It's something that my partner and I have been toying with the idea of off and on for a while and I am really struggling with how I feel about it.
The logical part of my brain understands that it is only sex, but the rest of me knows that I can't do something like this with out emotions eventually getting involved.
So, do I do it as a 'gift' of love and risk destroying a relationship with someone I can see as my life partner? Or readjust my thinking?