ok ladies i have been with my wife for 20 years and as of the last 2-3 years i can not make her cum when we have sex i can get her off orally but not my cock i am not huge 5 in i get vary sensitive and cum some what soon is there any thing i can do to stop being a two pump chump i have jerked off before and that dont help any suggestions would be great thanks
How about experimenting with different positions? Some might be less stimulating for you than others? Or perhaps wearing a condom to decrease sensitivity?
Or I'm sure I've heard of numbing gels that might be able to help?
Other than that, I'm not very sure - I'll bet that other Lushies have ideas and suggestions for you though...
(welcome to the forums BTW!)
I think you should ask the guys this question as some that have had similar experiences (or are willing to admit to it) may offer you more constructive advice than the girls can