As a teenager, I was very shy around girls. I wasn't that interested, more interested in football and other sports.
At a school disco, I spotted a girl I fancied and we danced in the frenetic styles of the time. And then, the DJ played a slow song, too slow to continue to dance as we had been doing. I noticed that other couples were holding each other close, slowly shuffling their feet and going round in circles. An older schoolmate made a gesture to me to take my partner by the hand, I think, but I didn't really understand his hand motions and so we continued to dance to the slow song in a slow-motion action replay style of the frenzied movements that we had danced for most of the evening. Then, thankfully, the slow song ended and it was back to the up tempo tunes from before. Phew, that was a close shave!
Fast forward to a few years later ...
My father was in the army and was stationed abroad. I had made friends through my first job and from mixing with young soldiers. A crowd of us were in a bar on an evening out and one of the squaddies said, "Let's go into town!" And so we did, hitting the bars in the busy city centre, me being careful not to drink too much as I hadn't yet discovered my alcohol tolerance! Last stop was a night club. I'd never been to a NIGHT club before, school discos and youth clubs, yes, but not a proper nightclub.
We got inside, got some beers and settled down on a few plush seats. In another corner of the room, there was a crowd of young people who seemed like they were being supervised by an older woman. As we all danced around to the music, somehow we mingled together and I found myself dancing in front of a beautiful blonde girl.
After a while, we sat out some tunes and got talking. Her name was Inge and she was on a student trip from Scandinavia, part of the supervised group, all staying in a nearby hostel. As the evening progressed to early morning, we sat closer, eventually side by side with my arm around her shoulders. In a classic teenage move, I reached all the way round and managed to cup her breast and lean in for a kiss. All was going well. She was receptive to my moves and we spent most of the time with our lips and tongues locked together and me holding her breast through her T-shirt.
Closing time came and, as we were leaving, she needed to go to the ladies' room. I stood outside waiting and thought to myself, "I'm in love!" We left the club and waited for the night bus to take her back to her hostel. We had arranged to meet again at the nightclub and boy, was I looking forward to that!
Over the next few nights, we danced, we hugged and we fumbled but we never progressed any further than that. We did exchange addresses, though, and that developed into a long-running holiday romance ...
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Before leaving that city to my father's next posting, I started going to another nightclub, nearer to where I lived. Here, I met a girl named Helka who was at college as an art student. She didn't really like the early 70s disco music but liked to get out to meet people. And she met me! I was still in touch by post with Inge but they say absence makes the heart grow fonder ... for somebody else! So I developed a little romance with Helka before I had to leave to go back to the UK. Nothing major happened between us, just dancing, drinking and kissing and cuddling. But, on our last night together, we were sitting in a booth at the nightclub, quite privately, kissing and cuddling and I ventured my hand inside her top. It was heaven! She wasn't as big breasted as Inge but she was braless, she was firm and she had applied a beautiful-smelling talc. My first fondle of a girl's breast! Beautiful!
The next day, my family left for the UK but I had been careful NOT to wash my hands. I spent at least two days afterwards, sniffing in the aroma of Helka's breast ...
We had, of course, exchanged addresses and so I had another foreign girlfriend with whom I would correspond.
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My father's new posting was to a small unit in a rural area, with not much going on. So I would travel up to London to see school friends. On one occasion, we went back to our old school for a school disco! This time around, I danced with a girl and she told me her name was Sarah. We chatted about what we'd be doing now that we had left school and she said she would probably be helping her mum's business as a hairdresser. She lived at home in a flat above her mum's salon. We exchanged addresses ... another girl to whom I would write letters. This romance stuff would be a bit tiring on my hand, in more ways than one!
A few weeks later, I got a letter from Helka. She was visiting an English seaside town for artistic inspiration and could we meet? Brilliant news! I was so looking forward to seeing her again. On the weekend, I travelled to London but missed my connecting train and would have wait five hours for the next one! I knew that Sarah lived not far from the train station so, to pass the time, I went to say hello.