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baconbutty
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Cis Male, 30
0 miles · London

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Hi I'm aware this could possibly be a re-post.
But I just want to know if there are any girls/ladies on here from the Uk.
Looking to get to know people closer to home smile

Look forward to hearing from you :) x
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I might consider it. Depends how far I have to travel as well as the other person.
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Seems like its a marmite situation.

Either love the idea or hate it.

To answer some questions...
Personally i dont think it would be considered homosexual at all. But masturbation.
A lot of alcohol was involved in this question being thought of.


I think its interesting how some people are very against the idea and some are really for the idea.
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If you could clone yourself. Would you have sex with yourself?

It came up whilst i was out drinking with mates and got me wondering.

Personally i so would hands down.
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Soft Celtic accents; Scottish, Irish, Welsh.
Stereotypical British accent
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Almost every day, if not 4/5 times a week... mostly homemade/amatuer porn, or just a fantasy about a girl/guy i like the looks of. however, most of the time i need visuals to be able to be turned on by someone, so porn works the best for me.
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I have tasted my own cum, im not sure and still undecided between whether i enjoy it or not.
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Just as long as it is well groomed and kept nice and tidy, go for it!
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I know exactly how you feel, being 18 and still a Virgin i have also, experienced things from others because of it.

Personally as much as you may want or not want to loose your virginity, it may or may not happen as easy as that. That is life. Be comfortable as you are.
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My friend had a free house and i was staying over, in his mums bed. Which is whacked one out to the image of his 'milfish' mum
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I would not even question it, i so would. I have tried and managed to lick the tip of my cock, but that's a far as i got then stretching like a contortionist was giving me a load of pain.

So if i could as easy as i can lift my arm, then yes. O yes i would.
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Quote by JamesMason
Nothing wrong with it. Im bicurious and thats it. The word curious. We have a body right? Well why not explore every inch and if one place gives us some pleasure then whats wrong with it! I was really nervous when i first did it but now and kind of disgusted at myself. I thought i was gay (not what disgusted myself) but after all that passed it was just another way to masturbate and dear lord the orgasm was one of the best iv ever had by myself!


I was the exact same, and in the same position cant get enough of the anal play
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Quote by Olivia
Quote by baconbutty
I consider myself straight but after discovering the wonders of anal masturbation im confused whether im straight/gay/bi or even bi-curious. the thought of fucking a man does not disgust me but the thought of being fucked does.


I would try not to worry so much about labels. Many people feel compelled to fit themselves into an identifiable box, but the truth is that our sexuality is quite fluid and often changes over time as we get older. Experimentation is just curiosity. And fantasies are a very safe way to experiment, even psychologically, without actually resorting to the act itself.

Many straight men may watch gay porn, for example, and find themselves aroused by it and suddenly wonder if this means they are bisexual or gay. I actually know many women who watch gay porn and also become aroused by it, and it certainly doesn't mean that they are secretly gay men. We, as human beings, can become aroused by many fantasies or images of sex that we may not want to partake in ourselves, but the concept of it excites us. Sometimes it's the forbidden nature of these fantasies and images that heightens our level of excitement. This is completely normal and is not something that will change your sexual orientation.

When a man enjoys anal play it does not mean that they are bisexual or gay. Let's all join hands and repeat that one, because it seems like it's a recurrent point for confusion. It doesn't make you gay, nor does it turn people into bisexuals either. The coincidental point to remember here is that IF one actually IS bisexual or gay, they probably will enjoy anal-play as well. One does not lead to the other, but both straight and gay men will enjoy prostate stimulation in general.

Now Baconbutty, you do say in your post that the thought of fucking a man does not disgust you. I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume that it somewhat intrigues you or is a new fantasy for you. I would say that these bi-curious feelings are completely normal and it's up to you whether you want to explore them. Just go with what feels comfortable for you and don't worry about labels at this stage in the game. For now, it's all about fantasies and new experimentation.



thank you so much, i think this has helped me far more than research online. Yet again thank you biggrin xxxx
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Thank you guys for the advice but, I think im just going to keep at the playing with my sphincter and see what happens when im out on the pull smile
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I consider myself straight but after discovering the wonders of anal masturbation im confused whether im straight/gay/bi or even bi-curious. the thought of fucking a man does not disgust me but the thought of being fucked does.