About
I grew up imprinted with shame about sex. In secret, and tamped down, my desires grew unbidden. Through a long, and convoluted journey, I have evolved; though the fits and twists left marks. I have come to embrace the reality that the allure and mystique of the feminine pulls at the deep places inside me. That desire gets to come out deliciously in sex - actual and imagined.
As a young man, I had a fire in me that led me in varying ways to try to prove myself and mark the world. So I chose to be a soldier. Now I pass on things I know to younger people. Writing and reading here has been a pleasure and a distraction.
ALSO, my avatar is Greg Maddux, Baseball Hall of Fame Pitcher formerly of the Atlanta Braves. No, no, that is NOT me. I played football in high school, not baseball. I'm NOT Greg, but someone told me once that I resemble him.
I am married to a very lovely woman who is a great partner in every sense of the word. We share a love of sex that is being wonderfully refined. Her degree of submissiveness and trust fits well with my degree of dominating. She's very secure in my love for her and is not jealous of friendships I have, but I wouldn't say we are open. Fantasize about it? Yes, totally. She understands how strong my libido is.
I have no judgement about anyone's place on the orientation spectrum, but I'm hetero and basically feel blankly indifferent to men sexually. I'm happy to befriend anyone who's simpatico, however.
Interests
Sexual interests: lots of touching; teasing foreplay that goes all day; kissing; every position in the kama sutra and then inventing a few "signature" ones; use of fingers for g-spot, clit, labia, a-spot, lubed anal play; giving spankings; light bondage; creative domination; cunnilingus...
General interests: cooking, woodworking, writing, auto repair projects, home improvement projects, visual art, history, travel.
Favorite Books
too many to list
Favorite Authors
Fiction: Selena Kitt, Anais Nin, Ernest Hemingway, Michael Connelly, Mark Bowden, Barry Eisler
Favorite Movies
Last of the Mohicans, Troy, Blackhawk Down, Collateral, Heat, Dune
Favorite TV Shows
Sopranos, Deadwood, Mad Men, Masters of Sex, GOT, Dexter, Narcos, Westworld, many others
Favorite Music
Classic Rock, other stuff that I happen to like
While I hate to shutter those glorious windows Into your soul. You have such beautiful Wide-set Luminous Eyes. I love to make your mind fly, To stir your imagination, To start the fever going, Inside you. I love to awaken your other senses, So you can see...
The lunch invitation had simply been the next logical step. He had not planned that it would lead to sex, just more connecting with Jyll, and then eventually to sex. As the hour approached, he felt a surge of anticipation, arousal, and butterflies tinged...
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