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Are my fetishes weird?

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Well Ill be right up front I never had sex and I have been worried that my fetishes are weird. I like girls in panties mostly boyshorts or bikini type. I ask like girls in one piece swimsuits or leotard. I also would like like them to wear them during sex.
your fetish is not weird, i for one love wearing panties during sex and ive been with guys who also love it and then guys who dont.
Thank you to both of you ladies. I figred he panty fetish wasnt that bad, it was the one piece swimsuit and leotard that was weird.
imo, there's no such thing as a weird fetish, sure, some people might not understand someone elses fetish, but that doesn't make it weird - what turns you on, turns you on - the pantie fetish is probably shared by about every other guy you might run into on the street and i'm fairly certain you're not the only guy into leotards or one piece - honestly, they look good on woman, fitting like a second skin. probably lots of girl out there who'd love to help you fulfill your fetishes. *hugs* you're not weird at all.

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Thank you vry mch, no I hope I can find a women that is okay with it or in to the same thing.
I don't think it's weird at all..
If I may has anyone ever had sex in a one piece/leotard is it possbile? And the say qestion for boyshorts.
As long as you and your partner of OK with your needs and desires, I think nothing is weird. From your discription you are very normal>
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If I may has anyone ever had sex in a one piece/leotard is it possbile? And the say qestion for boyshorts.


I haven't, but it would be possible depending on the stretchability of the fabric, although somewhat awkward for sure. Instead of pushing the fabric to one side, you might find it more erotic to cut a hole and create a 'crotchless leotard' effect for sex if it turns you on.

I don't think it's weird at all though... it's just another variation of an erotic costume (like schoolgirl or nurse outfits). Totally normal.
The only thing that is slightly different about your fetish is that you really want your sexual partner to be clothed while you are attempting to penetrate her.

You'll find it works better when she's not wearing panties or swimsuit (one piece or bikini bottom). Typically, I mean.

You are wanting to consummate the sex act via penetration, right? I suppose you can always slide the crotch fabric to one side or the other, but that's not really weird. That's just, umm, super duper kinky.

Right on!
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Well Ill be right up front I never had sex and I have been worried that my fetishes are weird. I like girls in panties mostly boyshorts or bikini type. I ask like girls in one piece swimsuits or leotard. I also would like like them to wear them during sex.


The panty fetish is almost universal.... (This is why 'Victoria's Secret' are millionaires!!!!) Perfectly normal to love panties, I myself have a penchant for leaving them just dangling off one of her ankles as I do what I do.... Little Madam that she is.... (I repeat.... Perfectly normal!!!!)

Swimsuits!!!!! Different but cool... You can push the material to one side and go for it OR you could try her in a 'body' which is a non-swim-suit underwear garment (though it looks similar), but does have little clippy buttons around her muffin so that you can just uncover the bit you need to work on.... (Wink!!!)

(A note..... It's always an idea, (unless your girl is quite experienced) to VERY GENTLY AND GRADUALLY introduce fetish play into a new relationship..... Don't mention it the first few times.... She'll be nervous and wanting to please you BUT when you are relaxed enough with each other you might suggest that she dresses in something you like, especially if it's something that you've bought her..... Generally, women are quite curious to try new things, particularly if they know that their lover will be turned on by it..... And a panty/swimsuit fetish is really normal!!!! If you sell it right she'll love it herself!!!!

But do be careful..... Make sure she knows that it's because it's HER panties and HER swimsuit that's got you all excited!!!! And don't go too nuts with the fantasy thing..... It's all about pleasing your partner and feeling good about that you do that well while being pleased in return... Don't let the fetish become more important than the girl...

(I like my girl to wear her shoes and stockings to bed, and sometimes, if I'm really in the mood, I'll ask her to do that and she always smiles and does...... But most of the time she doesen't..... BUT THEN SOMETIMES she wears her stockings and shoes to bed even though I haven't asked her!!!!! Those are always special nights!!!)

You're perfectly normal, and probably an adventurous lover since you have an imagination.... Just remember to ALWAYS treat your girl with coolness and respect.......

When she gets used to that she'll do ANYTHING for you!!!!!

xx SF