I'd pay a visit to myself when I was 14.
Those were dark days of adjusting, and some shaky academic decisions.
Basically I'd self-comfort and reassure myself that things DO get better and that problems will work
themselves out, but I'd advise being more proactive in solving/shaping my issues rather than turning
away from them and risking the fact that they may or may solve themselves.
That way, the confidence in myself would come sooner than it did.
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Ladies, I'mma let you finish, but...
In all respect, I pretty much understood what you meant, initially. But, I appreciate for going deeper and
elaborating. Maybe that's what I should have done in my first response?
I guess my main idea is that it's the thought that counts. If you know your lady is particular about what
she wears, then just give her the money, gift card, etc. When you're gifting, IMO, nothing matters except
her being pleased about the gift.
...But I can't bring myself to pretend to be anything I'm not/not feeling, regardless of situation. I'm basically
honest to a fault (with proper consideration about tactfulness). She can be pissed at me for the moment, that's
fine, but she won't have to deal with skepticism when she asks of my opinion, and I say she looks fantastic.
Quote by 1ball
Maybe our opinions don't really differ. Maybe you just didn't understand what I meant.
In all respect, I pretty much understood what you meant, initially. But, I appreciate for going deeper and
elaborating. Maybe that's what I should have done in my first response?
I guess my main idea is that it's the thought that counts. If you know your lady is particular about what
she wears, then just give her the money, gift card, etc. When you're gifting, IMO, nothing matters except
her being pleased about the gift.
...But I can't bring myself to pretend to be anything I'm not/not feeling, regardless of situation. I'm basically
honest to a fault (with proper consideration about tactfulness). She can be pissed at me for the moment, that's
fine, but she won't have to deal with skepticism when she asks of my opinion, and I say she looks fantastic.
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I'm feeling brave.
I don't think asking about the "why" is discussing real counts of incest. Nor do I think the inquisitors
are seeking such material. A question is a question. Is it wrong to ask questions, regardless of how
obvious it might seem to others?
And speaking of questions...
Who can tell whether or not stories are fictitious? Just like anyone here can claim things about themselves;
just like anyone can post pictures and claim that's really them; just like someone can claim things about
their experiences, embellishing or misleading--couldn't the same can be done with the origins of stories?
Please note that I'm not trying to attack anyone or anything. I'm just curious.
I don't think asking about the "why" is discussing real counts of incest. Nor do I think the inquisitors
are seeking such material. A question is a question. Is it wrong to ask questions, regardless of how
obvious it might seem to others?
And speaking of questions...
Who can tell whether or not stories are fictitious? Just like anyone here can claim things about themselves;
just like anyone can post pictures and claim that's really them; just like someone can claim things about
their experiences, embellishing or misleading--couldn't the same can be done with the origins of stories?
Please note that I'm not trying to attack anyone or anything. I'm just curious.
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Quote by 1ball
I know you asked the gals, but I advise you not to waste your time or your money. Men and women both suck at buying lingerie. Prostitutes succeed because they learn financially what sells. Almost all men, consciously or not, buy lingerie to reveal what they want to reveal. Almost all women, consciously or not, buy lingerie to conceal what they want to conceal. The odds of success are infinitessimally small. The dramas involved play out in almost every relationship with the same results. The lingerie goes unworn or the guy acts impressed with something that isn't all that impressive.
A gift certificate lets her waste your money the way she wants to. So if your only goal is to do that, try to act convincingly pleased when she shows it to you. That a better option than buying what you think she'll look good in. That pleases neither of you, because it will sit in the back of her lingerie drawer until the faeries ruin the elastic. If you make the mistake of going shopping with her, try to correctly guess her hints about what she wants to buy and let her buy it. It doesn't matter if it does nothing for you. She will never understand that you can't control what appeals to you and she will punish you for that. You're supposed to give her credit for trying no matter how unsuccessful the result. This is one of those things where a true meeting of the desires is extremely rare. One or the other is sacrificing for the sake of the other. It might as well be the guy, because, let's face it, we can be satisfied with anything that doesn't require a nuclear bomb to get into.
