Yeah those people I see don't really seem like they're writing erotic novels. xD
Ooh, I've seen people in Starbucks writing. They always intrigue me. It is a relaxing spot to write. Especially with a nice cup of coffee or a cappuccino. :3
For me, it's listening to enigmatic chill out instrumental songs, when writing erotica. Then everything just flows out.
What about you guys? Is there a certain thing you do to help you relax and get your head into the zone?
An irresistable man in a suit and tie. Gorgeous smile to die for.
I suggest reading the Novel 'Story Of O'. It's very informative about true BDSM, and can teach you alot more about it. You can purchase it on amazon.
I am most definatley a sub. It all started when I was younger. I was always attracted and interested in the thought of simply 'being bound' to someone. Always being lower than someone. Yet, I couldn't figure out why. In my early teens I'd find myself feeling all giddy and having this warm feeling in my chest whenever I saw a movie or read about a girl in shackles or chained, waiting to take orders from someone much higher than her.
It all started to make sense when I explored my sexual desires. Simple things like being spanked, taking orders, love & respect, devotion; pain & pleasure all made sense to me. And I became more knowledgeable about why all these things made me feel this way.
Being submissive doesn't define me; but it certainly is an important part of who I am.