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What makes a big girl, well, big?

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If a girl's belly sticks out more than her boobs? That's big.


Once upon a time I used this definition too.
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I've never been too good with the sizes-thing. Always been attracted to the 'proportional' shape - not quite an hour-glass, but curves in the right place. Let's say at least an 8" differential in size of Tits & ass versus the waist. Tight bodies are a bonus, but real women will carry at least some 'jiggle'.

As a visual guide, check out Chef's red-headed flaming AV and you've got my number. I've been lucky to date that kind of shape in as small as a 4' 11" frame all the way up to a sexy 6' 2" amazon (AND I insisted she wear her stiletto's even though it made me look like an elf next to her!!!).
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Elf's can be cute. So can gnomes.
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Elf's can be cute. So can gnomes.


How about trolls?
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Elf's can be cute. So can gnomes.


How about trolls?


Trolls are NEVER cute, paintman!
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Then that explains why I've never been called cute.
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Elf's can be cute. So can gnomes.


How about trolls?


Sometimes they are.


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I don't mean to boast but I did feature in 2 movies back in the 1980s...


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I don't think there is any girl that's too big..I mean unless they are like 1,200 pounds..but hey, every girl has their uniqueness.
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I don't think its possible to build a chart that nails it. Its not dress size, bust size, height, weight or waist that determines a woman's sexiness. Its in her smile, her laughter, her eyes, the way she carries her weight (no matter how big).... There is a point when you can tell when a woman no longer cares about her aura. Being a plus size does not disqualify a woman from being sexy. But if it bothers her, it can.

You can stand two women side by side with the exact same statistics and one might be sexy as hell, because she's confident, at peace and keeps herself clean and looking her best, even if overweight. While the other doesn't even try. She's self conscious about her weight, but won't do anything about it. She hates her love handles, but instead of getting on a treadmill, she eats herself sick in depression. The first is sexy, the second is not.

The girl could be a size 0 and be horribly unattractive, because her personality is sickening, her health shattered and her spirit a mess, with depression, self confidence issues, etc... size isn't the issue, to a point.

The difference is that line that cannot be defined. It doesn't show in her weight, it shows when she feels unsexy because of it. I can see it in them and so can others.

Then, I confess, there is a physical line that can be crossed as well, where she can feel as sexy as she wants, but no one else will ever think it, except the odd obesity fetisher. If she weighs 700 pounds and can't get out of bed without the help of a forklift... she's much too big. period. If that makes me shallow to think so... so be it. I admit I have a threshold... but generally its not as narrow as most.

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"above USA size 14, she's nearing the upper end of what I'm attracted to."


Nuance of connotation aside, I'd argue that this is synonymous with my original sentiment.
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http://www.usatourist.com/english/tips/womens-sizes.html

http://www.bodenusa.com/en-us/help/womens-fit-and-size-charts.html

Size 6 US is my ceiling. And I'm not in the trucking industry, so I'm not even going there.



Since you posted some really good number size comparisons.. I have a polite request for you.. do you know maybe comparisment between inches and centimetres when we talk how tall is guy or gal.. and pounds and kilograms when we talk how much they weight.
..hope this won't be too much trouble for you


She ... the number in the first column is weight in pounds, the second column is height in feet and inches. I am tall and slender, some people would classify me as skinny. At 6'3" and 193 pounds, this is just about the same 'size' I have been for the last 30 years, and I've always been attracted to very slender and (to me) fit women. I know a 40 year old who is 5'2" and 107#s and she's almost all muscle (her I would classify as super-fit).

But this is my range (and not recommended for all men to follow).

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Dark's right. It's the size of their heart that matters the most.

Once anyone answers this question with specific measurements, someone's going to feel insulted.


I agree.


Besides, I'm bigger and curvy.. and I'm beautiful smile I don't care what people think.. There is a man out there that will love me for every inch I have. Plus, I'm highly intelligent. That makes me doubly sexy.

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Plus, I'm highly intelligent. That makes me doubly sexy.


Yes it does. Welcome to the forums.
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Dark's right. It's the size of their heart that matters the most.

Once anyone answers this question with specific measurements, someone's going to feel insulted.


I agree.

Besides, I'm bigger and curvy.. and I'm beautiful smile I don't care what people think.. There is a man out there that will love me for every inch I have. Plus, I'm highly intelligent. That makes me doubly sexy.


I am also A Big Beautiful woman, with nice curves and I am very intelligent, caring and loving .. I know that I am I have been told I am beautiful and I always feel sexy....

I know guys are asses sometimes and can be only worried about appearances. But I know I am more sensual, loving, and caring unlike.... the twiggy skinny snobby girl who wears a size 0 and no personality because she is only interested in herself and what she can extract from a man....


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Thanks chefkathleen smile

And redhotmommacita, I agree for sure.

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Being the BBW Master I have to point out that there is bound to be a great deal of what constitutes big. I actually wrote an essay on the subject on some other site in which I observed...

"Here in North America as well as in many European countries the BBW reigns supreme. Every single day I am surrounded by BBWs. They are either outright BBWs or BBWs by default due to the fact that there is a narrow margin as to what is considered to be just the right and desirable size. That old standard makes women with maybe just an extra pound or two have the perception that they are fat and everyone else, all the other “normal” people think they’re fat. So if there is some exacting weight, in one way or another, the scales seemed tipped that most of the women in industrialized nations would be considered BBWs.

The right and desirable size?

Well, for me, we’re usually starting around at least 250, and that would be if I judged a person on their physical dimensions alone. There’s so much more to a BBW than some number on the scale.

In my own view, and granted this is my perception and not an absolute fact, BBWs make up around 80% of the women I come into contact with on a day to day basis. I live in an area driven by tourism that has its fair share of visitors from overseas, mainly Great Britain, France and Germany. So if such a large percentage of the population is made up of BBWs it would mean that BBWs would be the most versatile group of women out there."

So it is hard to narrow down exactly what makes a big girl big, but the physical attributes I look for are a plump face, chunky arms and thighs, and a nice round belly. (Yes, again a majority of women on Earth).

As to how big is too big?

Well I do say that if you can't stand or sit for 30 minutes, can not walk or stand on your own, have breathing problems or a heart condition, that you can not ride this ride.

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Unhealthy is too big. If you can't go on a hike anymore, or your doctor is telling you to change your lifestyle, then big is too big, IMO. It shouldn't be a body image thing, but a health thing. I've done river trips with "bigger" girls who could run circles around me, and that's attractive.
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I hope she has a big ass! Been with some "big" women with small butts. What a let down.