Ladies,
most of you need some additional attentions to your clit during penetration to reach the top,
do you like your partner to play with your clit during sex or do you prefer do it by yourself?
explain your experience!
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Advanced Wordsmith
I was wondering if a woman had a lot of good foreplay, would she need to give her clit extra attention during sex?
All I can say is, I love it
Active Ink Slinger
It would depend on the penis size and the sexual position. I have manipulated my clit when I am close to orgasm during sex with my husband. It does intensify the experience.
If it is fem to fem then foreplay is necessary and when she has her tongue in my sex she will know when I am close to orgasm. When she focuses on my clit the feeling is so intense my body will spasm uncontrollably and there remains the happy ending.
If it is fem to fem then foreplay is necessary and when she has her tongue in my sex she will know when I am close to orgasm. When she focuses on my clit the feeling is so intense my body will spasm uncontrollably and there remains the happy ending.
ok, maybe I did not explain myself!
I was not talking of foreplay, but just "helping" her reaching more pleasure during sex.. this is something I love to do on her (if position allows)..
from time to time, especially in missionary position, I love to watch her doing by herself, very arousing!!!
I was not talking of foreplay, but just "helping" her reaching more pleasure during sex.. this is something I love to do on her (if position allows)..
from time to time, especially in missionary position, I love to watch her doing by herself, very arousing!!!
Yeah I gotcha, bud. I hate explaining, but let me just say this. Keep playing with her clit with the right pressure which is not too hard, even if you love to watch her doing by herself. I mean, ugh, fiiine... From my experience, I loved it when my partner rubbed my clit during penetration because it felt different compared to when I did it by myself. So keep doing it, be it in missionary or doggy position.
The Linebacker
I always stand attention and salute clits. Sometimes I even click my heels together.
Clit approaching – Ten-HUT!
Clit approaching – Ten-HUT!
I have never actually kept a record or thought about it. Thinking about it, if I am really horny and have had a lot of foreplay, I don't need any fingers or tongue for clitoral stimulation. A good fuck with no fingers can produce an amazing orgasm for me. Other times, I need it (or want it) while being fucked. I need it if we are having anal sex and I want to cum at the same time. I have never had an orgasm during anal sex without clitoral stimulation.
Other times its just plain enjoyable to have someone else massaging my clit, regardless of whether there was a need for it or not!
Other times its just plain enjoyable to have someone else massaging my clit, regardless of whether there was a need for it or not!
Quote by Andrew00
Ladies,
most of you need some additional attentions to your clit during penetration to reach the top,
do you like your partner to play with your clit during sex or do you prefer do it by yourself?
explain your experience!
I don't need any clit play to get off so it's not like some pinnacle of sex-buttons for me. My clit doesn't need attention - and it certainly doesn't need obsessive compulsive attention for me to enjoy sex, get off, and have fun.
In fact, sometimes I honestly hate it when the obsessive compulsive too-much-attention I-saw-it-in-a-porn-once flicking and junk starts to go on so the whole idea that poured 'clit is queen' into every guy's head has just been an issue (repeatedly) that I've had to deal with and address.
Ultimately I've learned: I am not like most other women.
It takes every guy I've been with a hell of a lot of time with me to understand that - and I don't know why.
My husband still seems ot insist I've got my body figured out all wrong.
That if he can just get me to really experience it like other women I'll find a new level of sex. Yeah I agree too, if you look at porn, this could be ossessive!
but honestly, I love to do if this increase her experience, and love to hear that someone appreciate this attention!
I've also been with a girl that preferred to to this by herself while I was inside her, I had no access to that area!
but honestly, I love to do if this increase her experience, and love to hear that someone appreciate this attention!
I've also been with a girl that preferred to to this by herself while I was inside her, I had no access to that area!
Active Ink Slinger
Honestly I dont need it. However it would be sexy if he demanded that I touch myself.
I would imagine the position determines whether touching your clit during sex is enjoyable though I havent explored that.
I would imagine the position determines whether touching your clit during sex is enjoyable though I havent explored that.
Quote by AbiGreenEyes
Honestly I dont need it. However it would be sexy if he demanded that I touch myself.
I would imagine the position determines whether touching your clit during sex is enjoyable though I havent explored that.
Same here. I've never needed it. But have no problem doing so, especially as Abi said if he told me to, that would be very sexy.
Active Ink Slinger
I dont need it but if you would like me to orgasm faster and more then by all means,play with it.
