K girls I will never say that I am the romantic type, the queen can vouch for me on this. Being of a redneck origin I like to be crude. However, I have on several occasions performed cunillingus on my girlfriend during sex. But to me I don't see it strictly as sex. I view it as my way of showing my true care and devotion to her by wanting to do something that brings her orgasm with no real sexual gain for me (by gain I mean an orgasm as well, cause lets be honest with each other, I find being able to look at her pussy a HUGE turn on).
I believe that this is an act that really shows a mans devotion to his partner and with one he truly cares for, is a way of showing his love for her. What do you girls think?
how do you have -4 posts?
and i think any part of sex can convey love and devotion, not just that particular act.
*edit* oh now it says 0...weird.
Interesting question.....
I suppose it depends......
(a) Sometimes you just want to lick her because you want all of her, you want to possess her entirely and it's quite an empowering and macho thing to do... And she does love it... In many ways, I sometimes feel that going down on her is more personal and intimate then fucking her... There's nothing more pleasing for me than a girl who initially attempts to guide your head away from there (because it's too personal, because it's too soon, because she's just come from work or the gym...) but ends up grinding herself against your mouth as she gets into it... The sexual energy I get from pleasuring a girl with my mouth is AMAZING!!!
(b) Sometimes there's an adoration issue, like you want to actually worship her, like in going down on her, you're actually subjugating yourself and giving her the upper hand... There's an element of surrender... At times I have no problem with that, in fact, I like that... But it's rather the opposite of the above, and NOT something you'd want to do every time...
(c) Most obviously, women taste amazing! And the reaction of a girl who's being competently licked out is its own reward... For larger guys, your own moisture and her ensuing lubrication will ease the passage when you move things to the next level...
Perhaps because I'm older and come from a country that's been sexually repressed for generations, (my father once said, while watching an oral sex scene in a TV movie, "Even ANIMALS wouldn't do THAT!!!") (Poor Mom!) I still come across girls who aren't entirely comfortable with the idea of a guy kissing their muff... I find taking it slowly works... Sometimes to amazing success! But for me, it's a deal-breaker..... If you're my girl I want all of you, especially THAT!
xx SF
(SHIT! Just realised this is 'Ask The Gals' and I'm NOT a 'Gal'..... Oh, Dear..... I'll remove this if asked.....