Does this make me bi?

13 Oct 2013

Hello ladies.

I'm married and have had the curiosity to suck a man's penis for a few years. I recently was in a position where I had the oppotunity to do so. I did it and I must say that it wasn't bad. I'll most likely do it again if the circumstances allow it. I love making love to my wife but am I bi? I don't go out looking for men, or women. It just happened but I liked it.

13 Oct 2013

Thinking / fantasising about sucking another man's cock is known as 'bi-curious'. Actually doing it and enjoying it would probably take you over the line into being 'bi-sexual' by most definitions. But at the end of the day, definitions are just labels so that we can easily categorise people - how you choose to apply those labels is up to you. It's pretty easy for people to be labelled by what they do; it's much harder to apply labels to how someone thinks and what they feel, particularly if they keep parts of themselves secret.

14 Oct 2013

I agree with someone else on here..if u just think about it then u r bi-curious...But you my friend are bi...so accept it and move on.

14 Oct 2013

You are bi not curious. And if you think you want to do it again, you will, that's exactly how all bi's start out. Relax, don't beat yourself up over it, enjoy being one of us. A hint, let your wife know if you think she could handle it, it makes it a lot less stressful and enjoyable.