A little over a year ago I discovered that my wife of less than a year was having an affair....it's way worse trust me but I will not divulge unless you PM and I will tell you more...I decided for the sake of my daughter and son on the way to stick it out...I discovered Lush while looking for an outlet for my sexual desires that were not being met due to our current situation and her pregnancy...btw she has completely lost her sex drive not that she had much of one to begin with...after a few months i have met some great folks with similar desires needs. I have been chatting pic exchanging and the occasional cam...
I feel better knowing I have something that is just mine.
Ladies am I in the same boat as she? thoughts concerns please
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hmmmm where do I begin? lol
Considering she 'has lost her sex drive, not that she had much of one to begin with' makes me wander what she was after in the affair. It sounds as she may have been looking for much more than a sexual connection.
Does she know that you are on Lush? if not - two wrongs do not make a right. And if she doesn't know, cheating on her while she is carrying your baby is just a direct path to the divorce courts.
I wouldn't personally stay just for the children. Children are more clever then we think. They can pick up little things like daddy and mommy don't love each other and it will only the delay the inevitable hurt and tears. If your daughter is still young, it would be better to get out now.
If you want to continue to be a husband and a father, then it's time to step up and be a man and put your desires aside, and look after your pregnant wife and show her the respect she deserves for caring for your children. Then maybe you and she won't go looking outside of the marriage.
I wish you both the very best and hope it all works out
Considering she 'has lost her sex drive, not that she had much of one to begin with' makes me wander what she was after in the affair. It sounds as she may have been looking for much more than a sexual connection.
Does she know that you are on Lush? if not - two wrongs do not make a right. And if she doesn't know, cheating on her while she is carrying your baby is just a direct path to the divorce courts.
I wouldn't personally stay just for the children. Children are more clever then we think. They can pick up little things like daddy and mommy don't love each other and it will only the delay the inevitable hurt and tears. If your daughter is still young, it would be better to get out now.
If you want to continue to be a husband and a father, then it's time to step up and be a man and put your desires aside, and look after your pregnant wife and show her the respect she deserves for caring for your children. Then maybe you and she won't go looking outside of the marriage.
I wish you both the very best and hope it all works out
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hmmmm where do I begin? lol
Considering she 'has lost her sex drive, not that she had much of one to begin with' makes me wander what she was after in the affair. It sounds as she may have been looking for much more than a sexual connection.
Does she know that you are on Lush? if not - two wrongs do not make a right. And if she doesn't know, cheating on her while she is carrying your baby is just a direct path to the divorce courts.
I wouldn't personally stay just for the children. Children are more clever then we think. They can pick up little things like daddy and mommy don't love each other and it will only the delay the inevitable hurt and tears. If your daughter is still young, it would be better to get out now.
If you want to continue to be a husband and a father, then it's time to step up and be a man and put your desires aside, and look after your pregnant wife and show her the respect she deserves for caring for your children. Then maybe you and she won't go looking outside of the marriage.
I wish you both the very best and hope it all works out
I agree with you Fugly
I am not in quite the same position, but my wife lost her sex drive 4 years ago after going through the change.
What you have said is true, be honest, (my wife knows I am here and why)
About the kids and staying together just for them, you are spot on. Adults have and do make choices. The kids don't and are along for the ride, remember they love both parents, don't put them in the middle or make them make a choice between the two of you.
Just adding my
I know this is for the ladies, so I hope you'll pardon the intrusion. I firmly believe that an affair does not have to be physical to exist, so yeah, I think you are in the same boat. Did you use online porn prior to busting her? (Just curious). I also agree with Fugly in that two wrongs don't make a right, and will ultimately only create 3 wrongs.
However, after living through 3 divorces with my mother, I DO commend you for staying together- "if only for the kids". But who wants to simply co-exist?? I would seek marital counsel, like yesterday.
Good luck to you.
However, after living through 3 divorces with my mother, I DO commend you for staying together- "if only for the kids". But who wants to simply co-exist?? I would seek marital counsel, like yesterday.
Good luck to you.
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Why not tell her u r on lush? my SO knows, sometimes i send him a link to something I find hot...
