definitely would choose my clit being sucked over licked any day! Also, I HATE it when a guy starts licking me and shoves his finger in blerrgghhghghghhhh, what's the point in licking if you're fingering as well, so stupid! Get your lips on my clit and suck gently and use your tongue on it whilst sucking too, play with my nipples at the same time and I will be cumming in no time!
Everything happens for a reason. Live for the moment and have no regrets.
I love it when he starts with licking and sucking my lips and then moves on to my clit which by the time he gets there is aching with anticipation. When its done with that combination or anything similar he will have me cumming in no time at all!