If you're being flirty with a guy and you two start talking about your hair that's still wet from the shower this morning, you ask the guy to feel your hair, and when he does, he runs his hands through it for a brief few seconds and then grabs a handful and tugs so your head lightly pulls back. He does it in a way to almost test the waters but you feel his desire for you. All of this in public in front of everyone else, but in a conversation just involving you two.
Do you get excited by this? Or is it borderline nothing?
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So as I left it, the last text I got from her was a :/ upset face after telling her to just forget about this stuff and no hard feelings which was Tuesday night. Yesterday I wake up, go throughout my day normally and then at 9:45pm I get a text from her. It's another stupid pic of herself when she was a little girl, and the message reads: "see I told you I haven't changed".
Literally have no idea what that's supposed to mean. Last time she did this we were cool and I went with it and joked n flirted over her pic. I haven't responded yet though, don't think I will. But what's the deal? Why send me weird younger version pics of yourself?
Literally have no idea what that's supposed to mean. Last time she did this we were cool and I went with it and joked n flirted over her pic. I haven't responded yet though, don't think I will. But what's the deal? Why send me weird younger version pics of yourself?
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So much aggression in here for no reason.
I don't see how I fucked it up. If anything, she did. I tried and she ditched me numerous times, so rightfully so I act stand offish and let her know to forget about the whole thing. Her response was she was upset, the :/ face.
I'm not playing games, there's a certain etiquette involved when meeting new girls though.
On to the next one.
I'm new here, but I've read sex stories for years. I used to go to *edited by moderator* then that site began to suck and I started reading lush stories. They rock! Then I found the forum, man this place is awesome. I plan to frequent this relationship advice place for insight from a girls perspective and my fellow dudes, so please don't write me off right away with this first thread. I like it here
thanks for the advice, and some of the unwarranted hate.
I don't see how I fucked it up. If anything, she did. I tried and she ditched me numerous times, so rightfully so I act stand offish and let her know to forget about the whole thing. Her response was she was upset, the :/ face.
I'm not playing games, there's a certain etiquette involved when meeting new girls though.
On to the next one.
I'm new here, but I've read sex stories for years. I used to go to *edited by moderator* then that site began to suck and I started reading lush stories. They rock! Then I found the forum, man this place is awesome. I plan to frequent this relationship advice place for insight from a girls perspective and my fellow dudes, so please don't write me off right away with this first thread. I like it here
thanks for the advice, and some of the unwarranted hate.
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Quote by naughtynurse
Hi,
You sound really young, with all the expectations of the young.
You say she's in school and working, at what is a new job? That's a lot on her plate. No wonder she's not the best at responding. I can tell you some of the people I normally talked to regularly, haven't heard from me in ages due to school/work/time issues. Even my very best friend frequently feels neglected. I simply don't have the time or energy to get involved with things that aren't directly school/work. Ive been pursued by guys who don't respect the schedule I am on, and very few things can make me more annoyed, chase me away faster.
I've used the "I called" line when I really wanted to have some time to myself. You say you wanted to "hang out" after work. I can tell you as a working student, there are few things I'd like to do less then "hang out" after work with someone. For her to have entertained the idea even remotely suggests you have a chance with her- IF you haven't screwed it up by being a pushy douche.
Go back and read Felix's advice. A girl in school and work? you need to pique her interest, offer her something besides a chance to "hang out." I hear "hang out" and what that says to me is, "wasting time you should be studying." and go with the advice to make a date on a non work day once she is out of school.
Going to school and working is hard, and depending on her class load, it might be all consuming. Listen to her, she told you she was busy, and you kept pushing. Instead of enticing her with something she would like, you are chasing her with temper tantrums.
On the flipside, if I were her, I would not go out with someone who couldnt respect the fact that I am busy with school and work.
I've given you guys 100% details. Where did I display my frustration to her, "temper tantrum"? I kept it to myself. I acknowledge she's busy but it isn't enough to make me not try.
I don't chase her. She texts me first, and as the man I try to get us doing something and not just texting all day. So I flirty text a bit, but quickly get to the point of trying to spend time with her.
If anything it's just bad timing. I mean Im frustrated but I don't hate her or anything.
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Last night after my update on here I grew a little frustrated. I sent her a text at 1130, an hour and a half after she said she wanted to talk, my text read: are you alright?
No response until I went to sleep around 1am, then I wake up and there's a text from her at 4am saying: yeah, I called you.
My phone never went off, she never called. So she lied to me. Really pissed me off and I figured it as the last straw. Upon waking up I replied to her 4am lie and said: "yup, I'll just see you around at work. Don't worry about it, really". She replied back a face- :/
And that's that. No happy ending lol
No response until I went to sleep around 1am, then I wake up and there's a text from her at 4am saying: yeah, I called you.
My phone never went off, she never called. So she lied to me. Really pissed me off and I figured it as the last straw. Upon waking up I replied to her 4am lie and said: "yup, I'll just see you around at work. Don't worry about it, really". She replied back a face- :/
And that's that. No happy ending lol
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So things went a little haywire
I asked her about picking her up tonight, she replied that she felt crabby. So I was turned off and said alright time to bail lol. I told her alright it's cool, don't worry about it. Told her I liked her which is why I was trying to see her and that I'll just see her around at work and no hard feelings. She replied and said I would like to hangout but the week days are just bad for me since I have school every day. I'm done with school in a week, and then I won't be so stressed.
