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Do you find "Bad Boys" a turn on and if so, why?
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Not necessarily Bad Boys but I do love the "bad boy" look. A hot guy in jeans, t-shirt, boots and leather jacket, so sexy!
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Yeah, I've been known to have a weakness for bad boys. Not full-fledged assholes though - there *is* a difference.
Why? - I guess I like a challenge and the relationship has a bit of an adrenaline rush quality. There are usually highs and lows and often the highs are more exciting than the steady lull of being with a steadfast 'nice guy'. The sex tends to be pretty crazy too. Bad boys are best enjoyed in small doses as fuckbuddies, flings or short-term relationships though. Long-term or getting your heart seriously invested can be draining.
And... I guess I should qualify because someone will inevitably bring it up - when I say 'nice guy' - I don't mean that I dislike guys that are nice and that I enjoy being treated badly - I'm just using 'nice guy' as the social term for more vanilla types that tend to take a more conservative approach to life/love.
Ideally I do best with a guy that's somewhere in between. I like a guy with a bit of edge but if I'm thinking about relationship longevity, it can't be over the top.
Why? - I guess I like a challenge and the relationship has a bit of an adrenaline rush quality. There are usually highs and lows and often the highs are more exciting than the steady lull of being with a steadfast 'nice guy'. The sex tends to be pretty crazy too. Bad boys are best enjoyed in small doses as fuckbuddies, flings or short-term relationships though. Long-term or getting your heart seriously invested can be draining.
And... I guess I should qualify because someone will inevitably bring it up - when I say 'nice guy' - I don't mean that I dislike guys that are nice and that I enjoy being treated badly - I'm just using 'nice guy' as the social term for more vanilla types that tend to take a more conservative approach to life/love.
Ideally I do best with a guy that's somewhere in between. I like a guy with a bit of edge but if I'm thinking about relationship longevity, it can't be over the top.
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I like a bad boy in the bedroom. I like a take charge sexual beast. Not overthinking not questioning himself.... Just bad in a really really really good way.
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It really depends on the type of 'bad boy' that he is. There are numerous types, so maybe you'd like to define your version, dpw?
Generally speaking though, yea, they can be a turn on. Not easy to turn them down when they turn up their charm, more so when there's a high level of connection!
Generally speaking though, yea, they can be a turn on. Not easy to turn them down when they turn up their charm, more so when there's a high level of connection!