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Do you enjoy using a large dildo (the 9" plus girthy ones), or is it somethimg you play with for your man's visual arousal?
I don't use a dildo. I use a vibrator, it is for my pleasure, his arousal is just a bonus.
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Do you enjoy using a large dildo (the 9" plus girthy ones), or is it somethimg you play with for your man's visual arousal?


Nope. I bought a 'real-skin' suction cup dildo last year and it came in either a 6-inch or 8-inch size (insertable length is 6.75inch). I went with the 6-incher. I actually bought it on the way to a girl's night out and had it in my purse, so I showed a few of my girlfriends later who were in disbelief that it was 6-inches because it seemed way bigger than anything they'd seen in real life. It made me realize (yet again) how much guys exaggerate their dick size.

For me, 9+ girthy would be way too much.
I have a 10" long dildo but it isnt really that thick. I have never had the whole length in me, maybe 6 or 7 inches but the longer length makes it easier to hold while using it. I have seen some really large dildos and there is no way I could or would want to use them. I also have a life-like 7" dildo with a suction cup. It is great to use in the shower or bath, stick it on the shower wall. So good!!

And I do agree that they look bigger. Guess guys do exaggerate. Never would have believed that, LOL!
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I don't use a dildo. I use a vibrator, it is for my pleasure, his arousal is just a bonus.


I'm the same way. Dildos just don't do it for me; it's all about that vibrating action!!
Yes, and bigger isn't better! I love my rabbits!
i can't do a really big one, the one I have in my pictures is my first one and it's 7 inches
I've got a realistic from a past relationship I play with once in a while smile
the dildo’s width is more sexually important than its length, because you can choose to insert the dildo to whatever depth you find comfortable, but you can’t change the toy’s width. If you’re in doubt about which length might be right, consider getting one a bit on the longer side—if it’s too long, you can always choose not to insert it fully. Plus, a longer dildo can be easier to hold onto during use.

yes I use lots, like them during 4-play
My under 5 in fingers seem to work just fine for me. No dildos or vibrators...just the all natural stuff. lol
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the dildo’s width is more sexually important than its length, because you can choose to insert the dildo to whatever depth you find comfortable, but you can’t change the toy’s width. If you’re in doubt about which length might be right, consider getting one a bit on the longer side—if it’s too long, you can always choose not to insert it fully. Plus, a longer dildo can be easier to hold onto during use.

yes I use lots, like them during 4-play



Thanks.
If I were your CO I'd find a reason for a barracks inspection daily.
Vibes for me....have a few eggs and butterflies....
Ive got a rabbit and it's my best friend. The girth is good with bumps and the balls inside. The rabbit vibrating on my clit is just mind blowing. If a man enjoys the sight it's a plus but I do it for me.