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This works for me: I usually take a hot bath with nice bath oils ,then dress in my victoria secrets see threw baby doll and do some modeling for him or the more direct approach: approach him from behind grind my breast in his back reach around and give his cock a rub and whisper in his ear I could use a whole lot more of that Now that's the kind of approach that works wonders.
That's some great advice from the others. I'd say to give her some time; let her open up at her own pace. After more than a year together, Tech and I are still finding new, exciting things to try. Have a few drinks, tie her up and trim it or shave it. Thanks Rocco, she's not a sub but I think if we made a game of it we could work something out!
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I've told her flat out that I like pubic hair that is neatly trimmed, if not shaved. I keep myself tidied up, so fair is fair. She doesn't seem to get it. I love to go down on her, but I don't like doing the hairball thingie, trying to get that hair out of the back of my throat. What do I need to do here to get things squared away (so to speak)? Believe me she gets the "hairball thingie," her not doing anything about it is one BIG hint don't you think? She IS telling you what she feels, but you're not listening. Do you actually love and care for this woman? - you don't say so in your post, you just talk about sex, and that's not enough. The "communication" is all one way and it's all about what YOU want. That's where you're going wrong. So listen to what she's telling you and act upon it, doesn't have to be about sex, women tend to be more subtle than that. You'll get closer and closer and the sex part will come soon enough. The more you just demand, the more she'll feel bullied and clam up.It's all very obtuse and confusing for blokes sometimes, but don't worry, you must have got a lot right already or she'd have dumped you by now. Good luck.steffanie xxx That's about the most condescending comment I've read, the whole "obtuse and confusing for blokes" thing. What you know about men could be written on the head of a pin. As far as love goes, I love her deeply, but that's not what this post was about, but you're too busy projecting all over it that you didn't pick up on that.As far as the other posts, I appreciate your perspective, chefK...it's a good reminder to be patient and allow things to come along. I think every day we're together we get closer and understand more about each other.Barbie, thanks for your input. I don't want to push her away and it's not that important that I need to force her to do something she's not willing or ready to do. I love her the way she is, hairy or not!
And the reason this post was moved would be??????? I moved it because this section is the ask everyone section, so you can get more feedback. You said you wanted feedback from both females and males, and you're more likely to get feedback from both if the question is posted in here rather than Guys ask Gals.I can move it back if you like <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/icon_smile.gif" alt="icon_smile"> Thanks for the clarification, Nicola.
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I'm new to this forum and I think it's amazing. I would really like to get some insight from the female (and male) members of this board about how I can help my SO discover and/or talk about her fantasies with me.Here's whats going on. We've been together for 8 months, which is a long time for me. The sex is great, but tends to be a little too vanilla for me. It's not easy for me to talk about my fantasies, it's taken me a long time to not only discover them, but learn how to talk about them without feeling silly or guilty. I've finally started confessing my fantasies to her, a little at a time. She's a very sexy, beautiful woman...turns heads everywhere, both men and women. I love the thought of other men getting turned on by her, and I'd really like to hear her tell me how it turns her on as well. One of my my fantasies is to watch her seduce and fuck another man. I told her this and we've incorporated this talk into our lovemaking...which is cool. I don't know if that's a fantasy that I'd like to make a reality, or not. Big step.I'm having a REALLY, REALLY difficult time getting her to open up to me about her own fantasies. We have an excellent level of trust. We are very close and talk every day. We have sex at least 4-5 times weekly, and it's terrific. I've never done anything behind her back, I communicate constantly, and I open up about my my feelings and thoughts with her. This has created a bond between us that she has never had with another man. That being said, I try and coax her into telling me about her fantasies, and she is really blocked up. All she can tell me is that she only fantasizes about me and that our sex life is beyond her wildest expectation.I, of course, don't believe that for a minute! What can I do to encourage her to open up more and do some exploring with me? How do I get her more in touch with her inner fantasy life, and, in turn, have her tell me about it?All suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. Thanks!One more thing...my SO has a VERY hairy bush. I've told her flat out that I like pubic hair that is neatly trimmed, if not shaved. I keep myself tidied up, so fair is fair. She doesn't seem to get it. I love to go down on her, but I don't like doing the hairball thingie, trying to get that hair out of the back of my throat. What do I need to do here to get things squared away (so to speak)?
My partner is allowing me to slowly expand her horizons, but it's taken awhile. She is an amazing lover but pretty pedestrian in her tastes. Some of this stuff that floats through my membrane I can't throw at her all at once. For instance, I'd love to watch her seduce and fuck another man, and I'm hoping to one day talk her into it...but for now, I'll settle for letting her know about it a little at a time. And that's just one of my fantasies. What's frustrating is that I know she must have some wild fantasies of her own, but when I try and coax them out of her, she tells me that all she can think of is making love with me. I've GOT to believe that other things MUST cross her mind from time to time.
If I don't have a regular partner I'm usually rubbing one out at least once a day, and I don't think I'm much different than most men. If I'm in a relationship, if we miss a day (and we usually don't!), I have to come, one way or the other. The tough part about is that masturbating, for the most part, is much more boring than having a partner. It takes on a chore-like quality, like vacuuming the living room. Get it done and move on.
I was curious to know whether any guys have actually tried fucking warm apple pie, or anything else for that matter? If I had a penis I would be trying everything :o) ROFL. Yep! You're in touch with your Inner Man.
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