I don't have an OH. I found it's more exciting being a single female. Being an entertainer I'm on the road more than home so I see no need to interrupt my fun with an OH. LOL! I started writing stories about my life or at least my sex life to kind of make a record of my exploits. I've never tried writing fiction to be honest with you, I don't consider myself a writer. All I actually do is describe what happened. But I really enjoy that people like reading my stories. Kathy