UPDATE: It seems that Lush is now charging to send private messages. Hope to see you on Literotica.com under the same name. 

NOT INTERESTED GUYS. I ONLY CHAT WITH WOMEN!

I am continuing to explore my bisexual desires and fantasies which I neglected for so many years. But, better late than never, right?

I do have well-established boundaries and hard limits in real life, but I'm surprised at how ... negotiable my boundaries and limits are in my imagination and online.  And, I must confess, sometimes the lines between reality and fantasy become blurred. 

I wouldn't consider myself a Dom, but I do enjoy taking the lead and being in control with a woman.  When I first began this journey a few years ago, I inititally thought that I would seek out women similar to my age and situation in life.  However, I have discovered that I am also attracted to younger women who are seeking a connection with an older women.  With that said, I do enjoy connecting with wives, moms, and other women who are bisexual or b-curiouis.

I am a married, well-educated professional.  Discretion is of utmost importance, both online and in my real life when I do connect with someone locally.

I do prefer to chat with women who are real, genuine, and authentic.  I  get bored very quickly when chatting with someone who is fake and sexually pretentious.  I don't particular care to connect with women who are projecting an oversexualized online persona. I like sharing both real life experiences and fantasies, and wherever that might lead. Again blurring the lines between reality and fantasy is incredibly arousing and intoxicating, even addicting. 

If a chat isn't working for me, I will tell you.  Please don't be offended.  We all have our preferences.  Feel free to do the same.  I'm a big. girl. 

UPDATE (May 29, 2022):

I cosidered revising my profile, but I thought it might be more appropriate to update it. While Lush and the connections I make here are not the full extent of my journey, it seems like a suitable place to document my the path I'm traveling as I continue explore and discover more about my true Self, as well as my sexuality.

I have met and chatted with many sensual and sexy women, quite a few who have caused me to contemplate forbidden and taboo desires I once thought completely off limits, even in my fantasy life.  But, as previously mentioned, those barriers have seemed to disappear, and while I do still have strict parameters I set for myself in real life, I have enjoyed indulging many licentious, carnal desires that continue to take me places in my mind I could never have imagined or thought possible.  After all, I am a respected, upstanding member of my community.  If they only knew.

I have discovered that I enjoy taking control, assuming a more dominant role with women.  I'm looking forward to the possibilities this new found inclination and preference takes me, and those who might want to follow.  While this online activity and chatting is all fantasy, I would like to connect with a woman or two ... maybe three who might like to pursue a more intimate connection that extends beyond this safe, protected world into different aspects of our real lives.  If this intrigues you, send me a message or say hi in one of the chat rooms. But, don't be fake or disingenous if you have no intention of being transparent. 

I'm quite sure that I'm not everyone's  cup of tea.  Yet, I suspect there are some real women on this site who do want something authentic and purposful. 

I do look forward to this next phase of my journey.  Care to join me?