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Do women dislike or resent the use of the slang "Cunt"?

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I don't like the word at all. In fact I posted it in the "hated words" thread. It does not create a good image in my head, and is akin to "gash" for me. And as another stated, when I read it in a story, I will either stop reading the story or it really puts cold water on it for me sexually. Now with that said, I have used the word... as a derogatory term for a woman who TRULY deserves it. It is to me, the worse insult you can give... and unfortunately there are some out there that fits the word. But they are few.
I truly hate this word. I won’t read it, and if I see it in a story, I either stop reading, or change it to pussy. I think it’s so harsh, and gross. I won’t even say it, unless I am truly pissed off, and refer someone as it. Which in most cases, they are. But it’s extreme for me to have to use it. It’s so unnecessary to use, especially in stories.
I am not sure I only used it once while drunk and angry, my wife smacked me, her girl friend took a swing at me and a waitress walking behind me bend a large aluminum trey over my head. So I am guessing they do not like the word in fact!
Interesting how fuck is fine but cunt is not.
It must be a matter of inferences via upbringing and psych thought processes more so than the sound itself (which is what I use to think)
Plunger I think you may be correct . From your description of it, they did not like it..

I find it , disrespectful, degrading, belittling,derogatory,It is not a term that I use..& If I was of the Female gender , the first time some guy wanting to prove his masculinity called me / refered to me as such , He would be sleeping by himself & instantly responsible for his own gratification..Guys if I stepped on some toes sorry But That is how I feel.

Always thought that women were to be honored, respected, protected & cherished.then came E.R.A.now one cant even open a door for them.. still don't use that word..
To me Fuck is a action, while the other refers to a female / or a part of .
I guess that must be it - to some of us it's just a strong word for anatomy . . . cock and cunt are on the same level for me. Where as I rarely think of it in regard to a female - I don't recall ever calling someone a cunt, and a time or two when I was called one i thought it was an odd insult choice and had 0 affect on me.

Maybe that's because when I want to insult someone - I don't resort to singular terms? I get intensely creative. LOL
I absolutely despise it. Pussy I'm fine with, because it sounds delicate and is heard more commonly. Can't be disturbed by vagina either, as that's the anatomical name for it.
Growing up in the current century I've become accustomed to hearing many swear words. "Cunt" however, I find degrading, belittling and downright disgusting. I view any man who uses it as selfish, and only caring about getting himself off while he's with a woman. I can't exactly describe why I hate it so much, but all I know is that no matter how angry I am, I will never use it as part of my vocabulary.
I do agree with not liking this word being used in stories. It is a turn off and I am just like eh come one use something else. I dont see it as degrading though even though that is how it is commonly used especially in the kind of stories I read on here. It is just not sexy. I dont mind the word or it being used just dont find it an attractive word to be used
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I hate the word, I cringe. I'll stop reading a story if I see it in one.


Really? You hate 'cringe'? What about the word...binge...or hinge...or maybe tinge? Anyways, I thought the thread was about the other 'C' word.W9OHYdo99ZpK7DMZ
during sex, along w/ all the other dirty talk, it's fine.
People around me use that word all the time here, to me, it's just another swear word. Not better or worse than any other curse word you could use.
Depends who is saying it and how it is being used.


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its just a word. if anyone thinks they can have power over me with just a word they are very mistaken.
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I hate the word, I cringe. I'll stop reading a story if I see it in one.


lol - i'LL warn you right now, then, not to read any of mine. i OWN that word. in the context i use it in, it's a beautiful word. have i ever called someone else a cunt? no. it's vile when used like that, but god, i love cunts. they're beautiful, sexy, just amazing, and yes, i am not afraid to use it. a little dirty talk in the bedroom is a turn on in with the right person at the right time and i love hearing it coming out of my girl's mouth too. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

My wife loves the word 'cunt' when we are having sex. She says it much more than I do and in fact has instructed me to use it more often during physical amorous activity.

'Pussy' is great but 'cunt' is edgier. 'Snatch' is good too. I love to see many different words used. 'Beaver' and 'twat' should be used more in stories. And don't hold back using as many slang words for 'dick' and 'cock.' The same old words over and over get tiresome, unoriginal and boring.


She grabbed that enormous snake eyed tallywhacker of his and engulfed that throbbing monster with her dripping snatch. Her clit danced a light fandango as she waltzed her cunt all over his sweaty torso.
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My wife loves the word 'cunt' when we are having sex. She says it much more than I do and in fact has instructed me to use it more often during physical amorous activity.

'Pussy' is great but 'cunt' is edgier. 'Snatch' is good too. I love to see many different words used. 'Beaver' and 'twat' should be used more in stories. And don't hold back using as many slang words for 'dick' and 'cock.' The same old words over and over get tiresome, unoriginal and boring.


She grabbed that enormous snake eyed tallywhacker of his and engulfed that throbbing monster with her dripping snatch. Her clit danced a light fandango as she waltzed her cunt all over his sweaty torso.


that reminds me, i need to throw "snatch" into one of my stories for you again, Buz. no extra charge. ;)

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

have no problem with it, say it in daily life, it's a word i use very often! no different to fuck, shit etc etc!
Everything happens for a reason. Live for the moment and have no regrets.
I luv it! Naughty or dirty words at the right moment really push me over the edge
I luv it! Naughty or dirty words at the right moment really push me over the edge
I luv it! Naughty or dirty words at the right moment really push me over the edge
Personally, no. I think it's pretty hot. I love dirty talk, and something about the word 'cunt' really just turns me on.
omg I hate that word. it definitley ruins my mood
Actually only when used in the right context, or moment. I love filthy sex talk when it's getting WOW, OMFG!! Wiutch also during such time, Hell you can call it any damn ting you want. Just DON"T FUCKING STOP! LOL.

But, Honestly the word really don't bother me like (SNATCH) does. That's just disgusting sounding.
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I luv it! Naughty or dirty words at the right moment really push me over the edge


Totally agree, I love dirty talk. The filthier the harder I cum!
I use it when I'm mad. It doesn't bother me one way or another. If someone uses it to much in a story I'll stop reading.
I use it when I'm mad. It doesn't bother me one way or another. If someone uses it to much in a story I'll stop reading.
I love it! So erotic especially when being used in a degrading manner
My wife hated for me to use that word but I loved to say it and when I got her hot, made her say Fuck my Cunt! and Fuck me. Made her call my friend and tell him to come up and fuck her cunt, she didn't like either words unless she was hot then she would say anything.
I dont like the word much really, but occasionally it slips out when i'm hugely pissed off. (or describing my ex)

But in regards to Sex? I love it, i love talking dirty, and i think that word works really well and arouses me..... when referencing my pussy.....

I would not like to be called that tho.....