Actually I guess I am going to be the one to go against politically correctness.
There seems to be an emasculation going on especially on television.
When I was little, I snuck down to watch television after mom and dad went to sleep and what was on was black and white shows about the man being in charge of the house, providing for the family, smart to solve difficult situations, etc etc.
Today we seem to be doing all we can to emasculate men. Probably the only one show that has a brilliant man portrays him as a weak addict and subservient to a woman (House) or at least it was, someone said this new season may be different. The other shows portray a man as a bumbling fool.
While I think the OP is a bit off in what she thinks "makes a man", I do believe that there does seem to be a definite downward trend to what is seen as is manly.
I happen to like a door opened for me, I like my hand held, I like the other things that seem perhaps what a lot of women determine is piggish tho I think is not only romantic but chivalrous.
I don't think a man needs to "embrace some feminine side" to be a man... I think he can be all man to be a man. What I do think determines whether a man is a man, is if he has the ability to determine what his particular lady needs in a man.
Should it be a metrosexual, crying, hand wringer or whether she wants a man to be in charge and hold the door, lead her into a room, not afraid to belch, orders a beer instead of a half caf extra frothy cinnamon coated whip cream latte, and he gives the woman what she wants and needs, I think that is a man who is "the man".
Anyways, however it's defined, I think the man strong enough to be the man his woman needs, is the most manly man there is.
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There seems to be many posts lately on male ass play.
As, someone who isn't interested in anything anal, I guess on first thought, I too assumed that a guy that wanted something in his ass, was gay/bi and I have seen from reading, that this is wrong.
Remembering some of the seemingly endless posts on anal sex in the ladies section, a very common theme among those that liked anal, was that it was a submissive act that appealed to a submissive nature.
I am curious if that is true of guys. For the sake of simplicity in asking/answering the question.. assuming that there is just dom, switch, or sub
Are there any of you dominant straight guys that like things in your ass whatever the objects may be?
For gay/bi guys that are on the "giving" end, do you like things in your ass when you are with your partner?
edited: girls, are your straight male partners that like things in their ass dom or sub?
As, someone who isn't interested in anything anal, I guess on first thought, I too assumed that a guy that wanted something in his ass, was gay/bi and I have seen from reading, that this is wrong.
Remembering some of the seemingly endless posts on anal sex in the ladies section, a very common theme among those that liked anal, was that it was a submissive act that appealed to a submissive nature.
I am curious if that is true of guys. For the sake of simplicity in asking/answering the question.. assuming that there is just dom, switch, or sub
Are there any of you dominant straight guys that like things in your ass whatever the objects may be?
For gay/bi guys that are on the "giving" end, do you like things in your ass when you are with your partner?
edited: girls, are your straight male partners that like things in their ass dom or sub?
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I couldn't help but think of this product/site when I read this topic.
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+++++++++ Women are buying it, it's been around years now apparently. But, who can blame them?
Sure, it's expensive, but ...if you read further down,
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Thanks DW, I appreciate it .. I did miss nicola's post
I knew I had seen the subject discussed many times on the forums, but I never read them or kept any track of them to see what was done with them as far as any moderation taken since I had no interest in the subject... and thinking back, I guess it was well before February that I had seen it discussed.
I do apologize to anyone for making him/her take the time to have to delete this thread if that is what is necessary.
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I knew I had seen the subject discussed many times on the forums, but I never read them or kept any track of them to see what was done with them as far as any moderation taken since I had no interest in the subject... and thinking back, I guess it was well before February that I had seen it discussed.
I do apologize to anyone for making him/her take the time to have to delete this thread if that is what is necessary.
amber
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You two have come back to your house after a night out, all the teasing is over, pussy has been eaten, cock has been sucked, foreplay is done. It's time to fuck.
You guys have heard a myriad of things we like guys to do while we are fucking. Everything from pulling hair, biting, spanking, talk, rough/easy, numerous posts on where we want your cum, etc.
It's a given you guys do most of the "work" in most positions, but what do you like her to bring to it? What can she do to make the act better? Is there anything you want but have been afraid to ask? What makes for a really great fuck for you guys?
Conversely, what do you NOT want her doing? What makes for a lousy fuck? Is there such thing for you?
You guys have heard a myriad of things we like guys to do while we are fucking. Everything from pulling hair, biting, spanking, talk, rough/easy, numerous posts on where we want your cum, etc.
It's a given you guys do most of the "work" in most positions, but what do you like her to bring to it? What can she do to make the act better? Is there anything you want but have been afraid to ask? What makes for a really great fuck for you guys?
Conversely, what do you NOT want her doing? What makes for a lousy fuck? Is there such thing for you?
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Ok, so my boyfriend knows that I want to buy some very nice panties that I have wanted for months and that Dancing Doll found for me.
When he saw what I was looking for, Mike couldn't understand why I need so many panties and he actually went thru my lingerie drawers and counted what I had. I really wasn't upset that he did this because I have been meaning to sort it all out for months and this gave me the opportunity to better organize my dresser.
Anyways it turns out I have 84 pairs of panties.
So, of course he pointed out that I wouldn't have to wear the same ones for 3 months. Guys don't seem to understand that this is ridiculous. I will go thru several a day, often 4 or 5. Dressing for class, sometimes change them after I get home if I have been bored and fantasizing about some professors or students, after working out and showering, dressing for work. Then there is after cleaning up after sex and maybe even putting on a different sexier pair before. Usually, I don't wear any to sleep, but, if I do, there is another one.
Even then, I guess I have more than is "needed", but damnit, I like having them. I like the choice, I like that I can get what fits my mood or outfit at the time rather than what is clean.
And I like getting new ones if I see some that I really like.
So, is 84 pairs of panties (well 85 after I get the ones I have been wanting) too much? Is there such thing as too many? How many do you have?
edited: Guys you can answer too. How many does your girlfriend/wife have and do you think it's too much? How many pairs of underwear do you have?
When he saw what I was looking for, Mike couldn't understand why I need so many panties and he actually went thru my lingerie drawers and counted what I had. I really wasn't upset that he did this because I have been meaning to sort it all out for months and this gave me the opportunity to better organize my dresser.
Anyways it turns out I have 84 pairs of panties.
So, of course he pointed out that I wouldn't have to wear the same ones for 3 months. Guys don't seem to understand that this is ridiculous. I will go thru several a day, often 4 or 5. Dressing for class, sometimes change them after I get home if I have been bored and fantasizing about some professors or students, after working out and showering, dressing for work. Then there is after cleaning up after sex and maybe even putting on a different sexier pair before. Usually, I don't wear any to sleep, but, if I do, there is another one.
Even then, I guess I have more than is "needed", but damnit, I like having them. I like the choice, I like that I can get what fits my mood or outfit at the time rather than what is clean.
And I like getting new ones if I see some that I really like.
So, is 84 pairs of panties (well 85 after I get the ones I have been wanting) too much? Is there such thing as too many? How many do you have?
edited: Guys you can answer too. How many does your girlfriend/wife have and do you think it's too much? How many pairs of underwear do you have?
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I came across this several months ago, and absolutely loved it and then forgot about it until about last month.
Since then, I have been trying to find similar panties without any luck, not online and not in any stores.
Unfortunately, I have forgotten any details like where I found this picture, brand, etc.
Have any of you seen anything similar and if so where, please?
Since then, I have been trying to find similar panties without any luck, not online and not in any stores.
Unfortunately, I have forgotten any details like where I found this picture, brand, etc.
Have any of you seen anything similar and if so where, please?
