I actually had brought this up in the ask the guys section.
If I remember right, most said that they would not be able to identify their woman by scent alone.
In fact I think it was none.
So I was wondering if it was a female ability and whether women could identify women.
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.. and I guess bisexual girls too
A while ago there was discussion here about the possibility of "accidentally" fucking the wrong guy.
One of the main things talked about against that is that we know the scent of our man.
Guys have a unique body scent and with enough time with him, we recognize it and know it and can tell if it is our man or not.
What I was wondering is if that is the same for women. If we each have a unique scent and if it is identifiable.
In other words, if there was a line of women with no perfume, no scented soap, no scented bodywash, etc, and you were blindfolded and not allowed to touch, and you were led down the line and just allowed to like sniff their neck or something,
could you tell which one was your woman by scent alone?
A while ago there was discussion here about the possibility of "accidentally" fucking the wrong guy.
One of the main things talked about against that is that we know the scent of our man.
Guys have a unique body scent and with enough time with him, we recognize it and know it and can tell if it is our man or not.
What I was wondering is if that is the same for women. If we each have a unique scent and if it is identifiable.
In other words, if there was a line of women with no perfume, no scented soap, no scented bodywash, etc, and you were blindfolded and not allowed to touch, and you were led down the line and just allowed to like sniff their neck or something,
could you tell which one was your woman by scent alone?
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Fucking is messy, sweaty, and noisy.
Farts are next to impossible to hold and really with the smell of sex going on any fart smell is lost and I haven't noticed.
Probably the most common body noise is queefing (is that spelled right) due to air being trapped and released during vigorous penetration.
If anyone lets farts/queefs during sex bother them or stop them, they are either inexperienced, immature, or both.
Just my
Farts are next to impossible to hold and really with the smell of sex going on any fart smell is lost and I haven't noticed.
Probably the most common body noise is queefing (is that spelled right) due to air being trapped and released during vigorous penetration.
If anyone lets farts/queefs during sex bother them or stop them, they are either inexperienced, immature, or both.
Just my
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I am talking about when fully aroused and not about to ejaculate.
See, that is why I specifically asked it this way.
At the point of orgasm or just about to, it is very noticeable.
But, have you noticed any difference in your cock or partner's pussy before that point, and again, when fully aroused.
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I love cock.
Perhaps that helps in the way I am able to see and feel variations in the dimensions of my boyfriend's cock. I have also noticed it in past boyfriends.
I am talking about when he is fully aroused and not about to ejaculate.
There are times when I know it is a little bit thicker and/or longer.
I can feel the difference in my hands, mouth, and perhaps it is because I have been practicing kegel exercises for years now, I can feel the difference inside me. Even though it is not much.
Can you guys tell when your cock is varying in dimension?
Also, have you noticed a difference in your partner's pussy? Not talking about amount of lubrication or result of different positions. I mean say a difference in dimension of the clit or lips or such?
Perhaps that helps in the way I am able to see and feel variations in the dimensions of my boyfriend's cock. I have also noticed it in past boyfriends.
I am talking about when he is fully aroused and not about to ejaculate.
There are times when I know it is a little bit thicker and/or longer.
I can feel the difference in my hands, mouth, and perhaps it is because I have been practicing kegel exercises for years now, I can feel the difference inside me. Even though it is not much.
Can you guys tell when your cock is varying in dimension?
Also, have you noticed a difference in your partner's pussy? Not talking about amount of lubrication or result of different positions. I mean say a difference in dimension of the clit or lips or such?
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Wasn't sure if this had been done before.
Over the weekend, boyfriend was out of town and before he had left our work schedules and other stuff had made it about 2 weeks since we had sex and I was horny as hell.
Well we ended up having some awesome phone sex and I loved listening to him tell me what he would do to me if I was there.
It got me to thinking about the different things he sometimes says that are just like an instant turn on.
I realized that the sexiest thing I love hearing him say is "You are MINE" .
When he says that in that low sexy possessive growl, it is like flipping a switch and I start to get so hot and wet.
Is there any phrases or words that just make you melt? That turns you into a horny slut whenever you hear it? If so what is it?
Over the weekend, boyfriend was out of town and before he had left our work schedules and other stuff had made it about 2 weeks since we had sex and I was horny as hell.
Well we ended up having some awesome phone sex and I loved listening to him tell me what he would do to me if I was there.
It got me to thinking about the different things he sometimes says that are just like an instant turn on.
