Quote by Dancing_Doll


There is a feeling of total submission and vulnerability, so if a woman enjoys being dominated by a guy, or enjoys rough sex or that kind of role play, chances are high she's someone who enjoys anal. It does make you feel like a dirty girl and a bit more 'primal' in a way - with anal you are really raw and in the moment in terms of feeling uninhibited (dirty talk is usually dirtier, toes are curling, some woman really feel the need to have something in their mouth at the same time, fingers clutching at bedsheets, or whatever other surface you happen to be fucking on). I think that's the allure for me - being 'tipped' into that different sexual zone.

For me, yes of course I love that it really turns the guy on - that's the whole goal of sex - fuelling each other's arousal and excitement, so I've never understood why women wouldn't want to at least try it 'just once'.

For those that have tried and had a bad experience, the only thing I can think of is not enough lube, the woman being too anxious to relax or a bad partner. YES, it feels good. You need a guy that knows what he's doing though. If you haven't started with toys/finger-action first, upon entry, guys need to slow almost to a full stop when they're all the way in and let the woman's ass relax around your dick. Then once she's ready to proceed, you can move into shallow thrusts and then gradually get into full fucking action. Then it feels good. Really good. If a woman hasn't had an experience like this, and the guy just shoved it in and started fucking her at his own pace, I can see why someone would be turned off it. For me, once I'm in the zone, yes, it's extremely hot and I'm begging for it harder... you just have to work up to that sweet spot. It's definitely worth the effort.