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Lithium9
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 47
United States

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She has a nice, lithe body. Personally, I would send her packing because I like my privacy. I think the appeal to her is that she is a slut for her partners on tape. Women don't seem to get that guys like to be adventurous and show them off. It doesn't have to be on film, but men are often proud of the woman they are giving it to. They want you to dress up sexy and then suck their dick afterwords. A sexually liberated woman is the only type that can hold my interest.
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I'm getting my dick sucked right now, and now she is trying to get on top of me
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Yes, in part, you are too wet. But that is a very temporary situation. It's like when a guy is leaks pre-cum. It reduces the feeling for a few moments, but that doesn't mean we don't want to keep going. I always take it as a compliment and drop down to lap it up, but that's me. It makes me want to stuff it in all the more.
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Yeah, I have faked it. Only once or twice. It was either when I was very drunk or otherwise and just wanted to get some sleep. I always tried to take care of business the next morning/day though.
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Good question.

As far as being able to control it, I don't know why but I wake up hard almost every morning. I don't know why. A guy with experience can definitely exert control over it though. Don't misunderstand me, there are things that will turn me on and really get me horny, but once you have been around the block you know where the bumps are and know when it's time to put it into fifth gear.

A guy can have trouble getting it up under pressure. That can affect it. If he is physically sick that can affect it too. But other than that, YES we can control it and we do have a choice over whether we get hard or not.
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I appreciate all the honest answers. I'm starting to wonder if it was the alcohol or if my friends are a bunch of cock hounds.
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So I had a party (or gathering since I supplied the booze and made the food) last night and after the light weights left and we were sitting on the deck the sex conversation started. A good friend of mine asked it but there were only around 20 women left (and not all answered) the question, so I pose it to the forum. Would you have sex with a guy (or try to) simply because you heard he has a really big dick?
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All I can say is...WOW! My dick is just over 6 inches long and on the thicker side. I can't believe how many guys have avoided answering this question (honestly) and turned this thread into a "let's make a joke about it because I am not measuring up to the pornstars I watch online." 90% of guys in the world are between 6 -6 & 1/2 inches. So sexybitch1, I hope this helps.
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1. What is your favorite meal? Tough question as I love so many kinds of food. But if a gun were held to my head, I would say I make a ceviche burrito with home-made guacamole and a citrus chutney that is a great high protein, low carb, low fat meal that, coupled with a Dos Equis Amber is awesome.

2. Whose lush profile do like the most? Probably not a great question for me to answer, as I don't put much stock in profiles, but katie1984 has written some good stories that I would like to believe have some truth mixed in there.

3. Honestly, I love fucking outdoors. But, if you are looking for a non-sexual activity, I love hiking and/to a climbing spot and taking pictures.

Questions:

1. Are you happy in your current relationship?

2. Do you prefer to read stories written by a man or a woman and why?

3. Do you like dirty talk during sex? Is it an addition or subtraction?
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1. Do you remember what you and your partner were wearing before you had sex for the first time.? I remember she was wearing a form-fitting, pink top with a plunging neckline and a pair of faded, soft blue jeans with black shoes. I was wearing a black Mossimo t-shirt and a pair of jeans.

2. Where is the one place you have always wanted to have sex but haven't? Good question here. I have 2. First, on a boat in non-rough water. Second, there is a spot a couple hour drive from my house where I was hiking one day. It had a small peninsula into Lake Michigan that was covered in grass. I always thought under the moonlight on a hot summer's night with the wind coming off the lake, on the soft grass would be real sensual.

3. If you were charged with delegating $500,000 (I'm guessing) to a charitable/philanthropic organization, where would it be? I would give it to cancer research. I have lost 2 friends under the age of 35 to cancer (and if you're asking, they didn't smoke, weren't alcoholics, or have a job that put them at risk).

Questions:

1. What is the most important quality(ies) for a sexual partner?
2. What adventure (doesn't have to be sexual) do you really want to undertake, but haven't yet?
3. What was your best first date and what made it the best (again doesn't have to be sexual)?
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1. What's your ideal sex partner/ what do they look like? I like the avatar pic of DreamerGal for the body. Nice and tight and toned. (If that is you, let me say that you have a smoking bod). I have always thought that Paulina Porizkova had a beautiful face.
2. If you could sleep with any celeb who would it be? Angelina Jolie, hot and kind of wild, but I wouldn't want to have to hang out with her afterwords because she seems crazy.
3. If you could trade places with anyone who would it be? This is a tough for me to know because I would want someone with the money and means, but I wouldn't want the fame and publicity.