Rainbow Warrior
In most coital positions, guys can't really do much to stimulate the clit efficiently. Do that first, and be creative, and you'll get us to a point where penetration is all either of us need (assuming you do it right!). In my case, my clit is prominent enough that if my partner lifts up (in missionary position) and angles his cock steeply down into me, his shaft will rub my clit, and it feels incredible. Unfortunately, that position bends his cock down so far that he can only do it for a short time before it gets uncomfortable for him, but hey! ...it feels great while it lasts! Try it on your wives/girlfriends and see if it does the same for her!
Quote by BethanyFrasier
In most coital positions, guys can't really do much to stimulate the clit efficiently. Do that first, and be creative, and you'll get us to a point where penetration is all either of us need (assuming you do it right!). In my case, my clit is prominent enough that if my partner lifts up (in missionary position) and angles his cock steeply down into me, his shaft will rub my clit, and it feels incredible. Unfortunately, that position bends his cock down so far that he can only do it for a short time before it gets uncomfortable for him, but hey! ...it feels great while it lasts! Try it on your wives/girlfriends and see if it does the same for her!
yes i am posting in the wrong forum but just have to say... this was an erotic post to read lol... hope you're great
Madam Carol
Quote by BethanyFrasier
In most coital positions, guys can't really do much to stimulate the clit efficiently. Do that first, and be creative, and you'll get us to a point where penetration is all either of us need (assuming you do it right!). In my case, my clit is prominent enough that if my partner lifts up (in missionary position) and angles his cock steeply down into me, his shaft will rub my clit, and it feels incredible. Unfortunately, that position bends his cock down so far that he can only do it for a short time before it gets uncomfortable for him, but hey! ...it feels great while it lasts! Try it on your wives/girlfriends and see if it does the same for her!
Ditto love. I'm same. I guess I'm blessed when it comes to orgasms. Oral, manual, or vaginal doesn't matter. The whole experience is connected. I think if you focus on getting an orgasm rather than just to let yourself go and experience the moment, it is more difficult. Of course the guy and equipment is a major part of it too. Word to guys. Lick it before you stick it.
Active Ink Slinger
Generally my guys can get me there without much interaction by me. Foreplay can get me to the brink and then he can slip it in and finish me off.
I prefer to manipulate myself rather than have him do it if needed.
When I am on top I can and do make it every time as I can manipulate his cock to where I want it onto my clit.
Orally there is no problem - my partner can see it and manipulate it and can read my reaction. Girls are far more capable at it than the guys.
I prefer to manipulate myself rather than have him do it if needed.
When I am on top I can and do make it every time as I can manipulate his cock to where I want it onto my clit.
Orally there is no problem - my partner can see it and manipulate it and can read my reaction. Girls are far more capable at it than the guys.
Active Ink Slinger
i have freakishly large nipples (when excited) and i think of them as my 2 extra clits, they get plenty of play time so i (almost) forget about my clit down stairs 
All women are not the same. My wife definitely likes the foreplay first. I usually make her cum before fucking. Does she need her clit stimulated to cum? No, but often she or I will while fucking and that just takes it over the edge.
Our favorite position is me standing and having her legs over my shoulders with me picking her ass off of the bed and pounding her good. She has an awesome ass/legs. This makes playing with her clit very easy (tits too). Often she will use a bullet vibe on her clit while I fuck her. Midway through the fuck she almost always stops as she says my dick feels too good and she just relaxes while I fuck her hard. She is a multiple cummer and that usually sends me over the edge.
Our favorite position is me standing and having her legs over my shoulders with me picking her ass off of the bed and pounding her good. She has an awesome ass/legs. This makes playing with her clit very easy (tits too). Often she will use a bullet vibe on her clit while I fuck her. Midway through the fuck she almost always stops as she says my dick feels too good and she just relaxes while I fuck her hard. She is a multiple cummer and that usually sends me over the edge.
Active Ink Slinger
I will sometimes play with my clit as I am getting fucked and it does add the to pleasure. Especially when I am on top.
But usually I do not need it to have an orgasm, especially if there was enough foreplay.
But usually I do not need it to have an orgasm, especially if there was enough foreplay.
Lady GlitterGiggles
Quote by Buz
I always stand attention and salute clits. Sometimes I even click my heels together.
Clit approaching – Ten-HUT!
nice and yes. To the question. Rub the clit. 
Big-haired Bitch
Quote by Andrew00
Ladies,
most of you need some additional attentions to your clit during penetration to reach the top,
do you like your partner to play with your clit during sex or do you prefer do it by yourself?
explain your experience!
Yes, because it feels great.
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