I was tipsy and chatting with someone I'd just connected with ... and ultimately they didn't believe I was a female.
I was honestly offended at first because I thought it was a new cheap way to pressure for pics ... but after I thought about it I realized that some people just can't fathom women being kinky.
Well, we are ... we exist ... and that's good enough for me and it should be good enough for you, too, kinky queens.
Their loss. Not yours.
I wondered once if someone I was chatting with was actually a man posing as a woman. Then I thought about it and realized that as I was never planning on meeting this person in real life… who cares?! Could be a 3 fingered alien with 14 dicks and 3 vaginas. If they wanted to be a woman online it’s none of my business.
So now unless it’s a very specific reason (such as claiming to be a woman so they can say really misogynistic things on forums) I just let people be what they want.
It’s rude and serves no purpose otherwise. I guess it could be like you suspected and maybe an attempt at manipulating pics, or it could be internalized beliefs that a woman has to act a certain way. Either way it’s dumb.
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I wondered once if someone I was chatting with was actually a man posing as a woman. Then I thought about it and realized that as I was never planning on meeting this person in real life… who cares?! Could be a 3 fingered alien with 14 dicks and 3 vaginas. If they wanted to be a woman online it’s none of my business.
So now unless it’s a very specific reason (such as claiming to be a woman so they can say really misogynistic things on forums) I just let people be what they want.
It’s rude and serves no purpose otherwise. I guess it could be like you suspected and maybe an attempt at manipulating pics, or it could be internalized beliefs that a woman has to act a certain way. Either way it’s dumb.
I suppose some guys do that. Unlike what this individual tried to convince me of, I certainly don't believe a lot of guys do that. I think it's occasional - not very common. Likewise I can imagine some women might do it, too. Maybe more often if nothing more than to just avoid being pounced on by guys when they log in.
I see why it might be a concern if someone's very attached to "straight" as their sexual identity. Or, like you mentioned, wanting to start a real life connection. But if we're all just having fun does it matter too much? I'm bi so maybe I just really don't care.
Oh, this is normal.
Users that tend to ask for pics, don't share recent selfies, it's usually some hella distorted pic from yrs ago.
I still share pics but w/ users who no longer have anything to do w/ lush anymore. I don't see myself sharing pics w/ lush users at all, again. I still recall that guy who gave me access to his pvt pic folder and it was all pics of him from yesteryear lol nothing recent
Oh, but I do post from time to time recordings through Vocaroo.
I was once shanked in the chat rooms for not being a woman because of the images in my public album.
"You're obviously a man! No woman would post pictures like that!"
Pointing out that I selected the images with a strict 'anti man's eye, there's a real story if you can see it' criteria and that more than half were taken by women over the last 100 years made no difference.
I'm still here. She isn't.
No One's ever accused me of being a woman 😭
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You are most definitely not a woman lol
Should this Dork be offended? 🤔