I think you touched on some interesting points here. The guy picks what he wants to be revealed, and the girl picks what she
wants concealed. But I'd like to think that's it's not a waste of money to give her funds for lingerie if whatever she has in her
collection has pleased you before. It also wouldn't be a waste if you just wanted to do something nice for her, regardless of
what's in it for you (like visual pleasure).
I've personally never been punished for asking "her" to try something that appeals to me. If the answer is "No," it's no big deal;
I leave it as that and I keep it moving. But since I generally love lingerie on women, it's hard for me to be dissatisfied.
But I guess the main thing here is experience and personal tastes. I'm speaking from my own perspectives on both, so that's
probably why our opinions differ.
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Make up is beautiful, but not in the sense of what it does to a woman's face (or body),
but what it does to her confidence and her attitude when she goes out to face the day.
Unless you're in a specific religion, then there's really no way to hide your face, and why would you?
So if a woman wants to hide her imperfection(s) that really stunt her self-esteem, make up allows her.
Who am I to say she shouldn't? If it's done well, all's well.
Fake tans? Whatever. If she doesn't turn orange, it's fine, but I personally don't entertain the idea that
tans are sexy, or youthful, or make you look healthy. If nothing else, I'd love it if she'd love her natural
complexion and stop obsessing over how "pale" she is.
but what it does to her confidence and her attitude when she goes out to face the day.
Unless you're in a specific religion, then there's really no way to hide your face, and why would you?
So if a woman wants to hide her imperfection(s) that really stunt her self-esteem, make up allows her.
Who am I to say she shouldn't? If it's done well, all's well.
Fake tans? Whatever. If she doesn't turn orange, it's fine, but I personally don't entertain the idea that
tans are sexy, or youthful, or make you look healthy. If nothing else, I'd love it if she'd love her natural
complexion and stop obsessing over how "pale" she is.
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Quote by Piquet
Someone once said that nobody is 100% straight. I think that's true. I find myself admiring attractive people of both genders when I'm out in public. But I would never consider becoming intimate with a man. I have watched gay porn but I found it curiously dull because there were no delectible female bodies in it. I guess that makes me mostly straight.
I watch a lot of straight porn and I get more enjoyment out of it when I find both the women and the men in it attractive. I really don't like seeing some gorgeous, slim twentysomething chick with a fat, balding, wrinkly old guy. It has nothing to do with being straight or gay but it has everything to do with aesthetics and personal taste.
I get your point, and I agree with majority of it, but here's my opinion:
Recognising attractive features in the same sex doesn't really make a person
less than 100% straight. If we didn't recognise these characteristics, there probably
wouldn't be so many people who wish things looked differently on themselves, or
strive to be just as/more attractive to compete.
I think some people just have an even keener appreciation for beauty that's less
focused on gender but more on characteristics. Absolutely nothing wrong with that.
And I'm with you on the porn, mate. I guess it's the fantasy that it's possible to get
a smokin' hot girl in bed with you even if you're a slob, or maybe it's the dirtiness
factor that a slob is nailing this PYT. Either way, it's not my style. I'd rather see two
attractive people myself, lol.
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Quote by CumGirl
Dunk me in your milky stuff,
Coat me with your cream.
Thrust my ever smiling face
Somewhere quite obscene.
Ogle me, my arms splayed wide;
Yummy legs, fixed spread,
Just wanton and available
Tasty gingerbread.
Stroke my skin and watch me crumble,
Falling into bliss.
Use me any way you want;
Your Gingerbread Miss.
Brilliant!
I forgot what I wanted to contribute to this thread after reading...
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I guess maybe I'm just too particular?
It's hard for a lot of people to keep their sexiness when their mouth is stretched,
especially when viewed from above. So...I guess if she hasn't mastered how to
meet my eyes with a certain alluring glint in hers, then all I see is something
pretty that's...distorted.
Like looking at someone through fish-eye lenses.
edit:
what I mean is: No. 1 vs No. 2
It's hard for a lot of people to keep their sexiness when their mouth is stretched,
especially when viewed from above. So...I guess if she hasn't mastered how to
meet my eyes with a certain alluring glint in hers, then all I see is something
pretty that's...distorted.
