I'm looking forward to trying anal with xxxxx (you know who you are) really soon but I absolutely love the idea and the passion of it. It requires so much trust!
For a body pleasing orgasm then I love coming in her mouth. It's so wonderful to think she's doing something just for my pleasure.
For the complete experience though, sweaty bodies entwined and eyes staring in to each other, pussy is the real deal for body and mind!
It depends on if you put the emphasis on the 'fuck' or the 'buddy' part?!
Being completely honest - it would drive me crazy - I'd hate it. Even if I was better looking, richer etc.
But it'd be my problem not hers and the most important part of a relationship is trust so if I couldn't get over it then it's probably not ever going to work out. I'd still recognise that it's my issue and I should probably just grow up, but you can't help how you feel can you?
Fucked? Nope!
Been given a bj whilst watching. Oh yes!
I was 'given' my GFs best friend once as a birthday present and we had MFF sex throughout the night and the morning. We were all friends before and remained so after and repeated it a few times before I split with my GF some time later for completely unrelated reasons. I'm still friends with her best friend 12 years on ;)
I think that's pretty rare though from the conversations I've had with other people where things get to wierd and jealously sets in. I guess the old casino addage is true in this instance too, "Only gamble with what you're prepared to lose".
Seriously - who here isn't going to say both?
I tend not to plan it - things just happen.
Most often it is:
Oral her on me, then me on her, then sex, then (if I've been a really good boy) her on me again.
Ahhhhh
"I love you. I want you."
perfect!
There are way more important things to worry about first.
After those aspects attractiveness and beauty are much more about a woman's confidence. How she feels about herself and how that comes across in her personality.
Having said that and as the hilarious Tim Minchin put it 'Fu** I love boob though' curvy through BBW all the way.
Well I agree with several things said above -
First - there shouldn't need to be rules or an agenda - do what feels right
If I *was* planning (see above) I'd go with the following:
Oral on her to climax
Oral on me to climax
Oral on her to climax (also my recovery time)
Full on Sex until she comes
Oral on me
I may be odd on this - would be interested to know - but I prefer oral to sex and cum much more readily this way - I think it's all in the brain and a BJ feels much more intimate to me - any thoughts?
For me, mental attraction and trust come first.
I love boobs - I'm definitely a boob man, and I'd go bigger rather than smaller every time up to a point. But rather than size I think it's about the proportion to the rest of the body. DDs on a size 6??
I've personally always preferred the short curvy Mediterranean type with a full bust and curvy hips but it's each to their own and anyone fitting the above list above to the letter wouldn't do it for me unless she was first smart, funny and kind.
Would love to fuck but reckon she's too kinky for me!
And now Rusty Cage by Green Day
ROCK ON!!!!
Halfway up a tree on a country walk
And in bed but she had a mouth full of popping candy!
Rocket Queen - Guns and Roses
Only after months of chatting and building trust and only if was with a view to something more than just sex. I've never had 'just sex' with someone in real life so wouldn't start now with someone from lush.
Tell him to get in touch with us Lush guys and we'll try to explain to him what he's missing...
Seriously though, honesty is the best policy. For him AND you.
Take care
Lazy speech, "like," and "init" and "ya know what I mean"
If I do understand what 'ya' mean will 'ya' go home?