I realized that the sexiest thing I love hearing him say is "You are MINE" .
When he says that in that low sexy possessive growl, it is like flipping a switch and I start to get so hot and wet.
Is there any phrases or words that just make you melt? That turns you into a horny slut whenever you hear it? If so what is it?
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Not meaning to be pedantic here, simmer.
The topic isn't if you are open on lush, it is are you MORE open on lush THAN with your lover.
If you are, why are you not communicating your needs and desires with your lover as much as you do on an internet forum?
If someone is AS open or less open in an artificial environment, I could see no problem at all.
But to be more so, as I said seems useless and self defeating.
The topic isn't if you are open on lush, it is are you MORE open on lush THAN with your lover.
If you are, why are you not communicating your needs and desires with your lover as much as you do on an internet forum?
If someone is AS open or less open in an artificial environment, I could see no problem at all.
But to be more so, as I said seems useless and self defeating.
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Absolutely not.
What on earth good would it do to tell a bunch of relatively anonymous strangers what my needs and desires are rather then tell my lover and achieve them!
If you cannot communicate what you need and desire with your actual lover then there is a problem with yourself that you need to fix.
Now if you are telling him/her of them, and they are not willing and/or able to work with you to fulfill them, then you need to make the decision of whether the relationship is worth continuing.
But to express your needs and desires more openly with strangers rather than the one person you SHOULD be telling, well that is as useless and self defeating as faking orgasms.
What on earth good would it do to tell a bunch of relatively anonymous strangers what my needs and desires are rather then tell my lover and achieve them!
If you cannot communicate what you need and desire with your actual lover then there is a problem with yourself that you need to fix.
Now if you are telling him/her of them, and they are not willing and/or able to work with you to fulfill them, then you need to make the decision of whether the relationship is worth continuing.
But to express your needs and desires more openly with strangers rather than the one person you SHOULD be telling, well that is as useless and self defeating as faking orgasms.
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I love the feeling of being aroused.
It happens so easy too.
Sometimes I just think about my boyfriend and I can feel my panties getting damp.
He gets me aroused so easily too. It can be just a look. A few words. A touch. And my body starts reacting with wanting him.
While anticipation and teasing and getting aroused while dancing or sharing a romantic dinner or such can be wonderful and have me aching to feel his cock, fingers, kisses, I know that before long we can fuck our brains out and I can relieve the ache.
I don't want to get aroused without him and without being able to relieve the arousal with him.
If I know I will be with him, it is a great feeling of anticipation that I know will enhance the orgasms later. It doesn't even need to be physical contact, which of course is the best. But, if I know that I will be able to share it with him such as phone sex or cam sex or even just text sex, then I love the feeling of being aroused.
If I know I wont be able to share some sort of release with him, then it is just frustrating and uncomfortable.
Soaked panties and swollen pussy and hard nipples rubbing against clothes is just irritating then. Maybe it is like the equivalent of blue balls or something.
It happens so easy too.
Sometimes I just think about my boyfriend and I can feel my panties getting damp.
He gets me aroused so easily too. It can be just a look. A few words. A touch. And my body starts reacting with wanting him.
While anticipation and teasing and getting aroused while dancing or sharing a romantic dinner or such can be wonderful and have me aching to feel his cock, fingers, kisses, I know that before long we can fuck our brains out and I can relieve the ache.
I don't want to get aroused without him and without being able to relieve the arousal with him.
If I know I will be with him, it is a great feeling of anticipation that I know will enhance the orgasms later. It doesn't even need to be physical contact, which of course is the best. But, if I know that I will be able to share it with him such as phone sex or cam sex or even just text sex, then I love the feeling of being aroused.
If I know I wont be able to share some sort of release with him, then it is just frustrating and uncomfortable.
Soaked panties and swollen pussy and hard nipples rubbing against clothes is just irritating then. Maybe it is like the equivalent of blue balls or something.
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The Miriam-Webster definition of forgive is:
"to stop feeling anger toward someone who has done something wrong"
To hold onto anger is like a festering sore that will eventually turn septic.
It might not happen right away, but, I would eventually have to forgive for my own peace of mind and well being.
That being said, if my partner cheats, that would be the end of the relationship.
One of the key components of a healthy relationship is trust.
Cheating destroys the trust. If you would not do it with your partner's eyes on you and/or without the partner knowing, than doing it is cheating (obviously that is within common sense, not talking about taking a crap or something).
