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Sometimes during sex i'll rub the clit of the girl i'm with whilst we're having sex, some seem to love it, others say it gets uncomfortable... I'm curious as to what's your experience of this? I know different women responds to different things but i'd have thought this was a no brainer...
Unless you've found a bunch of girls that genuinely dislike clit stimulation (I doubt it) chances are you're either 'rubbing' their clit when it isn't wet enough which can be painful or you're rubbing it too much too soon - for most girls clit stimulation has to be brought it into slowly or, again, it can be painful..
Yep what Bambi said, either she's too dry, oooorrr maybe just too turned on. It happeed to me once, everytime he touched me i would jump. It wasnt painful but i was just too sensitive down there at that time.

Makes sure she's wet before you fo it, if not the just lick your fingers first, and if she does get too sensitive then focus on the lips and g spot instead

EDIT: Wasn't painful
You rubbed it too hard for sure.

xx B.
Gonna add some thoughts the other's haven't covered.

You might want to check with them whether it's you touching their clit that's uncomfortable or just the general position. I know sometimes when my bf does that his hand presses on the tendon by my leg and, while it's not super painful, it is distracting.

That and fingernails. It's easy enough to be gentle and, lets say "accurate" when you're just fingering her, but when you have your body on top of her, and you're trying to support your weight on one arm and keep it going it's a bit more difficult. Might be you're scratching or pinching her and not realising it.

Cowgirl, legs over the shoulders and doggie make access a little easier that missionary.