I didn't reply for a while she texted some more: don't take it personally. You wanna talk later? I replied and said sure, she's like okay cool call me around 10. Then it's 9:58 she texts and says she isn't home yet but she will call me. I don't reply
It's midnight now, no text or call since. Thinking this is a lost cause, but one thing remarkable is that she is confusing as hell.
I asked her about picking her up tonight, she replied that she felt crabby. So I was turned off and said alright time to bail lol. I told her alright it's cool, don't worry about it. Told her I liked her which is why I was trying to see her and that I'll just see her around at work and no hard feelings. She replied and said I would like to hangout but the week days are just bad for me since I have school every day. I'm done with school in a week, and then I won't be so stressed.
I didn't reply for a while she texted some more: don't take it personally. You wanna talk later? I replied and said sure, she's like okay cool
call me around 10. Then it's 9:58 she texts and says she isn't home yet but she will call me. I don't replyIt's midnight now, no text or call since. Thinking this is a lost cause, but one thing remarkable is that she is confusing as hell.
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Quote by Mazza
Nooooo!! When you asked her if she wanted to hang out, she said that she couldn't - you should have said okay - to pick her up from work seems a bit needy to me... You are treading a very fine line here and (I think) are in serious danger of being friendzoned...
My advice would be to step back a bit, give her some space and see if she makes a move towards you...
Women (well, speaking from personal experience) do like a man who is attentive, but cross that line into overattentive and you are screwed - and I don't mean literally...
I enjoy being persistent and I've made it clear I don't just wanna be friends, while at the same time not hitting on her sexually moving too fast.
It wasn't needy in my opinion. I replied hours later, in a joking way like so what I'll just pick you up after. She could have said noway or something, but instead she asked me what will we do. Then once I told her just hang out nothing special, she accepted.
Thanks for the reply, it's helpful, I'm just trying to explain myself and the situation as much as I can. This chick is so perfect lol I am playing a different game than usual trying to get with her. I'd like to date, not just a one night stand.
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Since this morning there's a few updates
I replied to her picture msg and was joking with her, and also complimented her, she received it well and flirty. Then I asked if she wanted to do anything tonight. She replied said she couldn't because she had to work. So I don't reply for a few hours and then I'm like soooo, I'll pick you up after your shift. She replies, asking what will we do? I told her since it's late we can just hangout over here again and do whatever she's comfortable with as long as we can chill n talk I'm happy. She replied, okay sounds good.
She's really confusing
I replied to her picture msg and was joking with her, and also complimented her, she received it well and flirty. Then I asked if she wanted to do anything tonight. She replied said she couldn't because she had to work. So I don't reply for a few hours and then I'm like soooo, I'll pick you up after your shift. She replies, asking what will we do? I told her since it's late we can just hangout over here again and do whatever she's comfortable with as long as we can chill n talk I'm happy. She replied, okay sounds good.
She's really confusing
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There is this new girl at work who started a month ago, she's absolutely beautiful, and we only made very quick small talk introducing ourselves and that was it for a couple weeks.
2weeks later, we find ourselves close by and start talking during work. I randomly asked what she's doing tonight, and she explained she wanted to get a drink but her friend was bailing on her. I jumped in and asked if shed like to go with me instead since I'd also love a drink after work. She accepted. I got out of work an hour before her, she texted me to come get her when she was ready to leave. So I drove back picked her up and we decided to just hangout at my place instead of a busy bar. So we sat outside on the deck, each drank a couple beers, and we chatted and laughed all night. Very flirty and fun, I didn't over exert and hit on her, we were basically strangers a few hours before. I drop her off at home, then by the time I get home she texts me and asks if I got home okay, I reply and ask if she had a good time. She said yes she really did, then I asked if she'd be interested in hanging out again next week. She said yes! Fast forward a few weeks since then, she has used her busy excuses to flake on our planned next hangout as well as decline other offers since then.
However, she texts me everyday without me txting first. This morning I woke up and she sent me a text saying, look I haven't changed at all, and it was a pic attached to the text of her when she was like 5.
Does this girl like me? I'm playing it very slowly and cautiously. I barely txt her and do not hit on her in a sexual way, but I've called her beautiful a couple times. I'm very confused. Her backstory is she's in school and working 2 jobs, so she is very busy but still confuses me.
2weeks later, we find ourselves close by and start talking during work. I randomly asked what she's doing tonight, and she explained she wanted to get a drink but her friend was bailing on her. I jumped in and asked if shed like to go with me instead since I'd also love a drink after work. She accepted. I got out of work an hour before her, she texted me to come get her when she was ready to leave. So I drove back picked her up and we decided to just hangout at my place instead of a busy bar. So we sat outside on the deck, each drank a couple beers, and we chatted and laughed all night. Very flirty and fun, I didn't over exert and hit on her, we were basically strangers a few hours before. I drop her off at home, then by the time I get home she texts me and asks if I got home okay, I reply and ask if she had a good time. She said yes she really did, then I asked if she'd be interested in hanging out again next week. She said yes! Fast forward a few weeks since then, she has used her busy excuses to flake on our planned next hangout as well as decline other offers since then.
However, she texts me everyday without me txting first. This morning I woke up and she sent me a text saying, look I haven't changed at all, and it was a pic attached to the text of her when she was like 5.
Does this girl like me? I'm playing it very slowly and cautiously. I barely txt her and do not hit on her in a sexual way, but I've called her beautiful a couple times. I'm very confused. Her backstory is she's in school and working 2 jobs, so she is very busy but still confuses me.