Am I having orgasms or not? That's my question in short, lol.
I was always told that the female orgasm cannot be missed and that if you're having doubts you've actually had one; you haven't. Since I haven't ever been shaking in full ecstasy for a minute after climax, I've always said I'm not able to orgasm.
But I have had some really, REALLY pleasurable experiences. I can be close to an orgasm for a while and then reach a point of 'climax' where it gets to a high. That high is often very short, after which I need to stop any pressure on my clit for a minute because it feels oversensitive. If I continue penetration shortly after, it feels amazing and I can start that build up to a 'climax' again. Am I having little mini orgasms after all?
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Are you certain you've had an orgasm?
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Well I'd say every womans orgasm is different. Some have lots of little ones, some have fewer toes curling ones.
It doesn't really matter.
What I would say is if you want to see just what your orgasm is like give yourself one.
Go slowly, give yourself lots of stroking and caressing.
Don't fixate on the main event, just let it happen as it wants to.
Some women don't cum from being penetrated and prefer to slowly play with their clit till they can't bear to be touched there.
Others like to put their fingers inside , turn them up and slowly stroke the spongey bit of their upper wall just behind their clit
Some just pop a vibrator in and see how they feel at different settings.
For me, I don't really get hung up on how big or how small the climax is. I don't worry about how long it lasts either.
I used to cum differently depending on my cycle too, so don't forget that.
All that really matters is that you feel you had a loving moment. That you and your lover have a special moment together.
In the end that's the most satisfying place to be. In that moment , holding each other tightly.
Feeling that wonderful pleasurable ripple.
It doesn't really matter.
What I would say is if you want to see just what your orgasm is like give yourself one.
Go slowly, give yourself lots of stroking and caressing.
Don't fixate on the main event, just let it happen as it wants to.
Some women don't cum from being penetrated and prefer to slowly play with their clit till they can't bear to be touched there.
Others like to put their fingers inside , turn them up and slowly stroke the spongey bit of their upper wall just behind their clit
Some just pop a vibrator in and see how they feel at different settings.
For me, I don't really get hung up on how big or how small the climax is. I don't worry about how long it lasts either.
I used to cum differently depending on my cycle too, so don't forget that.
All that really matters is that you feel you had a loving moment. That you and your lover have a special moment together.
In the end that's the most satisfying place to be. In that moment , holding each other tightly.
Feeling that wonderful pleasurable ripple.
Whatever was posted is always meant in love and respect never to offend.
I'm also highly likely to have posted this from a phone so there may be typos or odd word changes, auto correct can be a pain.
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Quote by Twisted_Skald
Well I'd say every womans orgasm is different. Some have lots of little ones, some have fewer toes curling ones.
It doesn't really matter...
Thanks! Getting a real life idea instead of some click-bait online article is always preferable
Glad to hear it comes in many shapes and sizes.I have tried by myself and with a partner. Generally the high I have by myself feels more intense, even though it's not what I always imagined a 'real orgasm' would feel like. I feel some frustration around the word, cause guys tend to ask me if I have or not, and I don't know. I tend to say no (which feels like a downer to both of us), but maybe I should start saying yes if that short climax has been pleasurable - it always is.