Hi Girls,
Last week I was involved in a real big Gangbang. About 6 women and more that 40! men. What should I say - it was mind-blowing.
So here is an interesting aspect. I was always a bit afraid that a gangbang would feel like I am degrading women and treat them with disrespect. But this was more an experience of women becoming very powerful orchestrators of using lots of men for their personal exhaustive satisfaction. If one guy pulled out, was used up, those girls just grabbed the next one as their lust servant. It was the opposite of what I was expecting. And I saw amazing female orgasms - mind-blowing ones.
What's your opinion on this? Ever made an experience like this?
Tom
I can't say it ever made me feel powerful. Just the opposite really. Once things get going I feel like it's totally out of my control and I couldn't stop it if I tried. It is very arousing but more helpless than powerful at the time.
Alison xxx
Never did one so cant comment. But somehow it would seem that the guys would feel more powerful like they are controlling and dominating you.
Never had one and I'm not sure if I would. I love to watch it in porn but that's about it.
this is a really interesting question. I'd say yes, but from a point of view closer to Alison's, if that makes any sense. In that, giving myself to a group of men is powerful because I control the giving up of my body. They want me, they want to cum. I hold the strings to their satisfaction. I enjoy the powerlessness of them having me, but it was me who gave myself to them.
I just read that back and it makes no sense. but that's my take LOL!
Hm, this is a really interesting thread, especially because of the use of language; that is, gangbang vs orgy. Gangbang is a very onomatopoaeic word, and its first definition in the OED is gang , which is commonly seen in mainstream porn. However the second definition is sexual orgy, so in that sense it is no wonder that the women involved, as commented on here, feel in control and empowered by the experience.
My college sex experience started with a gangbang. Mostly from then on I just watched. In most there would be 2 girls who seemed to be in competition with each other to see which one could be the loudest, wildest, and most vulgar. The girls did seem empowered by it. It was always their choice to do so and I have to say I was surprised to find out that so many girls wanted to experience that before they finished college. A lot of guys didn't want to participate because of performance anxiety in front of a crowd.
As someone that has been gangbanged several times, I can tell you that even when I had planned it, I quickly lost control over what happened to me. I loved every minute but the guys did whatever they wanted.
Well as other guys have posted here I will too. I've never been involved in a gang bang, but I can understand both points of view. A situation wherein the female controls the action might well be one that would make her feel powerful, but I can readily see how quickly control could slip away from her. Once that happens then she becomes the controlled and used. The closet I've ever come was as a young Marine and I made sure I was FIRST with the hooker or at worst second in line, any further back didn't make it.
I have been in on a few Gangbangs also. Some planned and some not so much. In the later more guys arrived than expected and things went where it was not planned.
I am not sure if the word power is the correct word or not.
It does give a feeling of believing you are so desirable sex will get you anything you want. When you are with one guy you may not be the hottest girl in town but how can a group of guys all be wrong
The Orgies I have been involved is where everyone was in agreement and each person would move from person to person. As they wished and be accepted in the same manner.
A Gangbang my not be , but it can be much closer to it than an orgy.
But I have playing these games much longer than most on Lush
I've only been gang-banged twice. The first time I was blindfolded with my hands tied to the bedposts. The whole idea was to relinquish control because I'm usually always in control sexually. I wanted to see what it was like to be completely helpless without even knowing who was fucking me. It was breathlessly thrilling, but scary at the same time. I was emotionally exhausted afterwards. The second time, I was completely in control, and it WAS a rush having so many guys wanting me so badly, and me deciding who got to do what to me and when.
Twice - overcum more than powerful.
I was younger, willing, sexually experienced and surprised how well I handled it. I wont say it was the most enjoyable experience I have ever had but an experience I was willing to have.
After the second event I said never again - I felt used, and I haven't.