Let say you stay with a cheating partner. How could you ever keep from thinking that the next time they are 45 minutes late, the next time they end a phone call as you enter the room, the next time a conversation between partner and someone else ended just as you got there, etc etc , that they aren't fucking around. The doubt will always be in the back of your head.
How do you keep from that? You could have them account for every minute of the day you are apart. Phone them every hour and they must answer after 2 rings. Check the car mileage after every trip. Always keep an eye on them constantly at a party. Check and smell their clothes and body every time they come back. And so on, and so on. Neither party can continue like that.
I wouldn't be able to live like that and who would want to.
The relationship will turn toxic and full of resentment for the cheater and cheatee.
"to stop feeling anger toward someone who has done something wrong"
To hold onto anger is like a festering sore that will eventually turn septic.
It might not happen right away, but, I would eventually have to forgive for my own peace of mind and well being.
That being said, if my partner cheats, that would be the end of the relationship.
One of the key components of a healthy relationship is trust.
Cheating destroys the trust. If you would not do it with your partner's eyes on you and/or without the partner knowing, than doing it is cheating (obviously that is within common sense, not talking about taking a crap or something).
Let say you stay with a cheating partner. How could you ever keep from thinking that the next time they are 45 minutes late, the next time they end a phone call as you enter the room, the next time a conversation between partner and someone else ended just as you got there, etc etc , that they aren't fucking around. The doubt will always be in the back of your head.
How do you keep from that? You could have them account for every minute of the day you are apart. Phone them every hour and they must answer after 2 rings. Check the car mileage after every trip. Always keep an eye on them constantly at a party. Check and smell their clothes and body every time they come back. And so on, and so on. Neither party can continue like that.
I wouldn't be able to live like that and who would want to.
The relationship will turn toxic and full of resentment for the cheater and cheatee.
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He doesn't give me orgasms
For some reason hearing this has become a peeve of mine.
I have never felt it was his job alone to give me an orgasm.
Well, let me clarify, I mean while fucking. Not oral. I don't know enough about anal as I do not want to try that.
No matter what position we are in while fucking, if I am not getting the right stimulation, if his cock is not hitting the right spots to orgasm, then I move. I work my hips and angles and I use kegel muscles that I have exercised twice a day for years to get what I need. Even if I am tied up (not completely immobile mind you), I still work to get what I need as well as provide my own efforts during the act.
I consider my orgasms during intercourse to be the work of us both. The same for his orgasms. I work to make his as awesome as my own.
It is a given that the guy does most of the work in most positions, but if you are not achieving orgasms, I don't see that it is necessarily his blame.
I realize that there are circumstances where no matter what the effort you put into it, orgasm may not be achieved in intercourse... micro penis, premature ejaculation, liquor dick, etc. I am talking about if those issues are not present.
While I am what I consider sexually submissive, I will still let my boyfriend know what I need if I am not getting it.
Do you feel it is your partner's job to give you an orgasm (while fucking)? How active are you in your orgasms? If you are'nt having orgasms, what are you trying in order to have them?
For some reason hearing this has become a peeve of mine.
I have never felt it was his job alone to give me an orgasm.
Well, let me clarify, I mean while fucking. Not oral. I don't know enough about anal as I do not want to try that.
No matter what position we are in while fucking, if I am not getting the right stimulation, if his cock is not hitting the right spots to orgasm, then I move. I work my hips and angles and I use kegel muscles that I have exercised twice a day for years to get what I need. Even if I am tied up (not completely immobile mind you), I still work to get what I need as well as provide my own efforts during the act.
I consider my orgasms during intercourse to be the work of us both. The same for his orgasms. I work to make his as awesome as my own.
It is a given that the guy does most of the work in most positions, but if you are not achieving orgasms, I don't see that it is necessarily his blame.
I realize that there are circumstances where no matter what the effort you put into it, orgasm may not be achieved in intercourse... micro penis, premature ejaculation, liquor dick, etc. I am talking about if those issues are not present.
While I am what I consider sexually submissive, I will still let my boyfriend know what I need if I am not getting it.
Do you feel it is your partner's job to give you an orgasm (while fucking)? How active are you in your orgasms? If you are'nt having orgasms, what are you trying in order to have them?
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A while ago I asked you if you could cum on command, when a guy said cum, you could.
This is a little different.
My boyfriend and I love light BDSM and controlling and all and recently he has tried to introduce something new.
He has said I am "not allowed" to cum until he says it's ok.
