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is sex a good exercise?

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Nothing with sex studs and professional models.
I prefer the home made stuff or college students having fun - naked.
Masturbation ones are quite interesting, I like seeing the women cum like I do.

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Hello, fellow foreigners!

I thought I would write a little guide that might be of assistance if English is not your first language. I have been living in Canada for ten years, but I still struggle with quite a few things when I am writing. I thought I would share some simple tips that have helped me.

First of all, if you are in the same position as I am, I would suggest you find a friend to always proofread your work before submitting a story. It is sometimes hard to catch certain errors you make on your own. If you are serious about posting stories, then find someone you trust and feel comfortable with. Have them read though your work and point out potential errors. Finally, reading your story out loud yourself will also help you "hear" issues that you might miss while just reading silently. Our brains read what we know it should be, not always what it is. This works for native English speakers, too.

Here are some common errors that we foreigners make:


Effect or affect

Effect – The result of something.

Example: The Viagra he took had an effect on his ability to have an erection.


Affect – Create a change in something.

Example: He was kissing her neck, and it was affecting her ability to concentrate.



Then or than

Then - Then is used to indicate time and a sequence of events.

Example: I was going to undress for him, and then bring out my toys.


Than – Than is used to indicating comparison.

Example: I was hornier than an eighteen year old boy.



Two, too or to

Two – Only used to describe the number 2.

Example: She had two lovely cookies.


Too – Too means "as well" or "also". It is used to explain something that is more than it should be.

Example: She was too tired to go out dancing.


To – To is used to express things.

Example: To fuck / to fight / to suck.



Accept or except

Accept – To hold something as true and to receive something willingly.

Example: I accept your invitation to partake in a threesome.


Except – Means apart from, excluding or not including.

Example: I would go with you, except I don’t trust you.



Lay or lie

Please see the link for DanielleX forum thread, where she explains it perfectly.

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postsm1336495_Lie-versus-Lay--which-is-which.aspx#1336495



There, their or they’re

There – There is the opposite of "here". It means "in that place", not here.

Example: There is a sex shop downtown.


Their – Shows possession and ownership.

Example: Their dungeon is amazing.


They’re – Contraction of "they are".

Example: They’re horny = they are horny.



Whose or who’s

Whose – Whose means "belonging to whom?”

Example: Whose stripper was more expensive?


Who’s – Who’s is a contraction of either ‘who is’ or ‘who has’.

Example: Who’s going to go skinny dipping with me?



Your or you’re

Your – A possessive adjective. It specifies that something belongs to you.

Example: Your vibrator, your girlfriend, your ball-gag.


You’re – You’re a contraction of "you are".

Example: You’re an asshat = You are an asshat.



Lose or loose

Lose – Lose means that you have lost something, failed to keep or misplaced.

Example: If I lose this bet, I have to kiss my best friend's husband.


Loose – Loose means that something is not right or dense, free from constraint.

Example: She was now loose from her restraints.



Access or excess

Access – The right to enter or to gain entry somewhere.

Example: You need a passkey to get into the VIP section of the strip club.


Excess – Describes a quantity much larger than is needed.

Example: I am trying to lose excess weight.



Its or it’s

This one can be a bit tricky, but let me see if I can break this down a bit.


Its – "Its" is like "his" or "her". It does not have an apostrophe.

Example: "His" is used for a masculine possessor – "These are his cock rings".


"Her" is used for feminine possessor – "These are her nipple clamps".


"Its" is used for neutral possessor. "These are its batteries”.


It’s – "It’s" is short for "it is" or "it has". This is a set rule and cannot be used for anything else.

Example: It’s exciting when he calls me his good girl.


Passed or Past

Passed

The word passed is the past tense or the verb “to pass”. I pass (present tense), I passed and I have passed (both past tense) and I will pass (future tense).

Example: She passed the audition with distinction.

To pass often means to move past, and this is where confusion can arise. Of note, to pass can also mean to sail past, to fly past, to run past… etc. The method of moving is actually irrelevant. This is worth keeping in mind, because if you have to use a verb indicating motion already, then it will be partnered with past and passed. Remember, passed is the past tense of the verb to pass. This is a 100% rule. Clear as mud?

Past

The word past has several meanings (usually related to time before the present or to indicate movement from one side of a reference point to the other side.)

Some examples:

This past year was difficult in their relationship.

Don’t go past her hard limits.

A little hot tip:

Try substituting with went past. To test whether passed is correct, substitute it with “went past”. If your sentence still makes sense, then passed is the correct version.

Example:

He passed the sex shop or He went past the sex shop. See, that works.

He skipped passed the sex shop or He skipped went passed the shop. See, that does not work, so it should not be passed, but past.


I am sure there are a lot of other similar things that get mixed up. Please feel free to post any others that come to mind. I do hope this might assist a little. I tried to keep it as simple and to the point as possible.

Thanks.

Saga

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I try to do this with most of my stories.

When I get time, I might go back and add pictures to the others.

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Cheating is physical. Fantasy is all in the mind. If fantasy is cheating there is nobody who can claim not to have cheated. In my opinion cheating is specifically doing something that you and your lover/spouse/significant other have agreed not to do with other people. It seems impossible to me not to have sexual fantasies about other people, they flit in and out of my mind all day long. I have fantasies that I'd never actually want to happen in real life so fantasies aren't wishes. They aren't intentions to have sex, they are just thoughts about sex.

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I need some new tricks in the bedroom. I've been reading stories but haven't found just the right thing. I can give a great blowjob but when it comes to sex I can tell that my man wants just a little bit more. Any brilliant ideas?

*Nothing is too crazy or out there. Give me your best shot!

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alright how many guys like a bigger woman and what is it about them that you like?

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***I will strongly reccomend you make sure you have contraceptive and prophylactic PROTECTION***

I had to edit when I realised this was a male.

Being shy and nervous is very normal.

Playing and having fun helps.

Be considerate.

I say to allow your emotions to just guide you in every way to be "in the moment" and do not over think things or focus on anything at all except letting go and expressing your feelings in any way you wish to touch and show. Let it flow from within.

FOREPLAY... tease her, touch her, kiss her, go down on her. Spend "time" to excite her. You can start by a massage to relax if you like~ maybe even a bath together and have sex there if you like? Candles? or lights on? (whatever place you like that feels right to both of you ~ ) I would tell you to make it special: a comfortable place and atmosphere (maybe a towel laid under or near by with access to a bathroom.) Make sure she is very, VERY relaxed and excited FIRST... very wet or also bring lube. This will help. Depending on her hymen it will break naturally and is best done in the heat of the moment when she is very into everything and has been very ready. The pressure and snap may cause her some real discomfort or pain, so let her breathe through it and let it pass and continue so pleasure can fill, supercede and replace. It will not take long if you are very attentive to kissing and touching her in ways she is receiving the most pleasure. Be as understanding and intune as you can.

The first time position should be something simple and easy on her. Some positions have a deeper penetration, so I would suggest 'missionary' or side or whatever 'she' is most comfortable with.

If you are taking her out on a date, or before or after, a few pretty flowers as a gift would be wonderful, or really anything thoughtful that seems appropriate.

*Love & care go along way and she will thank you*.

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I always sleep naked so I guess it stands to reason that I LIKE to...not sure I have given it that much thought. It just feels right...and natural..

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WOW! You couldn't even wait until Happy Hour?

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I prefer real boobs "34c" . Nothing better than a firm boob with hard and sensitive nipples. Nothing better then licking a hard nipple while running the other between your fingers.