GIRLS, I need help!
My boyfriend and I have been discussing the possibility of trying a bit of bondage in the bedroom. Except, I have no idea where to start!!
For anyone who's had experience, if you were in my place, what do you LOVE having done to you in this department?!
xx
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GIRLS, I need help!
My boyfriend and I have been discussing the possibility of trying a bit of bondage in the bedroom. Except, I have no idea where to start!!
I would start with an internet search or look around on the message board. Going to adult bookstore and getting maybe some cheesy fuzzy handcuffs so both of you can choose something.
For anyone who's had experience, if you were in my place, what do you LOVE having done to you in this department?!
I like the part were im totally submissive to my hubby with my hands bound behind me. =P
xx
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by Ineedit
GIRLS, I need help!
My boyfriend and I have been discussing the possibility of trying a bit of bondage in the bedroom. Except, I have no idea where to start!!
For anyone who's had experience, if you were in my place, what do you LOVE having done to you in this department?!
xx
I'd start by talking it over and seeing what you're both comfortable with and what you're not.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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I know I am not a girl but a good place to start in my opinion would be to try him physically restraining you ie holding your hands above your head. That way you could see how comfortable you are with the idea. I have seen girls go yes tie me up then half way through get freaked out, and start screaming and thrashing making it extremely difficult to untie them. Physical restraint can be released immediately, removing the fear that can be associated with bondage.
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I am into light bondage, more like heavy teasing, before you start you need to discuss it with your partner, make sure you have a "safe word", this is a word that when either of you use it everything stops immediately, I like to tie his hands above his head and slowly tease him, I have padded bondage cuffs that I use most of the time, but sometimes we use silk scarves or handcuffs (safety note when using handcuffs, always know where the key is, and have a spare, I have a spare key taped to the headboard).
Rainbow Warrior
I've had 7 guys fuck me one after the other while I was tied and blindfolded. You might try that?
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yes, all types of BDSM as log as its a Domme in charge
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Beffer should have her own advice column, probably even a talkshow.
I started with just a blindfold. Then moved on to my hands being tied using velcro straps, so I could "escape" really easily. Then moved on to my ankles also being tied. Also started with a gentle "whip" toy which didn't hurt, but was surprisingly erotic, especially when blindfolded. I am not into pain. It takes away from my sexual stimulation. A good spanking while being fucked is always a treat.