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I get asked quite a lot if I ever get sore from fucking. "Could I walk the next day?" etc. It always surprises me when people ask that because I have never got sore in that way. I have been bruised of course from bony hips on my inner thighs, and above my clit from grinding pelvis's together, but I have never got sore, as in chafing, from prolonged sex.

Is that unusual?

Do other women get sore just from fucking for too long?
I find I only get sore when a guy starts vigorously fucking me (for a fair while) when I'm not all that wet

If i have a lot of sex over a day/night then I can get sore...but unless I've been having 'lube issues' I don't find I have a problem. And once I figured out that if I wasn't turned on enough it could cause soreness...well, the answer for me is just to make sure that doesn't happen smile
If we've been having sex all day (especially intense or rough sex), then yeah I can definitely feel it the next day but not in a really uncomfortable way or anything. I actually kind of like the kinkyness of being a bit sore in the aftermath. And... I definitely have no lube issues.

And of course there have been cases where my cervix has been sore for up to a day (or two) afterwards if the guy had a really big cock, but I guess that's not quite the same as 'chafing'.
If he goes bareback and gifts me with a nice healthy load of cum
then I have all the lubrication and motivation to go go go.
Always feel it the next day as a playful aching reminder!
Seems like some of these answers tend to assume that she is with one guy all day or night.

But what if she is with several guys for an extended period.

I am a good source of lubrication, but there are limits, if you want to avoid soreness the next day or two.

But a bit of soreness does bring fond memories.
It has only ever hurt to walk a few times with my current boyfriend, because he is so thick that it ripped me, but over time I have stretched and now I can walk without my raw inner lips rubbing together.
I have been a little sore the next day on several occaisions, especially if it was an all day affair the day before. But its not "chafing", lube with me is never a problem. It is not really pain, just a little ache, similar to how I feel after running a 15K except in my pussy, LOL.

The only time I have ever had real pain was after being with a guy who was 10 1/2", and a real clod in bed. I hurt for several days after that.
Ouch! I don't think I would even attempt 10 1/2". Maybe if I was on top and controlled the depth but it would be difficult. That's just too big!
I just can't win, either I go for long periods (years) without sex, then the minute I start having sex again I get Thrush because of constantly trying to stay clean. Grrrrrrrrrrr It's sending me insane!

What can I do girls to prevent persistant thrush????? I'm recovering from my third dose of thrush since Feb this year it's nearly gone. But the thought of having sex again and getting thrush makes me want to stay celeabate!!!

I don't want that option either - any ideas anyone I need your help?????
I'm sorry Honey but I've only had Thrush a couple of times. No idea why you are so susceptible! Alison xxx
HoneyBee000 - if your 'staying clean' regime involves 'douching' (rinsing the vagina with water) than that's error number 1 as it washes out all the 'good bacteria' (which is what stops you getting the likes of thrush).

Otherwise thrush thrives on warmth and wetness....so keeping dry and airy as much as possible is a good idea...ie. no tight jeans or really tight underwear, allow yourself to 'breathe'.

Consult with a doctor if it's a regular thing...I'm sure they can give you better/more specifically tailored advice than we (or the internet in general) can.
Maybe that's why I don't get it. I do like remaining 'airy'. LOL
other solutions inclue staying away from nylon panties and eating yogart(live culture, helps replenish the supply of good bacteria)you can take culturelle tablets instead. Also as Bambi said douching tends to cause problems.