Bi Men VS STRAIGHT men

19 May 2011

I've been thinking about this for a while and being on Lush has sort of brought it up again.

I'm sure many of us here are familiar with the popular (yet a little dated) Kinsey report which suggests everyone is bi-sexual to a degree which varies throughout our lives. Romantic feelings aside, I feel like this notion is more acceptable for women (romantic feelings for men, yet at times attracted to another woman sexually) than for men.

SO. Let's say you meet a straight guy (a guy who only has romantic feelings for women), yet sexually he's A) Completely straight, B) Straight, but open for the right situation, C) Bi-Curious (actively looking), or D) Bi-Sexual. Which would you prefer? I honestly imagine no answer is "better", and obviously it depends on the girl, but.... I'm a little curious to hear what you think (or perhaps I'm "open" to hearing what you think Embarassed

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Max

19 May 2011

Well in all honesty, if a friend came to me bothered that her boyfriend was bisexual, I'd tell her it doesnt matter as long as you trust him but i think i would have a problem if my guy was bi. I have nothing against bisexuality or same sex relationships, I just like my men manly and my mind has generalised all bi or gay men to be a bit effeminate. (i know thats not true and majorly generalising but i cant help it)

19 May 2011

I totally get / can understand wanting your guy to be "manly". I can see both sides of it. I feel like there was a period when male and female roles really started to blend together, yet I feel like now there's a trend back toward traditional roles. Like, "where have all the Real Men gone?" thing. Again, I'm guessing answer will vary.

I think it's interesting.

19 May 2011

Personal experience, I vote Bi! Definitely not in to fem guys, mine is the best of both worlds!

19 May 2011

I should imagine the results of this will be pretty varied as we're all going on personal experience...it depends entirely on what 'type' of bi/straight males we've come into contact with...

In my own experience I've found bisexual men to be more open to the idea of discussing their own feelings and trying to understand mine, but I have also found some to be 'too hard work' for the sort of bloke I'd be looking to be date.

Because of that I wouldn't say I'd go for a bisexual man or not...it's down to the individual.

20 May 2011

well you know what i think ;)

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/milf/the-neighbors-boy-1.aspx

20 May 2011

I have never been with a Bi guy, or at least one who admitted to being Bi. But If I really liked the guy, I dont think it would matter either way.

23 May 2011

for be bisexual men turn me on and i am bi anyway so if i can be turned on by woman so why dont he get turned on at the same time as fucken my pussy hard

12 Jun 2011

I'm straight, this guy Kevin I fell for wouldn't come out saying he was bi, but after a while he did. And I was excited, because my biggest fantasy is a 3some with 2 guys. Even though he is bi, he is still manly but he has a little bit of fem to him with some things that he does. But I think it's cute that he has a little fem side to him

18 Jun 2011

Quote by smoothwetkitty
I'm straight, this guy Kevin I fell for wouldn't come out saying he was bi, but after a while he did. And I was excited, because my biggest fantasy is a 3some with 2 guys. Even though he is bi, he is still manly but he has a little bit of fem to him with some things that he does. But I think it's cute that he has a little fem side to him

Wow girl you are WILD!!!!! Water Sports

19 Jun 2011

I would say that I find bi men to be the perfect male. Many women, including myself, find that whn you have a bi boyfriend you are able to have many more fantasies available. For instance group sex will be mutch more enjoyable if your boyfriend is not disgusted with the other male. Spacially if u want a double penetration. 3some

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