Well if he is using our horsehair flogger on my tits and pussy, if my clit is riding that cock just right, if we are doggy and he is pulling my hair and slapping my ass, when that wave starts rolling it is going to crash! I may be able to slow it down and/or delay it a bit, but there is no stopping it!
Of course, he decides I should be spanked then, which is ABSOLUTELY fine by me, I love it.
I wonder though, is it that I have no self control? Is it something that can be controlled?
Can you control when you cum? Can you hold off until being told to?
This is a little different.
My boyfriend and I love light BDSM and controlling and all and recently he has tried to introduce something new.
He has said I am "not allowed" to cum until he says it's ok.
Well if he is using our horsehair flogger on my tits and pussy, if my clit is riding that cock just right, if we are doggy and he is pulling my hair and slapping my ass, when that wave starts rolling it is going to crash! I may be able to slow it down and/or delay it a bit, but there is no stopping it!
Of course, he decides I should be spanked then, which is ABSOLUTELY fine by me, I love it.
I wonder though, is it that I have no self control? Is it something that can be controlled?
Can you control when you cum? Can you hold off until being told to?
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The oddest thing happened today.
I was checking our thermal curtains to see if it was time for their annual trip to the cleaners. Nothing special at all, just having a look to see. Moving around I felt like the shorts I was wearing was kind of rubbing a bit pleasurably. I felt like I was turned on.
I had a feel and I was wet. Not damp, moist, but WET.
I thought what the hell! Since when did checking out whether curtains needed cleaning get me hot!
After some consideration I remembered that the last few days, my boyfriend and I had been getting home about the same time, which was not common for us, and that we had been having some damn good stress relieving sex shortly after. And it was around that time that I had been messing with the curtains.
I wonder, can arousal come around a certain time just because sexual activity had been happening then the last few days then?
pavlov's pussy?
Has this happened to any of you?
A) Found yourself aroused when nothing sexual is going on? and
B) If so, has it sometimes happened when maybe you have been doing something sexual at around that time before?
I was checking our thermal curtains to see if it was time for their annual trip to the cleaners. Nothing special at all, just having a look to see. Moving around I felt like the shorts I was wearing was kind of rubbing a bit pleasurably. I felt like I was turned on.
I had a feel and I was wet. Not damp, moist, but WET.
I thought what the hell! Since when did checking out whether curtains needed cleaning get me hot!
After some consideration I remembered that the last few days, my boyfriend and I had been getting home about the same time, which was not common for us, and that we had been having some damn good stress relieving sex shortly after. And it was around that time that I had been messing with the curtains.
I wonder, can arousal come around a certain time just because sexual activity had been happening then the last few days then?
pavlov's pussy?
Has this happened to any of you?
A) Found yourself aroused when nothing sexual is going on? and
B) If so, has it sometimes happened when maybe you have been doing something sexual at around that time before?
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Something I been wondering (and have no idea why!) ...
I seem to come across fairly often in stories here is the phrasing of a guy having this feeling of cum "churning in balls" or "boiling" or "working its way".
Can you really feel this or is it maybe psychological as you feel yourself getting very close to orgasm and/or maybe feeling the balls "tighten" rather than any actual fluid moving around in preparation for orgasm?
I seem to come across fairly often in stories here is the phrasing of a guy having this feeling of cum "churning in balls" or "boiling" or "working its way".
Can you really feel this or is it maybe psychological as you feel yourself getting very close to orgasm and/or maybe feeling the balls "tighten" rather than any actual fluid moving around in preparation for orgasm?
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I discovered that fucking while still pretty dry to be an extremely intense experience.
I am talking about very slow, yet deep. NOT hard/fast/usual
The feeling is incredible. It is like you can feel every fold inside being stretched and pulled. The friction is an exquisite torture.
It can't last long. Maybe a minute at most. The intense feelings are so arousing that I am wet very quickly. And it has to be pretty sudden otherwise anticipating the moment will start the juices going.
Thing is, I have never seen this talked about (if it has here, I have missed it) anywhere.
I can't be the only one that likes this. Have any of you tried it and liked it?
I am talking about very slow, yet deep. NOT hard/fast/usual
The feeling is incredible. It is like you can feel every fold inside being stretched and pulled. The friction is an exquisite torture.
It can't last long. Maybe a minute at most. The intense feelings are so arousing that I am wet very quickly. And it has to be pretty sudden otherwise anticipating the moment will start the juices going.
Thing is, I have never seen this talked about (if it has here, I have missed it) anywhere.
