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fanatasize
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male
United States

About

Returning from hiatus and happy to be back.

I am married, but enjoy an online life as well. It is important to me that the my online life remain separated from my real life.

I have a wry sense of humor and believe sarcasm is an essential element of the human experience. Remember, he who laughs last probably didn't get the joke in the first place. I like to flirt, can be a scamp, and like spending time on Lush when my schedule permits.

I am a sometime writer who has learned that I need to learn more about writing. It is a fun way to express myself and gives me a chance to both explore fantasies and relive past adventures. Finding time to write is a challenge for me. Or 'making the time' to write is probably a better way of putting it. I have a few ideas for stories that trundle through my mind from time to time and even a few partially written tales, but self-editing and writing them to completion is a challenge for me. One of the difficulties I face it that some of the things I want to write about get me reminiscing about fun experiences and I get distracted from the actual writing.

When I write, I try to mix in some real-life experience with a little fantasy and longing. There have been some very fun times along the way and hopefully there are many more in my future.

In the real world we have enjoyed the intimate company of couples and females. Mrs. Fanatasize is very bi-sexual and we have been lucky enough to find a few unicorns to date. Both of us enjoy a voyeuristic aspect and to that end, have fun showing off for each other. A little of that part of our lives comes through in my writing.

I am a big fan of the writers here. It takes courage to publish and I applaud each and every one of you.

I am old enough to know better and comfortable enough in my own skin not to care. To quote the semi-famous song, "I'm not a good as I once was, but I am as good once as I ever was."

As Opus would remind us, remember to floss daily and try to follow the advice of Buddha who famously said, 'Try not to be a jerk.'

Sadly, I lost a good friend earlier this year by reacting badly to an evolving situation when I thought the real world and the online world might overlap. I miss my friend. I miss chatting with her. My loss.

Interests
There are many. Reading. Writing. Motorcycles. Erotica. Sports. Humor. The relentless pursuit of great deals when it comes to shopping. I am a ruthless bargain hunter.

Mature women. Confidence. Eye contact. Glasses. Intelligence. Impishness. Red lipstick. Unicorns. Natural more than surgically enhanced - although, a beautiful body is great eye candy, period. Sharing. The lore of the MILF and the young man. Threesomes and more-somes. Trivia - for some reason, there are obscure bits of information that stay with me.

I am interested in and appreciate actual conversations with real, complete sentences. Text-speak doesn't work very well for me. I appreciate the use of real words with a bit of thought behind them. I really like Profiles with Profile information!

I love to make new friends and acquaintances. (I am not sure what the difference might be between the two but I guess friends are the folks I spend a bit more time with.) I have met a few people through Lush and more recently got to share some fun times via chat. I consider myself an enthusiastic padawan when it comes to role play but I will give it my best. I think the problem is that I want to self-edit things I say during role play.

Speaking of chat and meeting new people, has anyone else found it a bit challenging to make connections with others here on Lush? Any tips or tricks on how to break the ice?

Travel. Thankfully, my job entails a certain amount of travel. I have been fortunate enough to visit countries on six continents. I firmly believe that travel is one of the most educational activities possible. It helps develop and understanding of the entire human experience. One travel observation: Laughter is universal. People laugh the same way in any country, in any language!

Favorite Books
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy. Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance. Goodnight Moon. (Mostly just to see if you are paying attention.)

Favorite Authors
Hunter Thompson. Gary Larson. Berkley Breathed. (I don't tend to read deep philosophy. And I miss both The Far Side and Bloom County.) Ken Follett. Robert Ludlum. Douglas Adams. Hugh Hefner - broke a lot of rules and ignited a lot of imaginations.

Favorite Movies
The Princess Bride. The Point. All the Star Wars movies but particularly the first one. Jurassic Park - the original. Star Wars and Jurassic park broke new ground in exciting ways. I love escapism because life can be challenging.

Favorite TV Shows
Different shows capture my attention at different times. I tend to follow series for a few years and then lose interest. I believe that is related to my attention span. I am not a big fan of what is called Reality TV. However. I would love to see a show where large number of self-absorbed, whiny self-promoting, oddly wealthy despite having very little to offer in the way of value to mankind, social-media influencers are dropped onto a desert island and forced to fight to the death. THAT would be TV worth watching!

Favorite Music
Varied taste in music Trance. Classical. Pop. Rock. Bagpipe Thrash Metal. It depends on the day and the barometric pressure - or something like that.
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