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I AM Bi- sexual.
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Bi curious or bi sexual??
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I believe you are what you are. If you enjoy women and men you are bi sexual. Many of us are unhappy with who we are so we hyphenate ourselves. We become ??- Americans. I have several Lesbian friends who proudly say they are lesbian and don't give a damn what people think. I am Bi, I don't wear a special name tag but do love being bi and luckily my husband loves it too.
Being Bi curious I feel is someone either unwilling or incapable of admitting they could possibly be different and don't understand they're not different just normal. Women are much more loving and affectionate with each other then men with men. But, that is the beauty of Bi it is normal (whatever normal is). So I would encourage all my sisters, if they have strong feelings of affection for another woman to pursue it discreetly and save curiosity for something else.
Being Bi curious I feel is someone either unwilling or incapable of admitting they could possibly be different and don't understand they're not different just normal. Women are much more loving and affectionate with each other then men with men. But, that is the beauty of Bi it is normal (whatever normal is). So I would encourage all my sisters, if they have strong feelings of affection for another woman to pursue it discreetly and save curiosity for something else.
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Curiousity was satisfied a long time ago. Bi sexual for sure.
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But if you don't label yourself, how will I know whether to hit on you or not?Too many people are afraid of labels. I've run into several women who've told me they're straight, and then later admit to having had sex with other women on many occasions. Presumably, if you're doing this, its because you enjoy sex with other women, but just don't want to be labeled bi-sexual for whatever reason. People many be averse to being labeled, but labels, like words, carry meaning. If you've never yet had sex, but only feel attraction to the opposite sex, are you straight-curious, or straight? Most would label you straight, even if you've never yet experienced straight sex. That's why I feel the expression 'bi-curious' is rather disingenuous, unless we start calling people straight-curious and gay-curious too. So if Lisa says she finds two women together arousing, and would probably sleep with another woman, the term 'bi-curious' just seems a bit sciolistic. If the desire is there, own it!
Nicely put Behany. I'm very sexual with my husband and with myself. Flirtatious, and straight. Happily married to my man for 7 years. I have had just 2 extraordinary sexual encounters with lovely women some years ago. If the desire and fire is there for me to be with another woman, I might do it. Don't really know. If I did, probably one night or afternoon.
So, sure I have the desire, but the passionate fire is not yet lit. So I wouldn't label myself as lez, bi-curious,
straight-curious, gay -curious, curious, weird, or confused... my god have I covered all the labels??? Simply, put I'm a straight lady who enjoyed (notice the past tense) the encounters with women. I think you noticed I get a bit flirtatious with some women, and a few told me they enjoyed my open-mindedness, yet others don't. It's what makes the world go round.
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But if you don't label yourself, how will I know whether to hit on you or not?
Poppy Cock You don't need A label. Thats just A cry for attention.You don't have to wear your heart on your sleeve. If your interested in having sex with someone just flirt with them. If they flirt back their interested. To Quote Shakespeare " Would A Rose by any other name not smell as sweet?"
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It is convenient to bin people into categories because that is how are brains are wired. But the reality is on most any issue is that there is a range of responses whereas people to tend to use just the extreme labels (in this case gay to bisexual to straight). There is no way to really know until you try it and see how it really feels for you. Labels really take the spectrum of color out of our lives I think.
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Yes, labels can be difficult. I would consider myself straight but because I am a swinger with many bisexual female friends, I may play with them as part of the sexual experience. I have been eaten and eaten pussy, kissed and touched but am not attracted to women at all. Just sometimes, usually as part of a foursome, I might indulge in some play with another female. What does that make me? Probably sexually liberated!!!!!!
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Why not just give it a try and find out for sure?
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Why not just give it a try and find out for sure?
Only my opinion, but such a bad reason to try same sex ?
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My wife used the term 'bi-curious' because it was how she felt at the time. The thought of being with another woman sexually aroused her and watching scenes of two or more women together did the same. We discussed her feeling for quite some time and her 'curiosity' was how she would feel if her fantasy of being with another woman would actually happened. Therefore, 'bi-curious.'
Eventually the opportunity to put her fantasy into reality happened and amongst feelings of excitement and arousal there was trepidation of how she would actually feel being physically intimate with another woman, therefore, still very 'bi-curious.'
After the first time being with another woman there was a lot of soul searching and turmoil of emotions, even though she enjoyed the experience tremendously. Therefore, still 'bi-curious.'
However, after repeating her experience and realising how much she enjoyed sexual liaisons with other women the term 'bi-curious' has changed to 'bi-sexual.'
Eventually the opportunity to put her fantasy into reality happened and amongst feelings of excitement and arousal there was trepidation of how she would actually feel being physically intimate with another woman, therefore, still very 'bi-curious.'
After the first time being with another woman there was a lot of soul searching and turmoil of emotions, even though she enjoyed the experience tremendously. Therefore, still 'bi-curious.'
However, after repeating her experience and realising how much she enjoyed sexual liaisons with other women the term 'bi-curious' has changed to 'bi-sexual.'
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I have had just 2 extraordinary sexual encounters with lovely women some years ago. If the desire and fire is there for me to be with another woman, I might do it. Don't really know. If I did, probably one night or afternoon.
So, sure I have the desire, but the passionate fire is not yet lit. So I wouldn't label myself as lez, bi-curious, straight-curious, gay -curious, curious, weird, or confused... my god have I covered all the labels??? Simply, put I'm a straight lady who enjoyed (notice the past tense) the encounters with women.
This is exactly my thoughts. Glad to know I'm not the only one that feels it's okay not to consider themselves bisexual because they have had a few encounters with the same sex.