I can't be the only one that likes this. Have any of you tried it and liked it?
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I'll take soft and round and natural over skinny
I object to this. I'm not singling you out. Even the title of the post by putting "or" after round and natural implies that trim/skinny is unnatural.
I stay trim, fit, healthy, and exercise because I like how I feel when I am. I like that I don't have any problem with taking the stairs if there is a line at the elevator. I like how my clothes fit and make me feel. I like the energy that I have in bed.
Should I find myself putting on a couple pounds more than the few pounds that I usually fluctuate, I don't do anything unnatural like throw up in the bathroom or get diet pills. I don't even change how I exercise.
I just put the fork down sooner. I don't go hungry, I just eat less, lay off the ice cream and junk and in a few days or so, I am where I want to be again.
If you want to be round/curvy/big or if you prefer a girl that is, that is a choice you have every right to make, but it doesn't make it any more natural than the choice to be trim/fit.
you make a good point about the implications of the title but you have to concede that the media these days is ramming an unhealthy image of what women are expected to look like.
i do like to see curves on a woman myself.
I have not seen the media ramming unhealthy images of women at all.
I can concede that 95% or more of women on television and in movies are of the trim, fit, slender figure. But that certainly does not make them unhealthy. Nor does it make such a woman any more unnatural as the gist of some replies imply.
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I was a little early getting to the first class I teach, when I saw this fairly tall guy take his seat and just as he sat he got back up real quick, moved around a little then sat back down.
For some crazy reason I thought, I wonder if he sat on his balls. Of course, I couldn't ask him.
The way them things hang down like that, I figure it has to happen once in a while.
Does it? Do you guys sometimes sit on your balls? That must hurt like hell if you do.
For some crazy reason I thought, I wonder if he sat on his balls. Of course, I couldn't ask him.
The way them things hang down like that, I figure it has to happen once in a while.
Does it? Do you guys sometimes sit on your balls? That must hurt like hell if you do.
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A while ago, it was discussed that a girl could not "accidentally" fuck the wrong guy, because one of the reasons we can tell is that we know the scent of our man.
You guys have a distinct individual scent of your body and we can tell straight off if it is our man or not.
The question is, assuming she is wearing no artificial odors on her body (for example: perfume, body wash, shampoo/conditioner, bath oils, etc.), could you recognize your woman by scent alone?
If there was a line of women and you had no other sense to use, could you tell which one is yours?
edited: bi/lesbians should be able to answer, too. Given the same circumstances, would you be able to tell?
You guys have a distinct individual scent of your body and we can tell straight off if it is our man or not.
The question is, assuming she is wearing no artificial odors on her body (for example: perfume, body wash, shampoo/conditioner, bath oils, etc.), could you recognize your woman by scent alone?
If there was a line of women and you had no other sense to use, could you tell which one is yours?
edited: bi/lesbians should be able to answer, too. Given the same circumstances, would you be able to tell?
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I have been doing a few minutes of kegels before I get out of bed every morning for over 4 years.
They have helped me use the muscles to grip and "ripple" and to increase the intensity of my orgasms.
If anything, my boyfriend has a much harder time trying to pull away as he moves, especially at orgasm.
I think its much more likely what bambi said. Some posititions are a little more awkward plus, he may be sensing your orgasm and trying to speed up for you and just pulls away too far.
They have helped me use the muscles to grip and "ripple" and to increase the intensity of my orgasms.
If anything, my boyfriend has a much harder time trying to pull away as he moves, especially at orgasm.
I think its much more likely what bambi said. Some posititions are a little more awkward plus, he may be sensing your orgasm and trying to speed up for you and just pulls away too far.
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I'll take soft and round and natural over skinny
I object to this. I'm not singling you out. Even the title of the post by putting "or" after round and natural implies that trim/skinny is unnatural.
I stay trim, fit, healthy, and exercise because I like how I feel when I am. I like that I don't have any problem with taking the stairs if there is a line at the elevator. I like how my clothes fit and make me feel. I like the energy that I have in bed.
Should I find myself putting on a couple pounds more than the few pounds that I usually fluctuate, I don't do anything unnatural like throw up in the bathroom or get diet pills. I don't even change how I exercise.
I just put the fork down sooner. I don't go hungry, I just eat less, lay off the ice cream and junk and in a few days or so, I am where I want to be again.
If you want to be round/curvy/big or if you prefer a girl that is, that is a choice you have every right to make, but it doesn't make it any more natural than the choice to be trim/fit.