Questions:

1. Where's the one place in the world you would visit or move to if money wasn't an issue?
2. What's one thing your partner can do while having sex that just pushes you over the edge (ie. dirty talk, ass play, spanking, nipple play, etc.)?
3. What's your favorite genre or topic of erotica that excites you?
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I didn't see this one posted, but I was curious if women liked it if a guy shaved himself down there. I had a girlfriend who liked me to shave myself down there, both cock area and balls. I didn't mind doing it for her as she really liked it, but didn't care for the upkeep (or the fear of cutting myself). So I am asking the ladies, what do you prefer?
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That's a case by case scenario as we all have our limits, but sex is sex and commitment is commitment. Everyone has a past and if people are just in it for fun that's one thing, but people (I hope) get married because they want to share an emotional bond with someone. That's what I hope for anyway. So is it a deal breaker? Probably not, but I couldn't say for sure unless I was put in the situation. Sorry it's not more of a definitive answer, but it's honest.
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The biggest turn on for me is the confidence that a woman has with herself and her sexuality. So if she wanted them I wouldn't discourage it, and if she didn't, I wouldn't encourage it. That being said, I am kind of naturalist and prefer the real thing(s). It's kind of funny because I always wondered what men would think if a woman asked them to wear a strap-on or attachment because he wasn't big enough, and how that would be perceived. I'm not a feminist by any means, just always thought it was a double standard.
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I agree with DamonX on this question. I love blowjobs and cumming in her mouth, but not every woman is good at it. I'm sorry, but it's true. For a short while, I dated this girl in college who said she was good at giving head because the guys she had been with in high school liked it. It was more likely they liked it because she had a real pretty face and a nice body and were amazed she would give them the time of day. But she didn't really know what she was doing. That's a big turn off.

But if it is intended as foreplay in a prelude to having sex and she teases me in the right way...well, game on!
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I had a girlfriend in college who masturbated in front of me and it was a big turn on. Since then I've had other girls do it in front of me, and have not been shy about asking if they would either. There are a couple turn ons for me in it. First, it's just hot watching a woman give in to her needs. Second, and more important, I ask them what they are thinking about so I can learn about what turns them on. As for joining in, I go both ways. If they want me to join in I am happy to help. If they want me sit back and stroke myself, so be it. If they want me to wait for them to finish, ok...
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For just the body part of a partner I prefer athletic than either slim or curvy. Personally, I'm just not into BBW's for the most part or bodybuilders. Don't know how to put a picture on here to give an example or else I would.
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I like boobs that are an appropriate size for the frame of the girl who has them. I have been with women from A's up to DD's and have enjoyed most of them. I'm much more into quality than quantity.
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Confidence without arrogance is the biggest turn on for me.

On a daily basis, I have an ex who used to text me telling me what she was going to do to me or what she wanted me to do to her when I got home. Or she would tell me that she got horny for whatever the reason and was masturbating thinking about it and describing how she was doing it, etc. Made it hard to concentrate at work sometimes I'll tell you.
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For me that is too much. Bigger isn't always better and you get to a point where you think, "what am I going to do with these?" Plus, I prefer natural boobs to implants and if she is already sporting a set of DD's, unless they are touching her knees already, the implant is likely to stand straight out from the chest while her natural tissues still falls with gravity.
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I think there is a twofold answer here. Let's face it, most people were in much better shape physically when they were younger. They were thinner, more toned, gravity didn't have as much a pull as it might now, etc. So from a physical standpoint (and understand that this is from a guy who goes to the gym at least 4 times a week) a flatter stomach, tighter ass, perkier boobs, these are definitely stimulating to the majority of straight males. It's analogous to women generally liking guys who have flatter stomachs (dare I say 6-pack), chiseled arms, a tight butt, etc.

Secondly, from an ego standpoint, most guys want to know/think they can still get a younger lady interested in them.
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As an outdoors guy I definitely prefer a more natural look to a girl. One who can roll out of bed and still look like the girl you went to bed with. With that being said though, I dated a woman in college who was a fair-skinned redhead and if she did not wear eye shadow you could see all the capillaries which was not exactly sexy.
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I know it's not the definitive answer you're looking for, but it depends on my mood. I have had girls who use their hands well and play with my balls in a way that it adds to the sensation. But I have also had girls who treat my dick like a lifeline to them through their mouth and really know how to create good friction and sensation. It really cums down to communication with the guy. I like both with and without hands. Just make that dick feel like it is the best dick you could have found, and he will love it and call you a champion dicksucker. Hope it helps.
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I was either 12 or 13 and had gotten some porno mag from a friend whose house I had spent the night at. I remember there were some great erotic stories in it (from what I can remember) as well as a some photos of an Asian woman dressed in a nurse's outfit acting out the story. I humped my bed thinking about it and blasted a load that got over my sheets and clothes. I tried washing my sheets the next day, but I think my mom suspected something, and my balls hurt for like 2-3 days.
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Superbowl Sunday. It was halftime and we snuck off to the upstairs bathroom.