Everyone's different as this thread shows.....personally I'm a fan....love hub kneeling by the side of me and doing it after a good hard shag. It's horny to watch him and I quite often touch myself at the same time so we cum together.
I think it's an easier mess to wipe up after rather than having it dribbling down your legs for hours after lol
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Janey79
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 154
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Who else gets this lol? I can wake up feeling pretty rotten after too much gin/vodka/wine (delete as appropriate) but by lunchtime I'm quite often feeling okish but definitely frisky!! This happened yesterday and hub seemed to be in a similar mood so the sofa saw some pretty intense action.
Is this just me or is this a well known phenomenon?
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Is this just me or is this a well known phenomenon?
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Yes my friend has found mine before! Was getting changed and went rummaging through my knicker draw for the right pair and uncovered it by accident!! She just said something like "Dirty cow!" and I just said "what? and you haven't?" which kind of ended it. I guess it could have led to a much more interesting conversation though lol
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Quote by Hayley79
Depends on circumstances. If I am
home alone I usually do, if my bf is here it is less likely unless we are both involved. Can be about opportunity sometimes as much as feeling horny. When I was single, at least every other day, probably most days tbh, sometimes morning and night.
Hard to put an average on it now, probs two or three times a week but it varies.
Agree Hayles, I suppose 2 or 3 times a week on average but can do a long drawn out session where I cum 3 or 4 times if hub is out. And yeah I like the comment on opportunity....oooh look got the place to myself....I'll make myself horny even though I wasn't feeling it 10 seconds ago LOL!
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Ok I'll add my two pence to the debate!!
To me it is still taboo...just. Things have definitely become more liberal here in the UK over the past few years and probably the internet and sites like this are a major factor.
Taboo to me doesn't mean wrong, I think it means "not spoken about". Until people open walk down the street with an Ann Summers logo'd bag then to me it's still slightly taboo. We'll say to our friends "God I had a great shag with that bloke/my bf/my hub last night" but we won't say, "God I gave myself a massive orgasm last night!", so surely that means it's still a bit taboo.
Of course we all do it, and why the hell shouldn't we it's an amazingly pleasurable thing to do, but despite the sales success of 50 Shades and myriad vibrators, I don't honestly think we can go out for a drink or meal with friends and mention it.
To me it is still taboo...just. Things have definitely become more liberal here in the UK over the past few years and probably the internet and sites like this are a major factor.
Taboo to me doesn't mean wrong, I think it means "not spoken about". Until people open walk down the street with an Ann Summers logo'd bag then to me it's still slightly taboo. We'll say to our friends "God I had a great shag with that bloke/my bf/my hub last night" but we won't say, "God I gave myself a massive orgasm last night!", so surely that means it's still a bit taboo.
Of course we all do it, and why the hell shouldn't we it's an amazingly pleasurable thing to do, but despite the sales success of 50 Shades and myriad vibrators, I don't honestly think we can go out for a drink or meal with friends and mention it.
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Quote by Mazza
Two surprising discoveries for me recently, which I will share with you...
I was recently masturbating, using a vibrator against my clit; small, circular motions at the base is the way I tend to do it, rather than using it internally...
I was imagining a particularly intense encounter with that special someone and I came. It was lovely. Now, normally, at that point, I just stop, as I find that my clitoris becomes very sensitive after orgasm. However, this particular time, I imagined him still urging me on, so I continued stroking. It felt a little uncomfortable at first, but I found that I came not just once more, but actually three more times, in quick succession. That had never happened to me before. I guess that it didn't technically extend the orgasm, but I was very happy with the result.
The other experience was when I was with that special someone and he was fucking me, doggy style, and he pushed a finger into my bottom (I've not really had much experience in that area)
I was rubbing my puss at the same time and I don't know if it was the surprise or the stimulation itself, but I came like a fucking train!! Longest and most intense orgasm I've ever had... Very nice!
Hope that helps
I def agree with the first part Maz...it's almost a psychological barrier you need to overcome (overcum lol). I'd heard of multiple orgasms and one day curiosity got the better of me......I just kept going even though my clit was really sensitive and ticklish. After about a minute or so of pleasurably torturing myself I was def on the way to my next orgasm and then another after. Keep practicing.....that's my advice!!!
J xxx
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agree with most it just depends on the time, place, mood etc. As women I think we have more of an imagination then men anyway but it's always nice to find out what makes others horny either through chat or their stories. Porn works for me too and there is some genuinely horny sensual films out there in amongst all the ridiculously over acted or down right abusive stuff that men seem to want to watch.
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usually bedroom, on bed or in front of my mirror, but on the sofa in the lounge and shower are faves too. I love the idea of standing at a window doing it looking out on people and also outside with the sun beating down on my naked body - private beach or garden either/or lol
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Quote by Sexyvonne
I am totally mystified why anyone would visit this site other than to talk/think about sex as a prelude or aid to masturbation or some other sexual activity! It is what Lush is FOR!!
I'm with you Yvonne it is the reason, I, and I'm sure many others visit Lush as it is a sex orientated site. I would have thought people would visit other sites if they wanted to chat about shopping, holidays or recipe ideas IMO.
