Edited: Guys of all orientation should be able to answer, too.
My boyfriend and I were at the mall this weekend and we had stopped to take a break in the food court.
As he has taken to doing after finding out that I am bi, while watching the girls in their short tight clothes, he would ask me who I found sexy.
I started realizing that the girls that I found more attractive from a purely physical view were those with bodies that were not similar to mine - I am slim, dark complexion, 34C boobs and was finding that those that I considered sexier were more curvy and lighter haired/skinned. Height did not seem to be a factor.
So, I was wondering whether this is a preference of others as well.
This can be answered by all sexual orientation.
Do you find other women more attractive if they look similar or different than you?
And guys, are the guys that you consider good looking physically similar or different to you?
you know i find the same thing for me.
i have a curvy feminine body with D cup breasts and am of medium to tall height and the girls i find sexy are usually small, short rather tomboyish- which is exactly oposite to me.
I will say similar in that I find brunettes always more attractive than blondes for some reason.
If I look back at the girls I've hooked up with or been attracted to, I don't really have a preference when it comes to hair colour but they do tend to have similar builds to me... maybe a little curvier but not by much.
I guess I tend to go for stereotypically 'hot' girls, but for me her energy has a lot to do with it (more so than looks). A flirty, playful, outgoing personality draws me in much more.
I think I fall into the camp where I've tried to approximate the type of girl that I find attractive instead of going for opposites.
when i look at women when i am anywhere i tend to find taller women more attractive, aswell as women who take care of themselves and their body. and specifically ones who are smiling or have a confidence about them.
I am usually attracted to Brunettes more than Blondes, but there are exceptions of course. There are several blonde Lushies who I am very attracted to, a few of them I have never seen pics of but attracted to the total package. And of course there is one Icelandic blonde IRL who I am crazy about, LOL!!
And I seem to prefer physically fit women and adventurous women. But I guess the most important chracteristics are being open-minded, adventurous and a little naughty, lol!!!
Taller than me and very confident. Hair colour not important. Slim, attractive and feminine. Short skirts and long shapely legs I find very attractive. I can't resist looking up a girls skirt and getting a quick flash of her panties.
The up side is there's loads of girls to enjoy looking at. The down side is that the majority of girls I find attractive are not into girls.
I'm attracted more to brunettes like myself, I don't mind height really, I'm medium build, size 8 and I either go for girls slightly larger or petite girls, I don't know why, probably because I like to experience different types of bodies like I do with men
I dislike blondes, any other girl with nice curves, legs and a wild look is one I'd go for!
I like women that are similar to me. I'm a tiny woman. The women I am most attracted to are small and very feminine. It's mostly about build and personality. Things like hair, skin, eye color don't really matter to me.
I like small, proportionate, girly women.
Personally, I think women find other women who look similar to themselves most attractive because it plays on empathy even if it’s just looks. Subconsciously, it can almost be like admiring and appreciating yourself through another woman.
Interesting!! Yeah I think this is really true! I definitely like women's body types that are different then mine. (Maybe this has something to do with women always comparing themselves to others and thinking the grass is greener? Of course men do that too I suppose..)
i like them of the lipstick variety,
beyond being attracted to feminine girls,
i love all different sizes and shapes
even if she is a shorty<3 her firey read hair is so hot!!
