Is all about the making out we do, her going down on me, even rough sex (that I'm not sure about my comfort level on yet).
But, she still wont let me go down on her.
So, my question is, without any of you knowing her, why do you think she wont let me? I love going down on women, and her not letting me makes me feel a little "left out of the club" so to speak.
Is it that intimate to women, to have a guy go down on you, that even if you've been dating a guy for a couple of months you just can't open that door? I've asked her, and always been vocal about what I want and don't want, but she dodges the direct question.
It turned into an argument tonight, is why I'm asking, and I really like her, and don't want to lose her over me pressing the issue, but I'd like some kind of answer to help me let it go.
Have you ever not wanted someone to go down on you? Why?
I personally love it when men go down on me (and the few ladies that have too) I use it kind of like gateway sex so to speak, foreplay. If I'm not comfortable fucking a guy yet usually I will suck him and then let him eat me. I don't know why you girl doesn't want you too but I am sure there is a reason, for as irrational as you guys think we are we have a reason for our actions 9/10. I suggest asking her what the reason is in a relaxed setting and ask her without also asking to go down on her. Just be loving and open. Thats my advice.
(I know this is ask the girls but idc) If shes not even willing to try it, it sounds like she might worried about something. Pahaps she worried about her scent or if she tastes good down there. Im not sure, but i can imagine alot of girls get paranoid about if they taste and smell good or not, she might be worried that if you dont like her taste it will spoil everything?
I love giving oral sex to girls, but i'll be first to admit that some girls taste better than others, some have tasted great I could lick them for hours, but other girls havent tasted so good, or their taste was over powering, and in all honesty that puts me off alot. But to be honest, girls who are clean and take care of themselves shouldnt have that problem, bit like men who dont clean themselves properly have that same effect on women....