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NaturallyRed
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 48
United States

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Tom Cuise, Bruce Willis, John Wayne, Sylvester Stallone, Jackie Chan, Sean Penn, Chuck Norris, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Steven Seagal, Jean Claude Van Damme, Jim Carey, Cameron Diaz, Martin Lawrence, Nicolas Cage anyone who has ever been a cast member on SNL. And who’s that little scrawny British tart who makes all those period flims? Her too.
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Quote by 1lush
Well fuck me running, I shit you not, and are you fuckin kidding


All of these are in my daily vocab.
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I'm new to Lush and have only read a dozen or so stories, of which I only rated two and commented on none. Why? I didn't like most of them for one reason or another, pertaining to the writing style or content and if I did rate them it would have been very low. I didn't comment on the two I rated because I didn't have anything to contribute that hadn't already been said hundreds of times. However, there was one story which had an overall rating of 5 from hundreds of readers. I thought about rating it a 3 but chose not to because I didn't want to receive backlash (not sure if that happens on here). This story was extremely well written, so much so that I couldn't stop reading it even though the ass to mouth (big turn-off for me) theme kept coming up in the story.
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Yes it matters. Some guys are just scarey huge, while others make me wonder if it would even be worth it. I guess as has been stated, it all depends on the guys skill level. I do know one thing for sure though, there is an appropriate time for jack-hammering. And if you are over lets say 7.5" every single time you have sex ain't it. My cervix can't take every time!
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Lovin' this forum! I'm wearing OPI See You At Midnight. I also recently found the best topcoat I have ever used! The salon where I buy my polish was closed and I was out of topcoat so I just picked up something cheep from the drugstore. I'm going on week 4 with no chips or fading! (Sally Hansen Diamond Flash Fast Dry Top Coat A fast drying, strengthening top coat, that helps stop nails from breaking and provides brilliant shine. The results? Stronger, shiny nails & a long lasting manicure.) [img][/img]
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Quote by submissivemom72
There are interim steps you can take and see how she feels about it afterwards. You could dress her sexy, and take her to a bar and let her dance with other guys and play around the edges a bit with the agreement ahead of time that nothing 'serious' will happen. Then you two could discuss it afterwards and see if she liked the idea of dancing (and perhaps a little kissing and being felt up a bit) by other guys, or she feels badly about her actions.

This way she gets the attention and the fantasy without actually performing any of the sex acts that she might regret. The two of you can then go home (alone) and you can fantasize together about what might have happened if (...you invited that good looking black man she was dancing with home with you.)

harmless fun....


I think this is really great advice Submom72! I would add that maybe this can be done while on vacation; as in not anywhere close to where you live. I know for me, there would be repercussions in my professional and personal life if the wrong people saw me with someone else. I also agree if she needs more than a drink or two, it's a no go. I wonder, could she be fearing something that could be easily fixed? Like being caught? Maybe if you take these interim steps as suggested some dialog will happen that will give you an insight on her fears.
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I used to have it wax it all off. About 2 years ago I started leaving a little triangle at the top.
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Mirrors are one of my favorite things. My first experience was when he made me touch myself in front of a mirror (on the bathroom counter). To be honest I hated it bc he wouldn't touch me and I felt stupid looking at myself but loved it at the same time.
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All depends on what the guy wants. Some like you to do other things with it...
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Quote by freakycactus
Getting me to the edge of an orgasm and telling me that I'm not allowed to cum yet, then continuing to hold me on edge.

His hand around my throat, it lets me know exactly who is in charge.

Bending me over, exposing my arse to him and giving me a good, hard spanking.

Although, nothing beats feeling his lips against my ear as he says my favourite word, 'Mine.'



I've never had a BDSM or dom/sub experience but if a guy did to me what you describe I think I would lose my mind.
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Your Result: Pumpkin
66%
You are Daddy's little Pumpkin!!!!! You are the one who can always make your Daddy smile and laugh a lot with your cute comments and your slop-sided grin!
50% Brat
50% Schoolgirl
34% Angel
0% Princess (dammit! Will I ever get to be a princess!)
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Actual sucking doesn't take too long if time is spent preparing. Personally, I like to find out what part of "him" is his trigger and do everything around it, saving his trigger for last. It seem to build his excitement more. For example, if his head is his trigger, which is the case for a lot of guys, I don't touch it with the exception of blowing on it. When I finally get to it, I don't have to kill my jaw to push him over the edge. Some might call this teasing. I called it maintaining a healthy jaw.
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Of course. However, guys need to remember there is more to that area than just the nipple. Just like there is more to pussy than just the clit.
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INXS. I wasn't born yet for these: Led Zeppelin, Johnny Cash, Tina Turner, Patsy Cline, Black Sabbath.
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Nibbling is fine. The only place I like to be mildly bitten in the cheeks. Bite me hard and I'm getting out the duct tape, after I slap the hell out of you! I however can bite all I want.
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Worst: Does the carpet match the curtains?
Best: Have you ever had your bellybutton kissed..........from the inside. (I know, I know but it worked for him.)
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It's not two words but I would tell myself "You listen with your ears, NOT your mouth." or "The best way to save face is to keep the lower half shut."