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BelleduJour
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 55
Canada

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I'm a single parent in my forties and ever since I divorced 7 years ago, I've been dating and been in relationships with younger men. It wasn't initially MY first choice as I've always dated older but the attention I typically receive from men between 22-36 is overwhelming. It appears men my age are too busy chasing after little girls half their age anyway so I figured why not enjoy the company of younger men?! Our sex drives line perfectly after all
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For me it's gotta be amateur anything. I'm so over mainstream big production porn
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I haven't shaved my pussy in years and prefer to wax it all off...by a professional. But I have had my partner(s) shave my legs whilst in bathing together.

As for shaving my partner, hell yeah! Actually it's more like trimming since I haven't been with a man who shaves it all off in years which suits me just fine. I like my men to look like men and not boys and prefer them to maintain a bit of well manicured hair down there. If I can be of service, I'm happy to oblige.

I will also agree with the poster who said they've shaved their partner's face before. I've done this before as well and will agree that it's incredibly sexy to have him give up all control like that.

It's another level of intimacy I really enjoy.

Me likey
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I've become quite brutal regarding friendships on social media and Lush is no exception. Whenever someone sends me a friend request I always check out their profile and any stories they may have if only out of curiosity. But it takes much more than just some blind and empty request sent my way for me to take notice.

I prefer to keep my list small and selective, quality over quantity as they say smile
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Forgive me if this has already been suggested and/or dealt with but marking threads we've already responded to would be helpful. I belong to another forum where they do this and I find it very helpful. In some cases, threads can go on for 20+ pages and it takes a lot of time to scan through every page to see if I posted anything already so as not to repeat myself unnecessarily.

Thanks!
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Quote by Frank



Fav? How many do you have?





A woman of class never tells
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A little bit of both. I've always been hyper sexual even before I truly understood what that meant. As already said, Lush fills a need for many of us and sometimes it's just a fun place to stretch out your legs and see what you find ;)
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The Phenomenal Woman



One of my favorite poems by her! She will be missed. RIP heart
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Love it!

The most unique experience was this past January after a massive snow storm that shut down my city. Went for a walk in the park late a night and ended up in the middle of at the cluster of evergreens where we got busy in the snow ;)
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Yep.

Cyber sex turned into phone sex turned into cam sex turned into a full-blown relationship that's been going strong for about a year now biggrin
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No I have not. I don't think I've mastered the whole no-strings-attached thing so therefore I prefer to keep friends and sex separated.
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Well, I'm currently in a long distance relationship so whenever we get together, it feels like a vacation because it technically is since we both take time off work and our regular lives to be together. As a result of our unique situation, we tend to be in this perpetual "honeymoon" state when we finally get to be together. We have done a couple of road trips and have more get-aways planned for the future and it's been equally exciting thus far smile
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1) What is the most number of times you have cyber fucked in a day either in a one-to-one chat or a chat room?
A: I have never kept track but maybe 2 or 3? And that would have been early on when I was still stretching out my legs on here. Since that time, it's only been one at a time and that is just how I prefer it.

2) If you fuck in a chat room, do you prefer a public room or a private room?
A: Hate the chatrooms.

3) Do you have one-on-one sex, group sex or both?
A: I'm all about the one-on-one and making a connection with the person I've chosen to play with be it in real life or online and I expect my partners to be as well. If not, I'm not the least bit interested. I mean, is it really that hard to focus on one person at a time???

4) Do you indulge in activities you would not do in real life, or is cyber fucking just an extension of your regular sex life?
A: It's an extension. There were a few times where I ventured down paths I not only hadn't done before but wasn't going to be something I would engage in in the future for whatever reason. I quickly realized that it wasn't as enjoyable as I thought it would be and as a result, I've always kept my cyber sex life as close to reality as possible. It just feels much more authentic to me and if it's something I haven't done yet, it only

5) Do you masturbate to orgasm whilst online or afterwards?
A: I've done both.

6) Have you moved on to Skype, Yahoo Messenger or some other format where you can watch each other masturbating?
A: Yes, I have indulged in some cam fun over the years with a select few that made the cut ;)

7) Has cyber sex had an effect on your every day life, and if so what?
A: It has only enhanced my life for the better and made me a much more confident lover.

8) If you have a regular partner in real life, do you think of cyber sex as cheating?
A: Absolutely which is why I do not engage in cyber fun whilst in a relationship. It's just bad karma.
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howz about an area frequently forgotten on here, by some of our Superstuds ? and the answer is ... roll of drums ....

MY BRAIN / MIND


BINGO! I will concur. Stimulate my mind and you can have my body. It's really that simple ;)
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This is the best tip of all - not everyone can (or should) wear stilettos. There are plenty of ways to cheat height with stacked heels and wedges that are much more forgiving for those that don't feel comfortable in them. I agree - the clomping is the worst. The way you move is always sexier than what's on your feet, in my opinion. Rocking flats or a kitten heel is always more attractive than a woman that's wearing shoes that make her clomp, lurch and hobble.


Agreed. I'm a woman that loves her heels but I will only wear those styles and heights I know I can get away with and look good while doing it.
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A green smoothie with blueberries, banana, kale, spinach, chia seeds and almond milk. Looks and maybe sounds disgusting but it is DELICIOUS! And really, really good for you too ;)
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This topic came up in conversation with a friend and I was curious what Lushies think is the difference between having a preference for something and calling it a fetish? What's the marker that turns it into one and not the other? Or maybe they're the same?
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Oh WOW, that truly makes me sad - I can't even imagine what it did to you! I know how lonely and unattractive I felt after only a year, I could never imagine going that long again. I get saucy after a month now, sheesh... Glad you're in a better place now, BelleduJour


Now that I'm back into the swing of things, I too get VERY "saucy" after a month as well. It's been like opening Pandora's Box, lol.

And yes, it wreaked havoc on my self-esteem and caused a great deal of personal issues (depression, low self-esteem, bulimia, anxiety...etc.) that I've since worked through thanks to some great therapy, having good people around me and a desire to forgive and be forgiven.

Life is good these days.
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Quote by RichInMich
Besides, isn't the next-morning guilt of a woman the absolutely worst thing imaginable?


A wise man.