Like looking at someone through fish-eye lenses.
edit:
what I mean is: No. 1 vs No. 2
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When you wear sunglasses more than you wear your prescriptions; when you see heat snakes on asphalt in the distance;
when the scent of gasoline hangs lower, thicker, stronger in heavily-trafficked streets; when you long for just one minute of
winter air; when you see the sunlight lift weight off peoples' shoulders; when 8PM is a hot golden haze; when you hear the
silvery laughter of children (possibly in your backyard); when rainfall feels most quenching; when you find yourself smiling
to yourself more often; when you see your friends more; when you think the day couldn't get any more beautiful and it
does; when nothing matters more than living in the moment...
The list goes on.
when the scent of gasoline hangs lower, thicker, stronger in heavily-trafficked streets; when you long for just one minute of
winter air; when you see the sunlight lift weight off peoples' shoulders; when 8PM is a hot golden haze; when you hear the
silvery laughter of children (possibly in your backyard); when rainfall feels most quenching; when you find yourself smiling
to yourself more often; when you see your friends more; when you think the day couldn't get any more beautiful and it
does; when nothing matters more than living in the moment...
The list goes on.
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I use my own discretion based on what I observe/glean/learn of people.
I've never been quizzed about who I am on these forums, nor have I written much, so I speak of
past experiences, elsewhere:
1_ Who I am and what I've done are not exactly written in my works. I splice; maybe an unrealised
fantasy here, mixed with something I've seen/read, but rewritten to suit my fancies. Sometimes I write
based on what will capture a certain audience, and in those cases, even less of "me" is interlaced.
2_ I do share "myself," but it's not much, or nothing significant. Sometimes it's just simple negligence, most
times it's intentional. If it's a fan, I would share even less than if it was someone who was purely interested
in my writing. But if were the case, then I doubt they'd ask for more of "me."
In any case, I'm flattered and pleasantly surprised when I pique someone's interest.
3_ I'm not sure what "revelations" entail, but I'm going to assume it's something that I'd keep close
to vest. Expanding on that assumption, I don't offer what I'm not asked, and if I'm asked about these
things, I shy away from them.
4_ I respond politely and creatively when I'm asked about myself.
Nosy yet secretive? Give and take, Lass. Give and take. : )
I've never been quizzed about who I am on these forums, nor have I written much, so I speak of
past experiences, elsewhere:
1_ Who I am and what I've done are not exactly written in my works. I splice; maybe an unrealised
fantasy here, mixed with something I've seen/read, but rewritten to suit my fancies. Sometimes I write
based on what will capture a certain audience, and in those cases, even less of "me" is interlaced.
2_ I do share "myself," but it's not much, or nothing significant. Sometimes it's just simple negligence, most
times it's intentional. If it's a fan, I would share even less than if it was someone who was purely interested
in my writing. But if were the case, then I doubt they'd ask for more of "me."
In any case, I'm flattered and pleasantly surprised when I pique someone's interest.
3_ I'm not sure what "revelations" entail, but I'm going to assume it's something that I'd keep close
to vest. Expanding on that assumption, I don't offer what I'm not asked, and if I'm asked about these
things, I shy away from them.
4_ I respond politely and creatively when I'm asked about myself.
Nosy yet secretive? Give and take, Lass. Give and take. : )
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Quote by rainmaker78
ere's what I don't understand ... peek-a-boo bras and crotchless panties. What's the sense? If your intention is to give me access, give me full fucking access!!
I believe they're serving their purpose just fine with you. The intent
is to tease and to drive the lover mad. It may also serve to give
lingerie-lovers a point of access while still enjoying the look of
lingerie on their significant other.
For me, I enjoy majority of designer lingerie; things that are made
with style and imagination; a hint of sheer here, a touch of leather
there.
Sometimes my girlfriend takes me "e-shopping" with her to pick
out the things I would enjoy her to wear for me. Bordelle is my
favorite line.
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I guess the main one of concern is whether or not I look
as appealing naked as I did clothed. What an I say? I am
usually sharply dressed.