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Quote by nellieneska
Girls: how often do you go jilling each week ?
Probably a good 3-10 times depending on the week really. If I am busy, it is less. If I am not busy, it is more.
Girls: Do you prefer lube, toys, pictures, videos ect
I don't need lube, I make plenty of it myself. I do love toys, pictures and videos to help me along.
Think I agree with that Nellie! Anywhere between 3-10 times, can do 3-4 in a long session if home alone. No lube needed and yes I have toys and watch videos online
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Quote by kinky_girl
The word really doesn't phase me. People use it so often it's as commonplace as the word fuck and so I think it's losing the edginess and imapct that make it so wholesomely detested.
I use the word quite frequently, but I'm lady enough to suss where and when it isn't appropriate!
Agree completely, I'm sure in a few years it will be just as acceptable as fuck. Yes, I do use it both jokingly with hub and as a very derogatory term towards obnoxious people on the tv.
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Are you male or female? F
How old are you? 32
How many times a week do you masturbate? depends 3-4 on average but can do that in one day sometimes!
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? once always but up to 4 times
Where do you masturbate:
In bed? Yes
In the shower? Yes
In the bath? Rarely
Outdoors? once or twice maybe
At work? Yes
Every room in the house? Most...lounge and bedroom favourite
In a car while traveling... ? No
What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Rarely
A friend? Yes
A friend's spouse? Have done
A stranger? Yes
A student? Yes lots thinking back to Uni
A member of the same sex? Oh yes!!
A past lover? Yes
What position do you play in:
On your back? Yes
Standing? Yes
Kneeling? Yes in front of mirror
Sitting? Yes
Lying on tummy? Yes
How do you play:
With left hand? Yes if using both
With right hand? definitely
With a toy? favourite bullet but have rabbit too
With water from bath? No
Written erotica? Yes on here and others
Pictures? Yes
Movie clips online? Definitely
Videos? No havent got any
Something on TV? ....
What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? Yes
Gay or lesbian sex? Love lesbian
Group sex or orgies? Yes to lesbian group and straight groups
Blow jobs/oral sex? yes
Cumshots? Yes ;ove to see it on boobs
Anal? No
Interracial? Yes
Age play? Younger/older lesbian is fun
S&M? Mild
Role playing? Not really
Kinky? Hmmmm...like what?
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? No
A chat room dialogue? Yes
Exchanged stories or pictures? Yes
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? Yes
Masturbated for a man/woman? Yes
Masturbated for the same sex? No
Masturbated in a group? No
Masturbated for a photo? Yes
Masturbated for a webcam? No
Masturbated for a video? No
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? All the time
Insert something or play with your ass? No
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? Fingers
Use pain as a method of playing? Not really
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? Yes
When was the last time you masturbated? Yesterday
Are you wet or hard now? Getting there
Are you going to masturbate now? No right now
Are you a masturbation addict? Hmmm maybe
What is the most you have played in one day? 6 maybe
How old are you? 32
How many times a week do you masturbate? depends 3-4 on average but can do that in one day sometimes!
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? once always but up to 4 times
Where do you masturbate:
In bed? Yes
In the shower? Yes
In the bath? Rarely
Outdoors? once or twice maybe
At work? Yes
Every room in the house? Most...lounge and bedroom favourite
In a car while traveling... ? No
What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Rarely
A friend? Yes
A friend's spouse? Have done
A stranger? Yes
A student? Yes lots thinking back to Uni
A member of the same sex? Oh yes!!
A past lover? Yes
What position do you play in:
On your back? Yes
Standing? Yes
Kneeling? Yes in front of mirror
Sitting? Yes
Lying on tummy? Yes
How do you play:
With left hand? Yes if using both
With right hand? definitely
With a toy? favourite bullet but have rabbit too
With water from bath? No
Written erotica? Yes on here and others
Pictures? Yes
Movie clips online? Definitely
Videos? No havent got any
Something on TV? ....
What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? Yes
Gay or lesbian sex? Love lesbian
Group sex or orgies? Yes to lesbian group and straight groups
Blow jobs/oral sex? yes
Cumshots? Yes ;ove to see it on boobs
Anal? No
Interracial? Yes
Age play? Younger/older lesbian is fun
S&M? Mild
Role playing? Not really
Kinky? Hmmmm...like what?
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? No
A chat room dialogue? Yes
Exchanged stories or pictures? Yes
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? Yes
Masturbated for a man/woman? Yes
Masturbated for the same sex? No
Masturbated in a group? No
Masturbated for a photo? Yes
Masturbated for a webcam? No
Masturbated for a video? No
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? All the time
Insert something or play with your ass? No
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? Fingers
Use pain as a method of playing? Not really
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? Yes
When was the last time you masturbated? Yesterday
Are you wet or hard now? Getting there
Are you going to masturbate now? No right now
Are you a masturbation addict? Hmmm maybe
What is the most you have played in one day? 6 maybe
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As Angela says inside can feel really good if he's really going for it and you're rubbing your clit and want to cum at the same time. I love watching him wank as I touch myself too and boobs are a definite fave target for both us. Face i have done once or twice but not in my hair thanks.