Rookie Scribe
Yeah its a bad idea. I can understand the attraction for cheating. Its exciting, adds some spice to your life. I can even understand missing your husband when he goes away for extended periods. However, this is your brother in law. There is something wrong about doing it with this guy. I felt conflicted to say, I understand your urge to cheat, but at the same time saying its wrong to do it with your husband's brother. That's what I feel. Honestly, just hang in there and wait for your husband to get back. This is a passing urge, and I bet you'll feel terrible about this for far too long. Not worth it..