Everyone has the right to wear what they want, and everyone has the right to look.
I did this a lot in high school. They tended to happen semi-spontaneously. First time was when I found myself alone with a group of five guys, and of those five guys I had already had sex one-on-one with four them. We were swimming together and then we were watching porn together and then they were taking turns fucking me. Then a few days later I was in the same situation but this time there were 7 guys there instead of 5. Once word got around that I was down for this sort of thing, the opportunities to indulge increased and it became a fairly regular occurrence. It wasn't like the movies though... no anal or DP. Just one of two guys at a time while the others watched.
In high school, I used to trade sex for drugs pretty regularly with this college student/drug dealer whom we will call Jim. He was nice looking, and so I didn't really think of it as true prostitution. More like acting out a prostitution fantasy. Usually it wasn't quid pro quo, but sometimes it was. There was once when I badly wanted to score an ounce of marijuana to take with me to a music festival, and the price was either $200 or 10 blowjobs to be spaced out whenever he wanted them over the next 3 months. I didn't have the $200, so I opted for the blowjobs. I gave him one right then, and then he called me over a few days later saying he wanted to cash in another one. When I got to his apartment, there was a little surprise. It wasn't just Jim there, but also 8 of his friends. He asked me if I wanted to pay off my entire debt right then. We had a brief debate about the transferability of his blowjob credits, but I agreed to the arrangement after he sweetened the deal by throwing in a dime bag. I managed to go through all 9 guys in about 45 minutes. This time, it did feel like true prostitution. A couple of the guys were unattractive, and my jaw was really sore by the end. But I liked the feeling... it was a turn on. It was an even bigger turn on when I learned that Jim's 8 friends had each paid him $50 for the blowjob.
I love it. It doesn't exactly taste good, but it sure tastes sexy.
Yes, I can have an orgasm from intercourse alone. Compared to clitoral orgasms, vaginal orgasms are slower building, but last longer and are more powerful. As far as how often I'm able to cum from sex, it is tough to nail down a percentage because there are many factors involved. I can reliably have an orgasm during intercourse if I rub my clit to help get me to the edge. But having an orgasm from intercourse alone can be a little trickier. Some things that increase the chances:
1. I'm extremely attracted to the guy.
2. I'm turned on by the situation.
3. He has a nice size cock. It's thick, not too short, but also not too long.
4. He fucks hard and fast.
5. He has staying power.
6. He's rough with me. Pulls my hair, slaps my ass, and calls me dirty names.
7. He brought friends. Staying power isn't so much as issue if you have backup. Also, see #2.
I did once. It was a long drive on a super straight highway with no traffic. It was so hypnotically boring, it would have been more dangerous not to masturbate.
Gangbang Girl 14. My dad left it in the VCR. It definitely turned me on. Probably warped my young mind. I later found his entire stash, which consisted almost entirely of videos from the gangbang genre. I watched them constantly over the next few months, and then suddenly his stash was either gone or moved.
My sex life is usually feast or famine. I alternate back and forth between having no interest in sex at all, and having an insatiable need for it. One week, I'll have zero orgasms. Then the next week I might have 50-100. When I'm in heat, I'll masturbate several times in a day.
I've come across a few that were too big to comfortably have sex, but it was still a huge turn on to just play with them.
I like the cumshots. One of my favorite videos to watch on pornhub is just a compilation of cumshots/facials, often multiple in the same scene.
For build up and foreplay, I prefer mainstream movies.
Feminists don't believe in gender equality. They believe in female supremacy. So no, I'm not a feminist.
Don't really have any boobs to stare at. Hard to tell when guys are staring at your ass. But since my bum is frequently groped at sporting events, I assume they are staring too.
