About a month ago, a guy that i've had a major thing for finally asked me out. It was just watching the UFC fight at our fav bar. It took him four months to finally ask me out. Well i had an amazing time at the bar.... ended up going back to his place, and had what i assumed at the time was a one night stand. (we'd had multiple general conversations about how ppl are too clingy and one-nighters are just easier right now)
He ended up txting me a lot and asking me out the following weekend. The same thing happened.
And the following weekend.... But the third time was a bit different. A guy at the bar was hitting on me while my friend was goofing with his buddies. I didnt really take any of it seriously. But the guy ended up taking my phone out of my bag and putting his number into it (which i erased once we left the bar). When my guy friend say this he came over and kissed me very passionately in front of the entire bar, which had never happened b4. and then he went back to his buddies. The dude hitting on me kept it up though, and eventually my friend came back, threw me over his shoulder and we left.
That was the last time i hung out with him. He doesnt respond to txts and when i visited him at his work (which i did habitually once a week for four months) he acted like he no longer wanted me there...
I dont understand what hapened..... i never asked for anything. I didnt txt a lot (actually only one or two that i initiated). Did he just get what he wanted and had no further use for me? or am i missing something? this is driving me crazy
