BF says no to panties & Bra

21 Nov 2015

i am arjino, 30, a GYM Trainer. i am having an affair with one of my students in the GYM. he is 24 and i am with him now coz i was widowed 2 yrs ago.

This guy is lovable and very crazy. We go for dinner mostly outside and go to club and camping. He asks me not to wear panties or bra when i am with him. He gets me sexy club wear but he asks me not wear lingerie. so he can play with me in the public places and this turns me on and i have literally squirted during all the outing with him. i love the excitement too. But problem is during a public event, my ex-inlaws saw me dancing with him without lingerie (They know abt my relationship). going pantiless in public is fun but its embarrassing. Should i tell him not to do this kinda crazy things again and stop this things and let me wear things in normal way. But i am worried about losing his love.

Is this behaviour normal. Should i care ?

- Arjino Ferrera

21 Nov 2015

If you do or if you do not, is that not your choice?

I only wear lingerie about half the time. Well less than half.

If not wearing lingerie or playing in public is uncomfortable for you tell your B/F you are not going to do it any more if he Loves You He Will Not Leave You.

But, it also turns you on so maybe you could forget to put you Lingerie once is a while as surprise to both of you.

21 Nov 2015

i love the crazy thing he do when i don't wear lingerie... but it gives easy access to me in public places.... so he wants sex in public

excitement is great but sometimes they think i am a whore

thanks for the reply.. i will think of it

- Arjino Ferrera

23 Nov 2015

It used to bother me that people thought I was a whore, until I realized that I have a lot more fun than they do! I learned not to give a damn what people think. The people that matter to me don't care.

23 Nov 2015

yeah true darling heart

- Arjino Ferrera

23 Nov 2015

Try a compromise with him. When you think someone ( ex in laws or maybe someone else that you don't want to see you ) might be there, wear a thong. When the coast is clear go without. Let him know if you are wearing a thong and no one is there that you know that either he or you can slip them off in public. He will love that and you probably will too.

26 Nov 2015

Quote by arjinof
i love the crazy thing he do when i don't wear lingerie... but it gives easy access to me in public places.... so he wants sex in public

excitement is great but sometimes they think i am a whore

thanks for the reply.. i will think of it

Sex in public is great fun and I am sure you will love it, once you are comfortable with it.

Some will think your a whore, but that is OK to once you accept the concept.

I have been called a Whore for years and it does not bother me in the least. I am happy with what I am, you can be too.

28 Nov 2015

yes. Sex in public is fun. Gives better excitement than hours of sex in the blanket heart

- Arjino Ferrera

3 Dec 2015

- Arjino Ferrera

13 Dec 2015

You need to move on with your life, not worry what your (ex) inlaws will think. Enjoy your relationship with him smile

13 Dec 2015

Quote by arjinof
i am arjino, 30, a GYM Trainer. i am having an affair with one of my students in the GYM. he is 24 and i am with him now coz i was widowed 2 yrs ago.

This guy is lovable and very crazy. We go for dinner mostly outside and go to club and camping. He asks me not to wear panties or bra when i am with him. He gets me sexy club wear but he asks me not wear lingerie. so he can play with me in the public places and this turns me on and i have literally squirted during all the outing with him. i love the excitement too. But problem is during a public event, my ex-inlaws saw me dancing with him without lingerie (They know abt my relationship). going pantiless in public is fun but its embarrassing. Should i tell him not to do this kinda crazy things again and stop this things and let me wear things in normal way. But i am worried about losing his love.

Is this behaviour normal. Should i care ?

You care about him.
You care about them.

What the fuck do YOU care about - other than all of them?

If you don't like doing something THEN DON'T DO IT.

And I'm not sure about your relationshp - but it sounds as if maybe it's not love on the line but lust.

27 Jun 2023

You should do what you feel comfortable with. That being said going out without panties or a bra looks and feels sexy and fooling around in public is so much fun.