I'm bipolar, and during episodes of hypomania, I would go on sex binges. If I had a boyfriend, I would cheat on him. Getting sex would just make me want more sex, and I wouldn't stop until physical exhaustion. I did try to get my "number" up. I wasn't thinking of the overall number so much as "I wonder how many different guys I can fuck today?" Or, who could I fuck today that it would be really inappropriate or dangerous or challenging to fuck? I would revel in my own wantonness. Then I'd go through a depression and cry in shame about all the horrible things I had done. My boyfriend knows about my mental illness, but not about the hypersexuality that went along with it. I've been consistently taking my medication the last 2 years and haven't had any episodes. The medication basically kills my sex drive, but I do enjoy the intimacy of sex more than I ever did before.
I've never been gangbanged. Most guys I've ever been with at once is two. But I used to love "pulling trains". Being fucked by guy #5 while the semen from guys 1-4 is dripping from my face is an incredible high.
Holding the door open for the person behind you when you are entering a building is a common courtesy that everyone should extend to everyone regardless of gender. Chivalrous gestures based on gender are great in the right setting. If we are going out to eat at a nice restaurant, then opening the door for me, pulling out my chair, and paying for the meal, are all nice things to do that set the mood. But if you did it ALL the time, it wouldn't feel special anymore. It would feel perfunctory... and maybe even get annoying. No need to pull out my chair for me when I'm dressed in shorts in a tank top and we are getting a burrito at Chipotle. Also, if you do these things ALL the time, and then you gradually start doing it less and less, I'll wonder if your feelings for me have started to dwindle.
Also, let me take care of you too. For every meal you buy for me, let me cook one for you.
Also, what if you found this about about her years down the road after you were married? Would you feel betrayed? Let's say she didn't lie to you but was evasive.
Let's say you've been dating a 28 year old girl for about a month. You have great chemistry, a lot of fun together, and you think you are starting to fall for her. One night, you have a discussion about each other's sexual history, and discover that she has had sex with over 300 men in her life; often times with more than one guy in a single night. However, she has only been with 4 men in the last two years and is now looking for a serious relationship. She is STD-free.
My taste in men is somewhat of a dichotomy. To be in a relationship with me, a guy has to be kind and have integrity. But for casual sex, I prefer misogynistic jerks. I think sex is best when it is authentic. In a relationship, I prefer passionate, romantic sex. Hard and vigorous is great, but I want to feel intimacy and love rather than degraded and used. In a one-night stand, I prefer just the opposite. I don't want to feel serious pain, but I do want to feel used. Pull my hair, call me names, and cum on my face. Make me suck your cock, but don't bother to go down on me. It arouses me immensely to think that if I asked a guy to stop, he might just put his hand over my mouth and me. This kind of sex just feels artificial when it is with someone you love (the exception being if you are in the middle of a big fight). Likewise, it feels artificial when someone I feel no emotional connection to tries to "make love" to me.
Since sex has a lot in common with our other appetitive drive, I've ranked the following types of sex in order of preference and compared them to a food item.
1) Pure fucking: The complete absence of love is necessary. In fact, if I hate you a little bit, all the better. This is like cheesecake. Decadently delicious, but not very good for you. Eat too much, and it starts to taste bad. Practice in moderation.
2) Making love with someone you love: This is like a savory, well-balanced meal. It fulfills your sexual needs as well as your need for emotional intimacy. But it takes some work to prepare and requires that your relationship be in a good place.
3) Fucking someone you love: It's like reduced calorie cheesecake. It's good, but it kind of makes you yearn for the full calorie version. If you have recently been in a fight and are still a little mad at each other, the experience is enhanced.
4) Making love with someone you don't love. Also known as "bad sex". This is like a 99 cent frozen meal.
"Please cum on face" and "Please cum in my mouth" were my preferred method of birth control in HS/college. It's funny, if you just ask a guy to not cum inside you, he'll often "get lost in the moment" and not pull out in time. But if you ask him to cum on your face or in your mouth, they seem to always manage to pull out in time.
I think it works best if you never had a monogamous relationship to begin with.
Offer to give him a blowjob in the bathroom stall of the club. If you like what he has to offer, invite him home. If you decide he is too small I bet he'd still be OK with the situation.
Or find your men through the internet and ask for a picture of their cock before things progress too far.
