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Are you a cougar?

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An older woman, typically early thirties to mid-forties, who has abandoned traditional rules of romantic engagement and taken as her mission the seduction of as many game young men as she can possibly handle. A sophisticated species of female who seeks the pleasure of younger males. She avoids the entanglements of a "relationship," in favor of the freedom of the hunt.


So, is this you? I know there are more than a few of us Lushies who fall into this age category, but are you actively looking for a much younger man IRL or on Lush? There is no lack of younger guys on Lush who seem to be interested/looking for older women, but are you interested in them?

Honestly, if I were looking, I would have no interest at all in being a cougar. I have 1 or 2 younger male Lush friends who I have some vanilla conversations with but that's it. The younger guys seem very confused/perplexed that I'm not interested and think I should be flattered by their attention or they're virgins looking for a teacher. I love that the #1 selling feature that they mention is "I can go all night." Seriously, I will take a man with confidence and experience who I can have a conversation with over the Energizer Bunny shit any day. We hear about the Cougar phenomenon all the time and there certainly are fantasy stories galore on Lush, so I was curious how prevalent it really is.

I did do a search, but couldn't find this specific question after wading through pages in the forums. ;)
Hahahah, no, I am NOT a cougar!! I don't discriminate on age and I'm not actually on the look out either...


(this is me, not looking for younger men to prey on!!)
I definitely fall into that age range but I am not on the prowl for a young guy or girl. I do not descriminate regarding age (or anything else for that matter) though I have no great desire to be with really old guy or woman, but you never know right. So I guess I am not a Cougar, just a very sexually adventurous woman!!
I can't wait to be a cougar ;p Rawr!!
I do descriminate based on age. I have no interest in younger men. I have nothing in common with them. I don't want to be a teacher. I want a man who is my equal in every way. The bf can go all day, all night, or sometimes a mix of the two. He has had many years of experience pleasing a woman and it shows. I really have to say the experienced, mature man wins every time in my book.
I don't think I could ever be a Cougar.
I do enjoy living vicariously through a couple of friends that have labelled themselves "Cougars" and watch them go out on the prowl. And I have even played "wingwoman" a couple of times.
BUT I don't want to be a teacher. I'd much rather be taught. (school girl uniform available upon request)
An older man tends to have a bit more finesse and discretion and more importantly... experience.
Now I'm not saying never say never...
IF (and thats a BIG if) a younger man can stimulate my mind AND my body... he could possibly change my mind
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I do descriminate based on age. I have no interest in younger men. I have nothing in common with them. I don't want to be a teacher. I want a man who is my equal in every way. The bf can go all day, all night, or sometimes a mix of the two. He has had many years of experience pleasing a woman and it shows. I really have to say the experienced, mature man wins every time in my book.


I couldn't agree more, Curves!

I totally smiled at the thought of you playing "wingwoman," TDW!!!! ;)
from Urban Dictionary .... it says it perfectly


Hot and sexy older woman, usually in her 40s or 50s, single or married, who is sick of her same-age counterparts which are usually hairless, have big guts, who only talk about their insurance premiums and have the TV remote control attached to their hands. Cougars are attractive, in their sexual prime, who know what they want and aren't afraid to go after it. BIG misconception is that they dress cheap, wear hot pink nail polish, animal skin prints and are not-so-attractive old-looking hags with bleached hair (Yeah those women exist, but they are NOT cougars). True cougars are classy, beautiful creatures who have made their successes on their own, have real brains, usually with expensive cars/homes, and are real head turners. Cougars seek younger men, and don't have to sneak up and attack...they know their younger mates are eager to get an experienced woman who won't ask if they'll call them the next day. Being a cougar is a positive thing.

20-something girl: "oh no, that cougar just left with Jeff and I've been trying to get him to ask me out for the past three months".


Age has its benefits! wink

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from Urban Dictionary .... it says it perfectly


Hot and sexy older woman, usually in her 40s or 50s, single or married, who is sick of her same-age counterparts which are usually hairless, have big guts, who only talk about their insurance premiums and have the TV remote control attached to their hands. Cougars are attractive, in their sexual prime, who know what they want and aren't afraid to go after it. BIG misconception is that they dress cheap, wear hot pink nail polish, animal skin prints and are not-so-attractive old-looking hags with bleached hair (Yeah those women exist, but they are NOT cougars). True cougars are classy, beautiful creatures who have made their successes on their own, have real brains, usually with expensive cars/homes, and are real head turners. Cougars seek younger men, and don't have to sneak up and attack...they know their younger mates are eager to get an experienced woman who won't ask if they'll call them the next day. Being a cougar is a positive thing.

20-something girl: "oh no, that cougar just left with Jeff and I've been trying to get him to ask me out for the past three months".


Age has its benefits! wink






Hear hear!!
LOL i am DEFIANTLY NOT a cougar....but i sure can act like one in bed...if u know what i mean;)
Up until this year I wasn't but times change and I have never really liked men of my own age - even when I was younger.

Recently there was a one night stand with someone who was twenty one years younger than me, I was smiling for days.
if i were single i would be a cougar for sure!
Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X

i don't think i'm old enough to be a cougar. maybe a puma but not a cougar
yes i am a cougar! and im proud
Not yet.
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