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Naughty_Nurse
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 46
Netherlands
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Always wear a bra because my breasts are really big. Regular bra with a 'kinky' look are the ones I prefer. I wear a sportsbra only when sporting....those are so sexy....not...
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Bring the subject you are talking about to....sex.... then it is easy to check out if someone is interested.
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Are there still guys who don't cook these days...??
I like it if my husband cooks us dinner, but to me it actually is perfectly normal that he cooks.....lol....am I lucky...or spoiled? ;-)
But if I'd date a guy and he'd like to cook me dinner, I 'd really like it a lot!
I like it if my husband cooks us dinner, but to me it actually is perfectly normal that he cooks.....lol....am I lucky...or spoiled? ;-)
But if I'd date a guy and he'd like to cook me dinner, I 'd really like it a lot!
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The first time I gave a BJ...I remember it like it was yesterday, ;-). I was so very shy and didn't know what to do...so I only licked a bit and giggled a lot...these days I know what to do and loooove giving BJ's....hmmm.
The first time I received oral....I can't remember actually, but I do know that I was quite unconfortable with it in the beginning..now I love to receive oral...
The first time I received oral....I can't remember actually, but I do know that I was quite unconfortable with it in the beginning..now I love to receive oral...
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I'm bi, and I'd love to lick myself, simply because I know best what I like haha...
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Huge turn on! Just take the time and lubricatelubricatelubricate...jummie ;-)
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Quote by MasterJonathan
Ok Felix you want answers, I will give you answers.
There is no "school" per se, on how to become a Master. However that does not mean that there is not educational opportunities out there in which you can learn to be one. There is no "degree" that you can obtain or diploma you can hang on your wall, however that doesn't mean that you can't be proud of knowing that you are "schooled" in being a gentleman.
My education was not in a classroom with books and chalkboards and such. My schooling was in learning how to be a man first. Then be a gentleman, and finally learning what my girl likes and enjoys, getting to know her better than anyone else - including her.
As for the BDSM stuff, I did a LOT of research online going to different websites, forums, chatrooms, and the like. I gathered up all the information I possibly could on the various aspects of this life. Then I threw out what was obviously abuse, sadism, masochism, and just plain stupidity and what was left I looked over again. From that I developed my style of BDSM. I may not have a "Master's degree" to hang on the wall, but you know what - I also don't come into the forums to bash and badmouth people either. My friends and those that know me know who I am and what I am. And they like it. So whether I am a certified Master or not doesn't matter - I am a GENTLEMAN
To be a Master, you have to be a gentleman. And that means no name calling, no belittling another's opinions or views, even if you don't agree with them, and no publicly trying to degrade another person to try to put them down. Learning respect for other people and for others lifestyles is the first step.
You ARE a gentleman!
For Dani; thanks for taking some action.
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I never tried the flavoured ones, but the regular ones are really nasty, so I never use them while giving a blowjob...
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yes, many times.
kissing with a girl feels really different then kissing a man.
kissing with a girl feels really different then kissing a man.
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If I like you, of course I'd date with you.
And for me it wouldn't be a problem that you are bisexual. I am bisexual myself so I know what you are talking about.
It has nothing to do with competition as ment by Tosh...
I think it would be nice actually and gives a lot of opportunaties in a sexlife. The only thing what could possible make me feel insecure is that you are 60/ 40 and more into men.
And for me it wouldn't be a problem that you are bisexual. I am bisexual myself so I know what you are talking about.
It has nothing to do with competition as ment by Tosh...
I think it would be nice actually and gives a lot of opportunaties in a sexlife. The only thing what could possible make me feel insecure is that you are 60/ 40 and more into men.
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I can easily have sex without having feelings for the one i am with. (besides pure lust ;) )
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That is something I never thought of and would I be correct in assuming that scenario is a perfect example of being a switch?
Well actually I don't think so.
All switches have their own 'reasons' for being a switch I think. For me, Yes it is the perfect example, but for others it probably isn't.
It is not black or white, it is a very nuanced subject/ feeling I think and hard to catch in words (for me).
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Quote by trinket
hmmm I'm still not hearing a definite 'yes'. What I'm curious about, is whether someone can have a long-term relationship as a submissive, then a long-term relationship as a Dom, and still feel comfortable in, and enjoy both roles. Perhaps I have the wrong idea of what a 'switch' is. thanks to the peeps i asked to post on Ginger's thread.
I can't answer that question because I don't have enough experience to tell.
If I am overthinking it I still don't really know. Actually I think it will bore me if I am 'stucked' in the role of Dom.
I think I am a much better sub and I am (almost) sure I can enjoy that role for a long(er) time.
But I like variety, and know I can have quite dominant periods...hahaha....I'm useless for answering your questions
What would be perfect for me is having a submissive girlfriend and a dominant boyfriend...that would be amazing hahaha
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Hi, interesting subject.
I'll try to explain my brain
Well, I consider myself as a typical switch, although at the moment I tend more towards being submissive.
I think my character has many strong opposites and one of them is being a switch.
If I have to choose, I can say that naturally I am a slightly more dominant than submissive (outside the bedroom). I like to be in control and know what's going on. I have trust issues and keep an eye on peoples behavior.
I think those things make that I love to be submissive in te bedroom, but it takes a very strong and trustworthy person(ality) to bring me into my submissive mood.
If 'the game' is played slighty 'wrong' or too harsh in my opinion, then I am not submissive anymore, if the game is played the way I really feel it should be, I am all his' and willing to push my limits.
I am only into the softer side of BDSM, but as a Dominate I will give pain to my sub if he or she likes to recieve pain, I will go as far as my sub likes it (well, not into extremes).
I don't really have the real life experience of dominating, only a bit and that was nothing serious, I hope to experience it one day.
But I do have experience being submissive, I think that makes me getting into that role more and more.
I think that if I would meet a nice submissive woman, I will grow into my Dominant role much more...
It is a thing that will change all the time I think, due to my character and needs, it also has to do with the people who come across my path, the one person tickles my dominant side and the other person triggers my submissive side...
Well, hope it makes sense
I'll try to explain my brain
Well, I consider myself as a typical switch, although at the moment I tend more towards being submissive.
I think my character has many strong opposites and one of them is being a switch.
If I have to choose, I can say that naturally I am a slightly more dominant than submissive (outside the bedroom). I like to be in control and know what's going on. I have trust issues and keep an eye on peoples behavior.
I think those things make that I love to be submissive in te bedroom, but it takes a very strong and trustworthy person(ality) to bring me into my submissive mood.
If 'the game' is played slighty 'wrong' or too harsh in my opinion, then I am not submissive anymore, if the game is played the way I really feel it should be, I am all his' and willing to push my limits.
I am only into the softer side of BDSM, but as a Dominate I will give pain to my sub if he or she likes to recieve pain, I will go as far as my sub likes it (well, not into extremes).
I don't really have the real life experience of dominating, only a bit and that was nothing serious, I hope to experience it one day.
But I do have experience being submissive, I think that makes me getting into that role more and more.
I think that if I would meet a nice submissive woman, I will grow into my Dominant role much more...
It is a thing that will change all the time I think, due to my character and needs, it also has to do with the people who come across my path, the one person tickles my dominant side and the other person triggers my submissive side...
Well, hope it makes sense
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So now she is finally better and the 2 people who are emotianally most attached to her are both willing to hurt her badly.....?
If this comes out she will not only loose you, but also her 'bbf'....
If this comes out she will not only loose you, but also her 'bbf'....