I just want to please. Majority of my satisfaction is based
on her own satisfaction (and hopefully beyond general
'satisfaction'), so I guess it's whether or not her orgasm
was real, and whether or not her orgasm was intense.
as appealing naked as I did clothed. What an I say? I am
usually sharply dressed.
I just want to please. Majority of my satisfaction is based
on her own satisfaction (and hopefully beyond general
'satisfaction'), so I guess it's whether or not her orgasm
was real, and whether or not her orgasm was intense.
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Sense of touch.
Can't imagine being at a loss of majority of my senses and completely
numb as well. How will I know if something is wrong? How will I know
someone is really there for me if I can't feel their reassurance? Imagine
trying to eat if you can't even sense the food is in your mouth, or choking
or...or...okay, fine. I wanted to keep sex...
Can't imagine being at a loss of majority of my senses and completely
numb as well. How will I know if something is wrong? How will I know
someone is really there for me if I can't feel their reassurance? Imagine
trying to eat if you can't even sense the food is in your mouth, or choking
or...or...okay, fine. I wanted to keep sex...
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AUGUST BABY
Outgoing personality. Takes risks. [s]Feeds on attention[/s]. No self-control. Kind hearted. Self-confident. [s]Loud[/s] and boisterous. [s]VERY[/s] revengeful. Easy to get along with and talk to. Has an “every thing’s peachy” attitude. Likes talking [s]and singing[/s]. Loves music. Daydreamer. Easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. Hates studying. In need of “that someone” [ errr, wut? ]. Longs for freedom. Rebellious when withheld or restricted. Lives by “no pain no gain” caring. Always a suspect. Playful. Mysterious. “Charming” [s]or “beautiful”[/s] to everyone. Stubborn. Curious. Independent. Strong willed. A fighter.
Outgoing personality. Takes risks. [s]Feeds on attention[/s]. No self-control. Kind hearted. Self-confident. [s]Loud[/s] and boisterous. [s]VERY[/s] revengeful. Easy to get along with and talk to. Has an “every thing’s peachy” attitude. Likes talking [s]and singing[/s]. Loves music. Daydreamer. Easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. Hates studying. In need of “that someone” [ errr, wut? ]. Longs for freedom. Rebellious when withheld or restricted. Lives by “no pain no gain” caring. Always a suspect. Playful. Mysterious. “Charming” [s]or “beautiful”[/s] to everyone. Stubborn. Curious. Independent. Strong willed. A fighter.
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Quote by Geezus03
I know it may even sound gross, i don't even like the stuff but try a bottle of V8 juice..Some good old fashioned veggies happen to get me going sometimes, without all those chemicals and sugar!
Are you kidding? V8 is delicious. Maybe try the fruit
and veggie blend instead of just veggies?
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Quote by simplyjohn
Regardless of whether I thought you to be unreasonable or paranoid I would have not gone this assuming of course that I wanted our relationship to continue which does not seem to be the case here and thats the key. No bloke who is enjoying a relationship would want to jeopardise it over attending a party on his own surely !!.
+1
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
You could try ginseng (natural) or hydroxycut (unnatural). The latter was best when it contained the now-banned ephedrine, but if you ask the guy at the counter at many vitamin stores, they usually have the original version stored in the back.
There's actually quite a kick in stuff like Tylenol for colds etc. in the pseudoephedrine content. My friend used to pop them every morning because they made her "feel good"... that combined with a moderate coffee intake and she was always wired.
If all else fails, try brewing your coffee with Red Bull.
I will give all of these a shot.
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I would have stopped spending as much time with her, especially since I would have KNOWN
she was purposely after you, with only ill-willed intentions. Maybe I would just be a means for
her to get back at you; an instrument/trophy and nothing more. Shame he didn't consider this.
She sounds like a venus fly-trap, and you're better off without him.
she was purposely after you, with only ill-willed intentions. Maybe I would just be a means for
her to get back at you; an instrument/trophy and nothing more. Shame he didn't consider this.
She sounds like a venus fly-trap, and you're better off without him.