Anyone who has read my posts on the forum or my stories will have made a mental note that I respond to rough sex, be it with a man or woman.
All my early sexual experiences were and still are of that nature so I came to expect to be treated that way.
I feel accepted when treated as a sex object and feel valued for being that way and I find it hard to respond to someone being nice and loving towards me.
Is it just me or have other women been in the same predicament?