitate a penis. Telling during sessions, that his is much bigger and better than the toy.
And like how many have suggested, go shopping for the toy together and try to be playful while you guys are shopping. I love going to the adult toy shop and always end up buying more things for the bedroom than intended, Additionally. it opens up communication to express wants, fantasize, and unexplored desires.
I love shopping around the clothing area. They have all sorts of sexy lingerie, panties (love the crotchless panties) costomes and role playing kits like nurse or maid, they are pretty cheap and fun.
Advanced Wordsmith
hmm... would think the nurses would do all the work if you are doing a surgical procedure.
I groom regularly. Sometimes completely shaved but most time trimmed really short. Depending on my mood.
I use a cheap (think I bought mine for 30 bucks) electric body grooming kit and a use a body razor to shave it to the skin but I have used regular facial razor blade too.
Had my butt crack waxed before from a professional recommended by a lady friend and it wasn't too bad but would not do it again because it just feels awkward. haha,
Like Saintz suggested, cut it short and wax it. Muscle through the pain. haha.
I know there are specific pubic hair removal creams out there but don't know much about them. If you end up using a cream, please do share your experience. I am pretty curious too.
I groom regularly. Sometimes completely shaved but most time trimmed really short. Depending on my mood.
I use a cheap (think I bought mine for 30 bucks) electric body grooming kit and a use a body razor to shave it to the skin but I have used regular facial razor blade too.
Had my butt crack waxed before from a professional recommended by a lady friend and it wasn't too bad but would not do it again because it just feels awkward. haha,
Like Saintz suggested, cut it short and wax it. Muscle through the pain. haha.
I know there are specific pubic hair removal creams out there but don't know much about them. If you end up using a cream, please do share your experience. I am pretty curious too.
Advanced Wordsmith
Not married but my experience with angry sex was positive, but that was with only one partner.
We were in a serious relationship at a point we were talking about marriage, career, and children. But when we had angry sex it was often therapeutic because we realized we really weren't mad at each other but just stressed out. Angry sex was great because there sex was a little bit harder and more meaningful dirty talk. It heightened the mental pleasure. However, the best part about it was, afterward we talked it out while we just laid in bed.
The hardest part was finding the moment to approach her to engage in sex. My strategy was leaving the area when it got too heated up. i tried to leave after she had the last words and tried not to comment on it. Gave it like 20 minutes and I would go back strong and kissed her deep and firm. But didn't work out when she was mad at me for being me.
Like playing too much video game instead of looking for an apartment, refusing to talk to her parents, smoking cigars when I told her I would quit or cheating on her because I wanted to be the best wingman ever and screwing the cocking blocking friend while my friend hooks up with the girl hes' been talking to all night.
We were in a serious relationship at a point we were talking about marriage, career, and children. But when we had angry sex it was often therapeutic because we realized we really weren't mad at each other but just stressed out. Angry sex was great because there sex was a little bit harder and more meaningful dirty talk. It heightened the mental pleasure. However, the best part about it was, afterward we talked it out while we just laid in bed.
The hardest part was finding the moment to approach her to engage in sex. My strategy was leaving the area when it got too heated up. i tried to leave after she had the last words and tried not to comment on it. Gave it like 20 minutes and I would go back strong and kissed her deep and firm. But didn't work out when she was mad at me for being me.
Like playing too much video game instead of looking for an apartment, refusing to talk to her parents, smoking cigars when I told her I would quit or cheating on her because I wanted to be the best wingman ever and screwing the cocking blocking friend while my friend hooks up with the girl hes' been talking to all night.
Advanced Wordsmith
I had coulple of exgfs that used to masturbate either right after I finished or shortly after. The first time was with a girl in college. She started doing this after a couple of month od dating. At first I was kind of offended thinking I did a bad job satisfying her but never said anything because I was embarrassed but later on I didn't care because she did it often and just became part of sex with her. Another time was few years ago, the girl I was dating, after I finished and we would be cuddling and all of the sudden she would grab a pillow or wad up the banket between her legs and thrust against it. Eventually, she would move her fingers down and go all out.
Thinking about, it's pretty hot and sometimes it would lead to second round. However, can't shake the feel that I was inadequate.
Any of you gals do masturbate after the guy finishes?
Why and how often? Is it because the guy wasn't good enough or are you just going with the flow?
Thinking about, it's pretty hot and sometimes it would lead to second round. However, can't shake the feel that I was inadequate.
Any of you gals do masturbate after the guy finishes?
Why and how often? Is it because the guy wasn't good enough or are you just going with the flow?