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I don't think you have to be one thing or the other but some people are. I know girls who would never even think about going with a guy and certainly guys who never entertain the idea of another guy. I don't know any bisexual men but I do know a lot of bisexual girls. In fact most of my female friends are at least bi-curious.
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i feel the same way! i totally love watching two women go at it but have never experienced it myself. that's why i list myself as bi-curious. i want to experiment with a woman but until i know for sure, i am happy remaining curious.
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I feel like I'm bi curious but no one fully knows until they have tried to be in a relationship with both sexs, it's a confusing stage but hey it's gonna pass soon
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I DEFINE myself as a STRAIGHT GUY.
(I have had sex with three GUYS in my life. I enjoyed it, it WAS a bit weird but I have no regrets.)
I have NEVER masturbated over same-sex sex.
There ARE to this day MEN who I am in some way attracted to, emotionally, intellectually and yes... Physically...
(If John Cameron Mitchell is reading PM me...)
EVENTUALLY, these terms will become redundant.
Straight/Gay/Bi/Metro... FUCK IT ALL!
Do what YOU FEEL, don't hurt anyone and don't beat yourself up about it.
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(I have had sex with three GUYS in my life. I enjoyed it, it WAS a bit weird but I have no regrets.)
I have NEVER masturbated over same-sex sex.
There ARE to this day MEN who I am in some way attracted to, emotionally, intellectually and yes... Physically...
(If John Cameron Mitchell is reading PM me...)
EVENTUALLY, these terms will become redundant.
Straight/Gay/Bi/Metro... FUCK IT ALL!
Do what YOU FEEL, don't hurt anyone and don't beat yourself up about it.
xx SF
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Erm... im still not sure i have been with 3 guys in the past which i enjoyed very and i am turned on by some gay/bi porn but its more of a fantasy than an undying urge to be with a guy so i would probably just class myself as curious i think. If anyone thinks differently please comment i like constructive criticism
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I listed myself as bi-curious because i haven't decided yet if I like girls as well as I do men. I haven't had enough experience in the same sex relationship yet to know. I agree there is no need for labels, but some think there is. So to answer your question, you are curious.
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I personally addressed that question many years as bisexual, but have enjoyed and preferred keeping it a secret to this day. For me personally, being in the closet is more of an adventure of deep secrets and unique challenges in life, rather than everyone always knowing your business and giving you their biased opinion.
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bi sexual for sure, though, I would be very happy with a tranny, with nice tits and cock
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Erm... im still not sure i have been with 3 guys in the past which i enjoyed very and i am turned on by some gay/bi porn but its more of a fantasy than an undying urge to be with a guy so i would probably just class myself as curious i think. If anyone thinks differently please comment i like constructive criticism
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Again it is people trying to mentally put themselves and others into neat bins...but it isn't that easy. I have been married to three different women and had sex with another half dozen or so in-between and during marriages and casual relationships with other women when single, I just can't say no to sex. Also, had three boy/boy, man/man sexual encounters and now am very open to doing it again in my twilight years. I like all kinds of porn and women/women, male/male both excite me, as well as, consensual love/sex meetings and group sex, humiliation, bondage, whatever...it is in my psyche, I guess. So back what to call me/them. Whatever, it don't matter just try "Happy" or "Fulfilled" or "Needy". Maybe just call them for some hot times together 
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I was curious enough once. I tried it. I decided it wasn't the way I wanted to live my life. I chose to be straight.
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I was curious enough once. I tried it. I decided it wasn't the way I wanted to live my life. I chose to be straight.
I don't think choose is the right word. It infers an option. You found you were not bisexual, so you were straight. If you discovered you were bi but lived a purely heterosexual life, then you would have chosen to be straight.
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I am definitely be sexual, I enjoy women and men the same
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I'm more, by the way, it makes life so much simpler !
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I don't think choose is the right word. It infers an option. You found you were not bisexual, so you were straight. If you discovered you were bi but lived a purely heterosexual life, then you would have chosen to be straight.
To say that anyone who is bi has absolutely no choice in their sexuality, would require that they must be with both male and female partners at the same time, all the time...they wouldn't have a choice. They must be a slave to their biology, and have no self control in their sexuality or their life choices. To claim that a person has no choice, means they are physically incapable of choosing who they have sex with. Only then, would they truly not have a choice. We all have choices every single day of our lives, how we want to live it. People do have a choice in their sexuality, and what desires they want to act on, whether they want to admit it or not. Choose is exactly the right word.
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To say that anyone who is bi has absolutely no choice in their sexuality, would require that they must be with both male and female partners at the same time, all the time...they wouldn't have a choice. They must be a slave to their biology, and have no self control in their sexuality or their life choices. To claim that a person has no choice, means they are physically incapable of choosing who they have sex with. Only then, would they truly not have a choice. We all have choices every single day of our lives, how we want to live it. People do have a choice in their sexuality, and what desires they want to act on, whether they want to admit it or not. Choose is exactly the right word.
This is so typical of a heterosexual.
The only choice you have is to live a lie or accept your sexuality. You chose to be who you are, you didn't choose to be straight.
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This is so typical of a heterosexual.
The only choice you have is to live a lie or accept your sexuality. You chose to be who you are, you didn't choose to be straight.
Or we can look at it from other perspective and say humans are bisexual to start with and not heterosexual as most people think, and there then is possible choice in preferences.
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Or we can look at it from other perspective and say humans are bisexual to start with and not heterosexual as most people think, and there then is possible choice in preferences.
No, you choose how to live your life not your orientation. There's a difference.
Not everybody is bisexual. A lot of people have absolutely no sexual attraction for the same sex.