For ladies out there: how many of you use to caress the partner (face or head or hands or whatever) while they are going to climax?
I find this really exciting (and unfortunately not so common too)
You may find it exciting, but some guys would find it distracting to be caressed at that moment. I've fucked enough guys to know this to be true. They usually lose control, clench up, and only concentrate on one thing... explosively blowing their load! Depending on the position we're in, I've been squeezed, crushed, shaken, shoved into the headboard... it's a violent release, not a time for tenderness. The tenderness in in the intimacy of the violence!
Surprisingly, it's similar when I'm having sex with another girl. When she climaxes, my tongue is usually in her pussy, and she shakes and bucks like a bronco! I have to hang on for dear life!
Like Beffer There is no way to be gentle to him when he is unloading. I actually enjoy the physical reaction and sensation as much as he does himself. If anything I am urging him on with my legs wrapped around him - depending on the position we are in. It is after he has finished the job that the caressing takes place while he is recovering and relaxing.
Bef - I am glad I am not the only one with that problem with another girl, BUT I wouldn't want to change it for anything.
So you're saying that you need to be walked through your own orgasm? Perhaps I am not understanding the question.
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